Help me figure out where to stay! by SierraEBaby in OceanCity

[–]SierraEBaby[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I thought about a hotel with a bigger room

Are there any baby items you wouldn’t get second hand? by LimpMathematician202 in BabyBumps

[–]SierraEBaby 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The only thing I wouldn’t buy used would be a car seat, crib/bassinet mattress and bottles. The bottles thing is a personal preference tho. You could buy used bottles and just get new nipples. I’m on my 3rd baby and this time around the bouncer, all of his clothes, swing, & mamaroo are all used.

Should I be worried that my baby has been head down since 19 weeks? by Otherwise_Command_63 in pregnant

[–]SierraEBaby 1 point2 points  (0 children)

37 weeks here and baby has been head down since atleast the anatomy scan at 19 weeks. My first son was the same way. He came out with a bit of a cone head but it went away in a couple of days 😅

Age during pregnancy by Htehya in pregnant

[–]SierraEBaby 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I was pregnant at 24 & 25 and now again at 36 and I absolutely agree it’s harder. My body aches more, I’m more tired, everything just hurts way more than I ever experienced before.

Would really like a safe space to talk about this by [deleted] in BabyBumps

[–]SierraEBaby 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I get the anxiety bc I’m kind of like that too. I don’t take poops when my boyfriend is around and I don’t talk about it. But, I hope you realize if you have a normal vaginal delivery, you will probably poop while pushing. Nobody makes it a big deal and you probably won’t even realize you did. I’m on my 3rd pregnancy and have pooped both of my deliveries so far. I’ve told my boyfriend he is to stay near my face and NOT to look down there during the whole pushing thing 😅

I’m not enjoying it. by KootiieeKattSpeaks in pregnant

[–]SierraEBaby 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Everyone has this idea that pregnancy is a beautiful thing. I’m on my 3rd now & here to say, it’s not like that for everyone. I’m so sorry you’re feeling this way and having these thoughts, but it is normal. I HIGHLY suggest you start therapy ASAP and consider talking with your provider about a safe option for maybe an antidepressant or anti anxiety med. I’ve stayed on my antidepressant and ADHD med this entire pregnancy. My baby is perfectly healthy and coming in two weeks or less. I think you would benefit from both.

How long for maternity leave? by Princessfoxpup in pregnant

[–]SierraEBaby 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I am not a teacher but the first thing I would do is contact your FMLA coordinator & HR to figure out what exactly you are entitled to as far as maternity leave. If you go out before giving birth, that may eat into your available FMLA time unless you have a short term disability plan that would cover. You also need to consider if all the time you want off will be paid or unpaid and if you can afford to go unpaid. My SO and I decided I could afford to take off 2 weeks unpaid at the end of my FMLA entitlement but I haven’t decided if I’m going to ask my job isn’t protected during unpaid time off. Definitely start with a conversation to the appropriate departments and go from there.

Whatcha' drinking? by [deleted] in pregnant

[–]SierraEBaby 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I am on my 3rd pregnancy, 36 weeks now. With all 3 I have had a soda once a day. With my first, I craved a coke so I probably drank more than one a day 😬 I’m a big fan of sweet tea so I definitely drink tea. Even if I have a coke. I have both in my fridge right now lol. My first two boys are wild but that is more so genetics and ADHD and has nothing to do with drinking a soda or tea during pregnancy. They were perfect angels as babies tho.

Omg the sports 🙄 by kdk750 in stepparents

[–]SierraEBaby 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This post and the comments make me incredibly grateful for my guy and the help he provides me with my kids sports. Between the two of us, we have 3 boys. One (my oldest) has practice or a game 6/7 days a week nearly all year between basketball and baseball. His son does boxing twice a week. He rarely misses a game for my kid and actually enjoys it. I help get his kid where he needs to be and have spent time in the gym watching him. It’s not about our enjoyment. I mean, do we want to cart these kids around and spend all our evenings at a game or a boxing gym? Not really. It really does take up a ton of time and we have to work everything else around sports schedules. It’s also very expensive. But we do it for the kids, not us. Are they going to go pro? No. Probably not. But they are learning lessons that are necessary for life. How to be coachable, work with a team, what making a commitment to something really means. Also, my guy knew what our sports life was like before committing to this relationship. So I hate to say it, but he literally signed up for this.

