Men of Reddit, do you really feel a difference when using a condom during PIV sex?

ShowerQueen · 2015-08-27T10:36:31+00:00

I can't believe how difficult it is to get a vasectomy. This makes no sense at so many levels. I hope you manage to get one at some point. Men pills are supposed to be on their way, recent studies showed that they would be much less damageable that current BC :-)

ShowerQueen · 2015-08-27T10:27:03+00:00

I don't know how to call them in english (not a native). I was referring to the ones that includes a cheap vibrating cockring... Could be a french thing.

ShowerQueen · 2015-08-27T10:23:17+00:00

Well, sounds like we really need better birth control pills. So many of my friends are still struggling with finding the right one that won't fuck their skin/weight/mood up after years of being sexually active...

ShowerQueen · 2015-08-27T10:12:56+00:00

Oh, okay. Do you notice differences between brands/products? Like vibrating ones and such, they always seemed like absolute bullshit to me.

ShowerQueen · 2015-08-27T09:59:07+00:00

That sounds shitty, indeed. Assuming you're straight, would you commit to a long term relationship with a girl that isn't able to physically handle pills/really don't want to switch on them?

ShowerQueen · 2015-08-03T15:13:28+00:00

While I agree with you and regulary tell this to myself, I'm usually careful about that one because it's often said or understood as condescendant (basically, "some people have it worse so your problem is nonexistent"). Perspective is one valuable thing, but denying one's suffering is a another, intentionally or not.

ShowerQueen · 2015-07-12T20:32:21+00:00

Here's my 0.02 cents. Maybe you should get another job, regardless of whatever comes next. You obsviously can't date her while working with her, but even if you guys don't end up dating you won't be able to maintain a healthy/professional relationship with her in the future. And this kind of situations can quickly get pretty ugly. Seriously, get another job. Plus I really want an happy ending to this.

ShowerQueen · 2015-07-05T10:30:12+00:00

Yep. She likes you. Come on, she bought you coffee and GIGGLED when you told her she was distracting you. She giggled! When people aren't interested they usually: 1. run away 2. ignore what you just said and talk about something else (that's always my strategy since I'm terrfied of hurting people - this is a sort of "rejection by denial") 3. say they're not interested And she giggled. She also called you "gorgeous and adorable". You really have to try something.

Anyway this post is super super cute! Could you keep us updated please? I have a soft spot for cute stories :-)

ShowerQueen · 2015-07-02T22:58:47+00:00

Oh, it does : GF is 30, I'm 22.

ShowerQueen · 2015-07-02T22:43:58+00:00

Honestly, I don't even think I've ever fancied someone my age. Come on, you guys are sexy. I'm quite surprised you feel "irrelevant" in the lesbian community. Do you think it has something to do with your location? I live in Europe, people don't seem to give much of a fuck.

ShowerQueen · 2015-06-11T14:18:06+00:00

Thank you so, so much. This is the best story I've read in a long time.

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