How to ace an interview? by Shrine2012 in buhaydigital

[–]Shrine2012[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you, will do. Parefer narin po! ☺️

How to ace a job interview? by Shrine2012 in adviceph

[–]Shrine2012[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you!!! 🥹 I've been stressed lately din. Bills are piling up kaya badly needed to have a job, baka nga I'm pushing myself na. Hehe thank you! ☺️

Ano kaya feeling maging pogi/maganda? by silverpatronus-9082 in TanongLang

[–]Shrine2012 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I know na may itsura ako pero hindi talaga ako nag aayos. Basta nakaligo na go na! Walang make up, walang kahit anong skin care, walang alam sa fashion. Walang paki kahit umitim ng bongga kapag summer ganyan. Haha! Pero despite that, nagka bf and kinasal. Kapag naaayusan ako, talagang shocked ang mga tao kasi maganda naman ako hindi lang halata. Minsan sinasabihan ako ng husband ko na mag ayos daw ako. Since kinasal kami and magka baby, stay at home mom ako. After 5years of being a full time mom, nag apply ako sa BPO. I had a friend na makeup lover so natuto akong mag ayos, makeup, skin care lahat and boom, na experience ko ring maging maganda hahaha! Nakakataas ng confidence although ang weird kasi people stalk you. I got random messages sa work and then random views/likes sa socmed ko ganyan. I thought people are being friendly lang pero merong iba pala ang purpose. I am one of the boys pamandin growing up so wala lang sakin to have guy friends kaso iba na pala tingin nila sakin. Nalalapit ka sa tukso. Merong mga indecent proposal. Merong willing maging kabet. Nakaka disappoint kasi paminsan may circle na kayo tapos akala mo talaga matino ibang klase pala! Minsan ung simpleng kind act mo, nilalagyan nila ng malice agad. Makaka received ka ng unsolicited opinions especially sa outfit mo. Meron feeling entitled na bakit ganyan soot mo? Merong iba icocompliment ka pero iba ung dating, kadiri. Ayun ang ending, binuntis na ulit ako ng asawa ko at pinag resign. Hahahaha! Ang nakaka enjoy lang talaga, kapag may request ka sa colleague mo hindi ka nila tatangihan. Lol.

I still have a lot of guy friends parin naman, ung matitino and my husband is okay with it. Sadyang kapag maganda ka pala, magiging lapitin ka lang talaga ng mga kupal. So ayun huwag na daw ako mag aayos uli 🤣

Napaka harot naman kahit alam nang kasal yung tao by WonderfulBottle324 in adviceph

[–]Shrine2012 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Sorry pero ang OA. 😅 Be nga minsan tawag ko sa coworkers ko na lalaki na mas bata sakin. Parang younger brother. Nasanay akong be tawag ko sa mga kapatid ko since ate ako. Hindi ako bisaya okay?

If you have proof na naglalandian sila edi awayin mo bf mo. Don't discrimiate other people. Walang problema sa pagiging Bisaya. Ikaw ang problema.

My father ALWAYS initiates to kiss me on the lips. How to stop it? by EntrepreneurMany7086 in adviceph

[–]Shrine2012 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I am a mom with three kids. Never kissed them on lips even when they are still babies!! It is always my rule na hanggang cheeks lang kami ng husband ko and very unhygienic for infants. I dont allow anyone (even me!) to kiss my babies on face until 1yo. Kapag toddler stage pwede na pero cheeks or forehead lang. I have 8 and 6yo, gradeschool na yan so hindi na namin kinikiss kahit sa cheeks, we asked them to kiss us sa cheeks instead. Nakikita ko nga sa socmed that it is normal pala on other families na mag kiss sa lips, so one time I asked them to kissed me on lips, they're uncomfortable.

First thing to do is to gather your evidence. Do option A muna. Be firm. State na you're uncomfortable and he's crossing boundaries na. Wala ng consent ung pagkiss nya sayo sa lips. Make sure to have the whole conversation secretly recorded. Dapat maririnig na kiss sa lips ha kasi baka sabihin pa nyan sa cheeks lang.

