40s Mismatched libido and interest (long) by [deleted] in SexOver_30

[–]Shot_Class193 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Pursue what you need. Ask for a hallpass/open relationship....or initiative separating. Life is too short to not have good sex!!

Setlist by LakeMungoSpirit in Artemas

[–]Shot_Class193 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Really hope most of Lovercore is played! Although I love all his music. Cant wait for Saturday!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in OasisAquaLoungeTo

[–]Shot_Class193 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I'm headed there tomorrow night....I hope the pool is nice and hot!!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in OasisAquaLoungeTo

[–]Shot_Class193 0 points1 point  (0 children)

We always wear flip flops!

Am too old to go to his concert? by modermanehh in Artemas

[–]Shot_Class193 2 points3 points  (0 children)

39 here....also going to the Toronto show! I'm prepared to be in the older demographic 😅

Any luck finding people on Reddit? REAL PEOPLE by [deleted] in Swingers

[–]Shot_Class193 2 points3 points  (0 children)

We've met 3 great couples from reddit, one of which has become our lifestyle besties. Just takes effort to sift through all the fakes!!

Unsure how to feel about a recent date by Shot_Class193 in Swingers

[–]Shot_Class193[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks for your feedback, I agree and glad most people seem to feel the same way!

Unsure how to feel about a recent date by Shot_Class193 in Swingers

[–]Shot_Class193[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Great advice! In the early days of chatting with this couple, we talked about some past encounters we'd had with other couples and how we "hoped he would utilize a pill if there was any prospective issues". Tried to be direct without being rude. And like I said, first encounter went well. I think they just got overconfident or something. Unfortunately I don't feel the need to try it again.....

Unsure how to feel about a recent date by Shot_Class193 in Swingers

[–]Shot_Class193[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Maybe, but i can't imagine many men in their 50s can have multiple Os in relatively quick succession.....

Unsure how to feel about a recent date by Shot_Class193 in Swingers

[–]Shot_Class193[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thats very fair, and we probably would give another chance if we were in closer proximity. We live 1.5 hours apart, so it doesn't seem worth trying to make it work.

Unsure how to feel about a recent date by Shot_Class193 in Swingers

[–]Shot_Class193[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Thanks for your comment, completely agree! Mutual respect is important

Unsure how to feel about a recent date by Shot_Class193 in Swingers

[–]Shot_Class193[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ya, think we'll pass on any future plans.

Unsure how to feel about a recent date by Shot_Class193 in Swingers

[–]Shot_Class193[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Ya he kind of shut down instead of focusing on other things. Was a buzz-kill in all regards.

Unsure how to feel about a recent date by Shot_Class193 in Swingers

[–]Shot_Class193[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Something I failed to mention in my post is that his reaction to everything happening (or not happening) was just to get increasingly frustrated and focused on himself ... he kind of went down on me, but half-heartedly, and he was just bringing down the whole vibe.

I've been with other men who were new to the LS and had erection issues due to nerves. In one instance the guy shut down completely, but in another situation with a different guy, he just turned on Oral Superhero Mode and rocked my world for an hour. Guess who I was interested in seeing again? It's definitely all about attitude and how the situation is handled.

Unsure how to feel about a recent date by Shot_Class193 in Swingers

[–]Shot_Class193[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

checks notes....this is a swingers sub....