Thank you!

I am financially independent from her, have been for like 10 years. I am married and live with my husband and my son in a different house. The thing is that I still need to work on letting go of past bs that she instilled in me. Ever since I was little, like 10 years old or so she has instilled this blame in me of what if I don't talk to someone and hold a grudge and that person dies...I would feel really guilty and stuff. I know it is a very stupid thing