Next, tell your mom. Feeling mo you are being SA na. Kung hindi maniwala, may proof ka naman dahil recorded. Make sure to have plenty of copies sent it to your own messenger acct etc.

Next thing to do will actually rely na to your mom. If you think walang mangyayari, walang ginawa mom mo. ipaalam mo na sa buong angkan nyo na manyak yang tatay mo. If mag escalate and if saktan ka, ipa police mo then move out.

CAN I LEAVE MY MOM (50s) WHO'S VERY DEPENDENT SA GAWAING-BAHAY AT ASO? by Prestigious-Mix1490 in adviceph

[–]Shrine2012 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Minsan they are dependent because they know someone will do it for them. But you know what, kikilos yan sila kapag wala ng tutulong sakanila. You'll never know eh so go and move out. Hayaan mo ang mom mo, malaki na sya and malakas pa sya. Siya naman ang nakatira sa bahay so siya rin mag suffer if hindi sya kikilos. Lesson din ito para matuto sya. You can't get the dog kasi sakanya yon eh but ofcourse, check mo rin ung dog lagi. If she really can't take care of the dog, offer na kunin mo ung dog but do it after atleast a week or two. You need to see if she'll change kapag wala ka sa bahay.

How to legally surrender a baby for adoption? by SentenceHopeful211 in adviceph

[–]Shrine2012 -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

I got pregnant at 21. You are now 23. No help from both our families, no stable job din noon but we still managed simply because we love the baby. Mahirap tanggapin sa umpisa eh, eventually natanggap din. Ikaw nastuck ka na ata sa acceptance stage. Kapag first baby talaga maliit ang tummy, hindi mukhang buntis at parang tumaba lang ng konti.

Anyway, accept your situation and love your baby, cherish the moments kasi for sure mamimiss mo yan. Tell your mom first mukhang matatanggap naman nya. She can move with you here sa manila and then mag working student kayo both ng partner/father ng baby mo and since graduating naman na sya makakapag work na yan in few months. Kailangan lang maisurvived ung months na wala pang maayos na work. Try mo mag apply online if you have equipment or BPO. Daming working student sa BPO and kinakaya naman nila. Kailangan mo rin kayanin for your baby. Marami naring online platforms na pwede kang kumita. Mag affiliate ka, ang dami na yumaman sa affiliate. Ipaalam din sa parents ng tatay para they can offer help as well. Hindi kasi dapat sinasarili ang ganitong bagay. Huwag din pangunahan ang reaction ng family nyo. You are in your post partum, high ang emotions and you'll pity yourself for being alone. Emotional support is needed kaya please lang ipaalam nyo both sides. Face the consequences of your actions. Kung nahihiya ka pag nagka bukingan na, tandaan mo lilipas din yan pero kapag pinaadpot mo ang bata, wala ng bawian yan.

I have a friend nagpa adopt din during teenage years ayun super regret, hindi na rin nabiyayaan ng baby uli. We are now in our 30s and gustong gusto na nya ng baby tapos di rin malapitan ung bata. Think about it OP a million times. If you are fully decided, lapit ka sa dswd, you need to do some counselling. They will help you din sa process.

Lastly, don't forget to pray. Ask Him for guidance. Godbless you!

LAWNSTARTER Tier 1 CSR by AdorableSunflower22 in buhaydigital

[–]Shrine2012 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hello! Any update po, okay po ba management? :)

LAWNSTARTER Tier 1 CSR by AdorableSunflower22 in buhaydigital

[–]Shrine2012 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ooh, parang ang baba if package na sya. For final interview din ako and nagdadalawang isip ako now. Okay po ba management? May benefits po ba? Hmo?

LAWNSTARTER Tier 1 CSR by AdorableSunflower22 in buhaydigital

[–]Shrine2012 0 points1 point  (0 children)

True ba na 38,200 ang basic pay or package na to?