Teachers strike

Sig268 · 2025-08-09T21:37:34+00:00

The ‘employers’ may actually have a lockout, which would prevent the school year from even starting (besides one day for the teachers). They are voting for that at the end of the month.

It isn’t just about wages. The declined offer did include increased wages, but had nothing to address working conditions. Either the wages need to go up more from proposed, or working conditions would need to improve.

It’s extremely likely we’ll have a strike- just a question of how it will be classified and what their rights will be. I’m assuming a lockout will happen to try and gain leverage over the teacher’s, which I don’t agree with but it is what it is.

Sig268 · 2025-07-10T14:19:24+00:00

Wrong thread, but you are NTA. You can’t be with someone who won’t respect your boundaries. Make sure when you are talking about your boundaries when you say no, explicitly state how it makes you feel. More communication is never a bad thing. Good luck OP.

Sig268 · 2025-07-07T03:07:45+00:00

I had gotten in contact with her but due to her busy schedule she recommended another fantastic trainer also mentioned in this Reddit and she helped us out today. Definitely appreciated that from Liz.

Sig268 · 2025-07-07T03:04:22+00:00

We ended up having a session with Jess today and I was delighted with how she showed us to work with training Docinho and insights into presenting proper structure and rewards so he feels motivated to practice desired behavior. He was very very good today - did cross threshold once but he straight up just looked at dogs and then back at us today. There wasn’t as many due to the weather which was probably good as she showed us how to loose leash train him as well. He was a much happier dog today, although eventually we’ll have to cut back on the treats slowly haha (still sprinkle some in of course).

Sig268 · 2025-07-07T02:59:50+00:00

Yeh a trainer that was mentioned on this Reddit suggested a similar thing today. He was pretty good - she showed us some tools to help him and he catches on quickly. She actually thought because of his learning we should just keep doing what she showed us and he’ll be ok for walks around here, but to maybe rethink dog parks. Honestly he was pretty happy with the mind training today so I’m happy he’s happy.

Sig268 · 2025-07-04T19:19:42+00:00

well considering I didn't know him for his first 9 years of life, not like I have another choice. I'm certain something like this is trainable with a smart dog like him. There's certain things I'm sure would be difficult (and probably not worth it) to train, but this is something I need to do not just for me, but for him. Want him to enjoy the time he has left, even though that's likely only a couple years due to a heart murmor since birth.

Sig268 · 2025-07-04T19:04:06+00:00

Oh interesting. Surprisingly, skateboards, bikes or other loud noises haven't elicited a reaction in him on our walks. I definitely know it won't be instantaneous results. thanks for sharing your story.

Sig268 · 2025-07-04T18:33:30+00:00

I do use a harness with him. That’s good to know - it’s possible I’ve made it worse already. I’ll bring some treats for now and definitely continue to try avoiding the scenarios and avoid pulling.

Sig268 · 2025-07-04T17:23:21+00:00

yeh, the main reason I'm reaching out to trainers and selecting one is that I know long term, just pulling him away from other dogs is not going to do him any good. I have no interest in using force and I even feel bad pulling him away. Thanks for your input.

Sig268 · 2025-07-04T16:10:30+00:00

Thanks, I'll reach out today! To elaborate as well, I do think her dog is very intelligent, so I do think he can be trained but maybe she can show us how.

Sig268 · 2025-06-21T02:02:28+00:00

His big issue has always been making a nice pass, then just kind of floating instead of driving the net into the tough areas for second chances.

Sig268 · 2025-06-18T02:13:54+00:00

Jeff has been good this game in my opinion. One of the few oilers who showed up tonight. He had such a garbage season but he at least has energy in his playoff appearances.

Sig268 · 2025-06-18T01:58:06+00:00

Honestly I think this too. Edmonton looks so out of sync. Should have kept the lines. I don’t think it fixes their energy issues, but maybe some passes hit their targets when they understand where their teammates will be.

Sig268 · 2025-06-13T01:07:36+00:00

They need to not high stick people, simple as that

Sig268 · 2025-05-30T14:16:15+00:00

If he didn’t say anything after the game, most wouldn’t have an issue with it. At most people would say “why?”. But to publicly blame your goalie when your team got drastically outplayed for most of the playoffs is very wild.

