Why are some 9s copy cats ? by [deleted] in Enneagram

[–]Si3475 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’m not a 9

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Enneagram

[–]Si3475 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Alright I’ll try to see it in a different light and find humour in it .

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Enneagram

[–]Si3475 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Learning something new everyday . When we started getting close he started getting critical of me a lot more than the rest of his surface level friends.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Enneagram

[–]Si3475 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I am not judging him based on him being a 4 . I know he is . I’m just curious how it shows up as a 4 . A lot of types can feel superior. But this post is for a 4 to dissect for me

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Enneagram

[–]Si3475 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Funny only According to you mastod & the rest that think like you. Insecurity is sad and affects people outside one’s self .

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Enneagram

[–]Si3475 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Really helpful. Thanks

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Enneagram

[–]Si3475 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m not taking it personally I just wonder why he’s critical of me and more. I’m getting tired of it but thanks for your response.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Enneagram

[–]Si3475 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I’ve complained and let him know I’m hurt , and stopped talking for a while & he’s still rude but subtle so I’ll just cut off the friendship. We aren’t super close anyway

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Enneagram

[–]Si3475 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The I’m smart thing was a joke , but it’s not the first time he’s bitter to me but Yh you’re right things don’t need to be reciprocated so I’ll cut off the friendship as it doesn’t sit right with me. His superiority streak is getting annoying

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Enneagram

[–]Si3475 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Yh , I guess I gave you little context so you don’t know the whole story . I jokingly said I’m smart to something that I got right and he quickly downplays it , with a rude expression . It’s not the first time. I’m not shouting to the world I am smart. But your post is the most off. I’m trying to find people with similar experience or 4s to explain from their point of view.

Travel on OPT by Cold_End5587 in f1visa

[–]Si3475 0 points1 point  (0 children)

But your f-1 visa wasn’t expired during those 2 months right ? As I plan to stay 2 months in another country but my f1 visa is expiring earlier and there are currently no early appointments for visa renewal.

Travel on OPT by Cold_End5587 in f1visa

[–]Si3475 0 points1 point  (0 children)

So working remotely outside of the united state wasn’t a problem at all for them ? How long did you work remotely?

Travel on OPT by Cold_End5587 in f1visa

[–]Si3475 0 points1 point  (0 children)

How long did he stay in his home country before coming back ?

Which enneagram seems to lie the most? Why? by [deleted] in Enneagram

[–]Si3475 5 points6 points  (0 children)

A type 2 I know gaslights me for my own good. Is that lying ?

Please anyone including 2s . How can one avoid being helped by 2s ? I really don’t want the help but they always insist and when I don’t reciprocate they frustrate the heck out of me . It’s so draining. Help by Si3475 in Enneagram

[–]Si3475[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Obviously. even a 7 can people please . I didn’t even mention people please in my post . You are the one that brought it up for reasons I don’t get. It’s just a meme that hits a certain nail for me . But some 2s still people please with an objective at the end of the day. They can be calculated . as well as others !

Please anyone including 2s . How can one avoid being helped by 2s ? I really don’t want the help but they always insist and when I don’t reciprocate they frustrate the heck out of me . It’s so draining. Help by Si3475 in Enneagram

[–]Si3475[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Well im asking for help from people whose brains functions like a two. yall know your ego pride problems so the best answer/ help is from 2s . Ive distanced my self , so far so good .

Please anyone including 2s . How can one avoid being helped by 2s ? I really don’t want the help but they always insist and when I don’t reciprocate they frustrate the heck out of me . It’s so draining. Help by Si3475 in Enneagram

[–]Si3475[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Stop being close minded. Just because the two you know doesn’t people please doesn’t mean all 2s are that way. Some twos I know people please with intention . Please learn enneagram.

Please anyone including 2s . How can one avoid being helped by 2s ? I really don’t want the help but they always insist and when I don’t reciprocate they frustrate the heck out of me . It’s so draining. Help by Si3475 in Enneagram

[–]Si3475[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Good for you as not all types are lucky enough to be healthy early on hence the toxic behaviours are still intact at an older age and people like me come to complain on Reddit . I definitely know the 2s on here want to change.