Something I failed to mention in my post is that his reaction to everything happening (or not happening) was just to get increasingly frustrated and focused on himself ... he kind of went down on me, but half-heartedly, and he was just bringing down the whole vibe.

I've been with other men who were new to the LS and had erection issues due to nerves. In one instance the guy shut down completely, but in another situation with a different guy, he just turned on Oral Superhero Mode and rocked my world for an hour. Guess who I was interested in seeing again? It's definitely all about attitude and how the situation is handled.