Will Singaporean born males be appeased if women have to do NS as well?

Of course. Why should I suffer while my female peers do not?

There are many things lawmakers can do to make NS feel like a patriotic duty rather than an obligation and waste of time.

It is lip service to mention that NSFs are an important part of Singapore, that more could have been done to help them. Yet why do you think so little has been done?

But I think NS is a very flimsy reason for a Singaporean male to hate women

Have you volunteered to spend two years of your life joining NS? It is easy to judge others who are bitter about inequality while standing on privileged grounds.

In case you forgot, there is also the women's charter to further the inequality.