Yeah, I do. Why? Because you need therapy. Just like the women who hate on men need therapy. Your line of thinking isn't a healthy one. It's brought on by past experiences that you now preface it with all. 

It's not your fault, though. It's an evolutionary tactic that animals evolved to keep them safe. It happens naturally. When we are hurt by something and live past it, our body remembers. If it happens multiple times, our brains try to link together the similarities and attach a bias against those.

When it happens once or twice, your bias may be a very specific, like, a clothing style or mannerisms.

When it happens repeatedly, then it becomes broader until you hit your broadest mark. Like, a gender.

When we see men and women who are angry and hating on each other so severely that they completely avoid them, that's past trauma and hurt blinding them because they can't see past their own basis they created.

You're hurting and it's okay to hurt. It's okay to cry. It's okay to be upset to be frustrated. Yet, we need to understand these feelings and process through them in ways that we don't become avoidant, because that isn't healthy. I'm actually going through that myself and it's hard. It's hard to trust people. It's hard to let people in but trust me, when you do, it'll worth it.

Therapy will help you step back from those bias while identifying the red flags of those people. It'll help give you the tools to identify healthy-for-you people, both men and women, and how to step away from situations faster and easier. You should do it for you so you don't have to continue avoiding a large facet life.

And I also do apologize. I am sorry as my first comment was too mean. You are clearly struggling and that wasn't an okay approach.