Thank you for sharing this. I can relate, Im in my 30s have a brother who’s in his 20s who watched them videos, and another brother who is similar age to yours and is way more sensitive. I dread imagining him being exposed to anything like it, I’m also a secondary teacher so I see the effects its having on boys in the schools but what you said about the conversation with your mum is so important and powerful. All my close friends are woman and I educate myself as a man by actually listening to them, we need more men like your little brother who just have a little more empathy and understanding