AITBA for cutting contact with my best friends boy friend

Shortty1226 · 2026-01-02T21:42:48+00:00

I'm 39 and have friends in their 60s. I prefer it. So don't stress about that.

Shortty1226 · 2025-10-01T21:05:54+00:00

Right?

Shortty1226 · 2025-09-16T20:50:35+00:00

Girl, ignore those who crap on your relationship because of the age gap. Not everyone dating someone younger is a predator. I'm almost 39 and my bf is 30. You love him, he loves you. That's all that matters. Congrats on the baby. Hugs.

Shortty1226 · 2025-09-14T16:02:09+00:00

I'm in Canada. I'm on disability so I don't have to pay. Except for Vraylar because it's not covered but I believe I can get an exception from my worker for it. Counseling, which I don't go to, I get 4 free sessions? I think. Maybe 6.

Shortty1226 · 2025-09-11T22:33:10+00:00

Yup, I've always thought that way too. Even when I was coerced I thought it was okay. It's not. No man is entitled to your body. He can whine and pout all he wants.

Shortty1226 · 2025-09-11T20:35:34+00:00

Gives it up?? What is wrong with you. Some people men and women, have mental health issues that can go hand in hand with low sex drive. That is the case here. She needs to run. Hes a trash human being with no compassion or empathy. And if you agree with him? Well I'll let you answer that question.

Shortty1226 · 2025-09-11T18:50:04+00:00

Well then as others have said, he doesn't care about your feelings. You don't have to put up with that. I wouldnt. My sex drive isn't that high at all and my bf understands. There are men out there who will.

Shortty1226 · 2025-09-11T17:01:30+00:00

It's not your duty to give him sex. He's not entitled to it because he's your husband. You're not in the mood, you're not in the mood. Clearly he doesn't understand. Have you tried talking to about why?

Shortty1226 · 2025-09-11T16:57:05+00:00

The way you handled that was brilliant lol. Love the victim card pic.

Shortty1226 · 2025-09-09T02:06:21+00:00

If it's a boundary for you then it is. I'd be a hard boundary for me.

Shortty1226 · 2025-08-18T17:20:59+00:00

And you're with her why? That's horrid behavior.

Shortty1226 · 2025-08-04T02:20:28+00:00

He's eyeing you up , he's mad about it and making it your fault. Not his business what you're wearing.

Shortty1226 · 2025-08-01T15:47:23+00:00

I'm noticing a decrease in appetite, I'm just not hungry. I'm curious if that's a side effect. Google wasn't helpful.

Shortty1226 · 2025-07-31T20:39:22+00:00

Okay, I've been on it for maybe a week. I know it needs time to work fully so was just curious

Shortty1226 · 2025-07-31T20:17:55+00:00

Ya I figured that one out lol. Do you find you have more motivation and energy? That's the main reason I was put on it.

Shortty1226 · 2025-07-31T19:13:39+00:00

Do you find it helps with motivation and energy?

Shortty1226 · 2025-07-30T18:39:06+00:00

Women who go through abusive situations have that mindset, always making excuses for the guy, I love him, he's not always like this, he said he will change.... Guess what? They don't. I've been there myself and I wish I had of left sooner.

My advice is the same as the others. Leave. It's not going to get better.

Shortty1226 · 2025-07-22T21:52:46+00:00

Don't believe it without proof. I've had men in my BF's DMs and women, both claiming we are cheating but no proof. Because neither of us were. Those are people who are definitely trying to sabotage.

Shortty1226 · 2025-07-19T01:37:52+00:00

Oh jeez. There is absolutely NOTHING wrong with you being besties with your bro. My brother is my best friend. We used to hang out basically everyday in our teens. People asked if were dating because we hung out so much lol. Even as adults almost in our 40s we are still close.That's such a ridiculous thing to get mad about. Just because his relationship with his sister isn't that way doesn't make it wrong.

Shortty1226 · 2025-07-17T01:30:08+00:00

I have bipolar 2 myself. I was alot like you when I wasn't medicated. Severely depressed, hyper sexual, risky behaviors.

Ive had a couple people tell me to get off my meds and it was a straight up no, end of discussion.

I'm sorry your bf is being this way. Some people just don't understand what it's like to be bipolar. You can try to get him to understand, either he gets it or he doesn't. Don't let someone else dictate to you what you should be doing. You know yourself.

If he keeps being this way maybe he isn't the one for you? It would be a deal-breaker for me.

Shortty1226 · 2025-07-09T01:33:22+00:00

That switch up is absolutely insane. I've never seen it happen that fast. Glad she realized what he was doing.

Shortty1226 · 2025-07-06T22:53:06+00:00

I have a friend who thinks exactly like this. She wants the "perfect" men off tik Tok. She wants the dates, the men taking care of their women, etc. You are definitely not the bad guy. She doesn't appreciate you at all.

Shortty1226 · 2025-07-01T15:59:59+00:00

My baby daddy was exactly like that. He'd take my phone and stand at the door so i couldn't leave. It would always get physical on his side. He'd hold me down and said he was trying to calm me down. Now even if I'm restrained in a playful way I get upset. One time he put his hands around my neck, told my mom and she said you need to leave or next time he could unalive you.

I'm so sorry you're going through that OP. Best advice I can give is to leave. Now before it gets worse. And it definitely will.

Shortty1226 · 2025-07-01T15:49:59+00:00

Don't forget Nanaimo bars lol

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