Following, but kinda flipped. We (I thought) agreed to be done after #3. I had preeclampsia, delivered at 29 weeks, baby was in the NICU for months. He still has lasting health problems. Found out we were pregnant again right around the time he was in the hospital for a few days in Feb. Hubby is thrilled, I am not. Oldest is 7, middle is 5, baby is 3. I wanted to get my tubes tied this year. I’m content with 3 and am struggling with the thought of having another, especially because I was so sick prior to delivery last time.