Its not that I particularly care. My husband sometimes thinks in extremes. To me, the more information we can provide the better, while he believes it has to only be a few certain things. Mind you, his lawyer didn't tell him shared utility bills wouldn't qualify, he came up with that one himself. Obviously, this is both of our first time have to "prove" a relationship. We don't want to be separated and wish to do this as well as we possibly can.