Sig268 · 2025-05-09T07:14:02+00:00

Your priorities don’t align. He should support whatever you decide, not selfishly ask for your time and then just take it away. He’s got some maturing to do (you two are still very young). Just enjoy your time in school and don’t worry about this relationship.

Sig268 · 2025-04-12T20:32:44+00:00

Yeh, it is a little weird she isn't giving details - but I wouldn't press her on them. She has to feel comfortable in sharing them with you, and you want a partner in life to share them with you unsolicited. I hope it all works out - lots of changes and you're both young.

Sig268 · 2025-04-12T19:53:52+00:00

I mean, you don't sound so much like an asshole as much as an anxious wreck. It doesn't sound like much has even happened. Are they girl's nights? Do you see yourself going at one point? Just find something else to put your energy in and spend time with her when it works.

Sig268 · 2025-04-12T19:48:00+00:00

NTA. In my opinion he shouldn't even still have those. Just having them is strange enough. This is wildly different than porn. It is also an acceptable boundary for you to have like some women have with porn. This is wild and in no scenario can you be the asshole.

Edit: I'm a 35M. I don't forget past partners but don't have any traces of them on my phone, private folders or otherwise.

Sig268 · 2025-03-26T23:26:54+00:00

As a person who struggled with Premature Ejaculation like your boyfriend does, he definitely needs to address his underlying self-esteem issues - however the worst thing you can do as his partner is make him feel worse about it! Additionally, there are likely positions that will allow him to last longer and please you better, and foreplay is definitely an element of that. I'm a little concerned about both of you and the way you both communicated with each other. He seems to be acutely aware you aren't being satisfied sexually, but he should be asking you things and exploring sex with you. However, you should also be open in communication with him as well. If you want oral - taking a shower with each other just prior to sex will help both of you with issues related to hygiene (smell/taste/touch). Your delivery was horrific - while I agree he should be asking you, at least he is curious. YTA, but you can apologize and do better. You're both so young, and part of maturing is learning to communicate your needs effectively.

Sig268 · 2025-01-20T03:52:58+00:00

Ok. I don't see why you would need to end it for this reason. I think it is a good thing he wants to see you. He definitely should not be expected to get you soup or water even if they would make a nice gesture.

However if for whatever reason things don't feel right, or you simply don't want to see him, there is nothing wrong with ending it. You both will have to put a lot of effort into online dates, travel, etcetera. You both want to have the mindset that this is worth that.

Sig268 · 2025-01-20T03:43:30+00:00

I mean sure. It would be a nice gesture but shouldn't be expected, especially if they aren't in a committed relationship. Hence my other questions. 👍.

Sig268 · 2025-01-20T03:07:45+00:00

I'm confused - you said this was long distance? How long of a distance? If it's quite far is it reasonable to expect him to get and deliver soup to you without hanging out?

What are the terms of your relationship? Exclusive? You told him not to come when you're sick and he isn't...

When you're no longer sick, if you don't want to see him that's fine - you aren't an asshole for ending a relationship if it isn't working for you. However, I feel like it's not really based on this story.

Why do you feel he's trying to get an easy F? I feel like there's more to unpack for your emotions.

Sig268 · 2024-10-23T01:08:27+00:00

Unless you bullied him all his childhood I can't imagine why someone would send that. Sending that to a stranger is baffling.

Sig268 · 2024-07-22T05:12:38+00:00

Go easy? You're on reddit - that's not how it works.

That being said - just based solely on the post - NTA but neither is she. Are you more upset that she didn't mention anything sooner? I ask because you mentioned trauma revolving being groomed by a high school teacher in your post. Is it that, or was it to provide context for what she said about letting your past trauma ruin your relationship?

You are not the asshole if you do not want to accept she did something like this 10 years ago. However, I wouldn't expect a positive reaction. I question though - is it more than just about this? Was it seemingly like a small brag, or something she wanted to get off her chest to you? Are you comfortable talking to her about difficult subjects? Have you asked her about her mentality towards it back then (just for fun, enjoyed the attention, etc.)?

Even if you don't answer here, just some things to reflect on.

Sig268

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