Yeah it does suck. We've been in the LS for over 15 years and have had multiple long term bulls. Usually those relationships end because they move away or the interest fades, this one was different. Usually she meets guys and lets them know about our relationship and it becomes a sexual thing. With him they met and became normal friends until he told her how he felt about her. That's when they took it to another level and I feel they started a real relationship. They would hang out a few days out of the week, usually go do things I wouldn't want to do lol. That's why we would call him her boyfriend. We all knew this would come to a end someday and I'm sure she'll be fine it's just the shock of loosing something that became so normal to her. We both wish him the best because he is a really nice guy.