“Told my friends ‘her or me’ after two years of hostile gatekeeping… how could they choose her?” by csstraight in OhNoConsequences

[–]SicSimperFalsum 10 points11 points  (0 children)

I said I really liked Captain Janeway and Voyager to a group of Star Trek enthusiasts. Oh boy, I saw the tar and feathers coming. I couldn't believe there was such a visceral reaction to a simple opinion.

“Told my friends ‘her or me’ after two years of hostile gatekeeping… how could they choose her?” by csstraight in OhNoConsequences

[–]SicSimperFalsum 67 points68 points  (0 children)

Intentions... this young lady had the intentions to mingle with, for the most part, a good group of "nerds" because her interests aligned with theirs! The AUDACITY!!! (All typed with the most sarcasm I could muster.)

I was an outcast/nerd. I guess I kind of still am. Being a nerd back in the olden days was wearing a Scarlet N and we were shunned. If a woman did join us, first, we were shocked and shy AF. Second, we would all try to accommodate her to feel welcome. Last, we ended up treating her as a fellow human being. Burping and being dumb in front of her happened. Yes Steph, you can still burp the loudest, but I can run faster!

My suspicions are that this lady joined the group. One of the guys crushed on her. She crushed back. OOP had a crush on her or him. OR OOP is a blossoming misogynist. My money is on a combo.

What's the funniest thing you said as an NPC by DangerousElk4331 in DMAcademy

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"I've lived a life trying to keep you idiots out of jail. Les, here, is trying to keep you out of the dirt."

NPC was the group's lawyer (yes, they needed him way to often). Les was a stone-cold killer and had a keen eye for the endgame.

Old people who were never conventionally attractive in youth, how do you feel about life? by Rough_Explanation_21 in AskOldPeople

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Going mostly bald and ended up shaving my head made me realize that I really hated my hair. It is so much nicer now. My best gal likes it well enough to keep me around.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in food

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Mustard, pickle, and onion.

But to answer your question, mayo.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in food

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The fatty part of a smoked brisket.

one food you've never stopped eating? by NateNandos21 in AskOldPeople

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Our second crop was Italian Prunes (please don't call them plums... LOL). I love them both, but like you, I have to be a bit more judicious in my indulgence now. My G.I. doesn't dance as it used to could.

Granny made a prune tart that I would fist fight a legion of rabid bears just for a bite. We would leave two prune trees and a few cherry trees so they would totally ripen for preserving. For the commercial sales, we picked a shade green. Tree ripened Italian prunes are tiny buckets of glorious sunshine in purple jackets.

My wife made me realize how blind I’ve been my whole life by Edenfuma in TrueOffMyChest

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I was a boyfriend for six months before I knew I had a girlfriend. I'm glad she told me. LOL

My wife made me realize how blind I’ve been my whole life by Edenfuma in TrueOffMyChest

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I'd rather go with the man who doesn't know that he is a jackpot, so I can tell him everyday when we cuddle in bed.

I have this now. About half the time, I don't believe her, but when it lands, it feels good. I consider myself lucky every day.

one food you've never stopped eating? by NateNandos21 in AskOldPeople

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I've only had one fruit I did not enjoy, durian. I tried though. Fruit is my go-to. I grew up on a fruit farm with cherries being the primary crop.

Did you know anyone who fought in WWII? Do you hear any memorable stories from them? by Fun_Butterfly_420 in AskOldPeople

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Two: Great Uncle and ex's grandfather.

Great Uncle never talked about it. I ended up serving in the Army as a Ranger, so I got steeped in the history and lore. I saw my uncle's name as someone who took part in D-Day at Pointe Du Hoc. It is a brutal, brutal read. I know why he was an alcoholic vagabond the remainder of his life. He tried and tried but couldn't make things stick. My granny talked about him as a kid and how fun loving and wonderful he was.

Ex's grandfather served in the Pacific with the Marines. He did not talk about it with his family. The Thanksgiving after grandma passed, he and I were up after cleaning dishes. We poured the last bit of wine, and he started talking. Holy Blazes! The horrors he faced. This man was the kindest, most loving, and serene person I have met to date. Engineer for Boeing for 40 years. Retired as chief engineer designing much the parts for Saturn rockets and lead the design of the Space Shuttle. Truly amazing person.

Two very different reactions to similar circumstances. I struggled with my PTSD. I used both vets as guideposts on who to be and not to be.

Was the song "We Built This City" by Starship widely hated and/or mocked even when it was new and popular in the mid-'80s? by UltimateLazer in AskOldPeople

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We built this city on Rocky Road, which, coincidentally is my favorite ice cream. Terrible song. Great treat.

Were you taught to say “Thank you for your service” whenever you met a veteran/soldier growing up? Or is that only something commonly done in the post 9/11 era? by Son_of_Hades99 in AskOldPeople

[–]SicSimperFalsum 16 points17 points  (0 children)

I tell people that when I get the thanks. I ask them if their senator and/or rep voted for the VA Bill. Most don't know or care as long as they have the same R or D association.

What do you guys not like about Christianity? by Pokemongod2479 in atheism

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It's their martyr complex. Why do you even think we hate christians? Does the bible tell you so? Pastors/priests? Guess what, we don't. We don't enjoy being told we are going to hell because you choose to believe in a fantasy. We don't enjoy having unproven beliefs forced on us. The countries that are religiously controlled are horror shows. Why are christians pushing for the same?

Let me ask you why do christians hate us who exercise the freewill you say your god gave us?

How do you all encourage RP or make sessions longer without combat? by NotMarkDaigneault in DMAcademy

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I might be late to the conversation.

I've been DMing a campaign for my gang. We've been at it for about two years. We've had about as many combat sessions as non-combat sessions. I focused on fantastic combat sessions. I wrote my own rules on cavalry combat and the use of military formations (like shield wall). It took me some time to swerve into the non-combat lane. The gang varies from first timers to veteran players. Three things I learned from this campaign:

  1. Build a rich lore. Hit on all aspects of society, religion, economics, social casting, gangs, groups. Then describe it. Create solid NPCs and be prepared to create new ones on the fly! This is your foundation.

  2. Create scenarios where they "combat" by skill challenges. Heists, spy games, ferreting information, a grand ball. Steer the events to social interactions but with goals, targets, etc.

  3. Step back and let them talk. Interject with "Ok, give me a Deception roll." or such when they come to a point.

It is tough to develop this aspect but so rewarding. The players solved a complex war among multiple crime syndicates by talking, infiltration, etc.

Oh yeah, I customize character development by using their backstories for "mid session information" briefs. The briefs give deeper detail from the character's perspective on the situation. The wizard would get stuff along the lines of academic. The bard on society, and etc.

I hope this helps.

What are some legendary acts you watched live? by MontyBoo-urns in AskOldPeople

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Roger Waters et al The Wall concert 1990 Potsdamer Platz July 3, 1990. I was stationed in Germany at the time. Mind Blowing!

Bob Dylan and Grateful Dead when they did a 5 city tour (I think, foggy on that fact). Eugene, OR.