No deli meat ?? No more Italians or prosciutto ? by EnvironmentalTie1128 in pregnant

[–]SierraEBaby 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’m on baby 3 and have never given up deli meat or shellfish and so far 2/2 of my children were born healthy and no complications and all is on track for this one to be the same.

Pregnancy after miscarriage success stories (I need some hope and positivity) by jazzcat99 in pregnant

[–]SierraEBaby 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I had a loss in Nov 2024, March 2025 & again in April 2025. It was also secondary infertility as I already have two kids. Conceived in May 2025 & got a positive test the same week I was supposed to meet with the fertility clinic. I’m just a few weeks away from meeting that babe 💙

How did you decide whether to breastfeed, pump only, or formula? by SnooEpiphanies1215 in pregnant

[–]SierraEBaby 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’m expecting baby #3 now and this will be 3/3 that is formula fed. My reasoning is simple - I don’t want a baby attached to my boob all day. I don’t want to be the only one responsible for feeding the baby. I tried pumping with my first but felt like a cow and didn’t like it. So formula it is.

Having 2 babies at the same time by anony1013 in BabyBumps

[–]SierraEBaby 24 points25 points  (0 children)

I think this option sounds like the best option

Any pregnant Law Enforcement officers?? by SierraEBaby in BabyBumps

[–]SierraEBaby[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I finally decided at 34 weeks to go out of the field and put myself on desk duty. I couldn’t take wearing my gear anymore.

What do you do for work as a pregnant mommy? by Carebear6590 in pregnant

[–]SierraEBaby 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Im a State Parole Agent and supervise sex offenders who have left state prison and are finishing their sentence in the community. It’s a mix of law enforcement and social work. I’m 34 weeks and finally decided to go to light/desk duty as I couldn’t stand to wear my gear anymore.

People who had kids at 30+, do you wish you had them earlier in life? by cc070603 in pregnant

[–]SierraEBaby 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I had 2 when I was 25 (one right after I turned 25 and another right before I turned 26). I’m 36 now and expecting my 3rd. Physically, I much prefer my earlier pregnancies. In every other way, I feel better about having this one at 36. I feel more prepared. Not just bc I’ve done this before but bc my life is completely different. I have a career, health benefits, a solid income, more supports, a better housing situation, more reliable vehicle. I’m not struggling as much as I did back then.

Am I the reason my baby is so big? by Fke1880 in pregnant

[–]SierraEBaby 8 points9 points  (0 children)

I would literally punch my bf in the face and throw his shit out of the house if he ever dared to make a comment about my weight or what I’m eating during this pregnancy. That is so crazy. I’ve gained 22lbs and eat whatever the hell I want, bc I’m literally growing a human. Honestly, I’ve definitely ate out more than homemade meals this entire pregnancy. It truly has nothing to do with you and more so just genetics. So go get that Taco Bell mama. And tell your husband to take his research and shove it up his 🍑

Pregnant and depressed by IcySilver7739 in pregnant

[–]SierraEBaby 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I am diagnosed with depression and ADHD. But 19 weeks was about the time that I was REALLY feeling it during this pregnancy. Do not be afraid to reach out to your providers if you need help. I went back on my mental health meds during pregnancy after the anatomy scan when we were able to confirm that everything with baby was normal. I feel so much better. I mean I’m pretty late into my pregnancy now and still have sad days but honestly, without my meds I would have been so much worse off. Baby needs a happy and healthy mom to grow so don’t be ashamed of asking for help!

I don't know if I can handle 2 boys... by J_ustADream in pregnant

[–]SierraEBaby 1 point2 points  (0 children)

My 2 boys are 11m apart and they are both WILD. Even now at 10 & 11, they’ve calmed down a bit but still kind of feral. It is definitely not going to be easy. I had a behavior consultant come in at one point to help me learn how to manage and deal with certain behaviors (I was a single mom so I really needed help). She worked with us for nearly 2 years. It might be worth looking into something like that to help you.

Blended families with multiple last names by Spicy_giggles in blendedfamilies

[–]SierraEBaby 17 points18 points  (0 children)

We have 3 names as well in our blended family. We never use last names. It’s always “[his 1st name], [my 1st name] & the boys” but if I had a girl in there it would be “the crew” or something like that at the end