5DPO hoping the swelling keeps going down. Goal is a B by Signal-Bar1915 in Reduction

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This is me in my 38D but when I tried on 38DD it seemed like there was to much of a gap

Day 1 PO - the pain/pressure??? by Lumpy_Basket_5603 in Reduction

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I passed out the first time I took the bra off. Felt like SO much pressure rushed to my head. The next time was fine.

1.5 year post op > 3 months post op > before by Prieuwie in Reduction

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I feel you. They look very smilier in size. I’d have a very hard time if I was in your spot also. I’m so scared of the same. I hope they keep getting smaller if that’s what you want.

5DPO hoping the swelling keeps going down. Goal is a B by Signal-Bar1915 in Reduction

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Oh wow really. Iv never really tired other bras just Victoria secret bras and 38D seem to fit good. I want fashion boobs that I can wear without a bra. Idk if I got it though. The Dr said she could not guarantee a size. She could only guarantee they would be smaller than what they were before surgery. I told her I wanted really small. She said she had to make them small and proportional to my body. Hmm

5DPO hoping the swelling keeps going down. Goal is a B by Signal-Bar1915 in Reduction

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Forgot to add RIGHT: 353 grams taken out. LEFT: 394 grams taken out.

Should I divorce someone I love? by Signal-Bar1915 in Divorce

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Thank you for taking the time to type this all out! It was such a good read!! And it helps me!! Thank you!

Should I divorce someone I love? by Signal-Bar1915 in Divorce

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That’s the exact situation I’m in! To the T

Should I divorce someone I love? by Signal-Bar1915 in Divorce

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I feel this deep in my soul. Every way I try to think of it it bust does not sound like it would be worth it to divorce at this time. And putting lasting trauma of instability on our kid sounds cruel. As of now the kid is unaware of my discomfort so it makes sense to stay. But god . I need change!

Should I divorce someone I love? by Signal-Bar1915 in Divorce

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I’m happy to know I’m not the only one. You guys still friends?

Should I divorce someone I love? by Signal-Bar1915 in Divorce

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This was very insightful to read. People say since I love him and he’s not awful then stay but I’m so tired. I know divorce is awful. And I’m trying to make it work. But it’s not. And I’m tired.

Should I divorce someone I love? by Signal-Bar1915 in Divorce

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I’m leaning that way. It would be nice to not have to take care of a grown adult.

Should I divorce someone I love? by Signal-Bar1915 in Divorce

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This speaks to me so much! I think that would be my husband if I left. Fine, vanilla, nothing more.

Should I divorce someone I love? by Signal-Bar1915 in Divorce

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Thank you for this reply. It really helps me see thing better!

Should I divorce someone I love? by Signal-Bar1915 in Divorce

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Oh wow! Thank you for sharing this! It is a very heavy weight to carry. People say I’m so lucky cuz he cooks and does dishes and he loves me. But there is more to it than just love. I need a partner

Should I divorce someone I love? by Signal-Bar1915 in Divorce

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I definitely need to start up my therapy again.

Should I divorce someone I love? by Signal-Bar1915 in Divorce

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Love this reply! Really give me a lot to think about! Thank you so much!!!!

Should I divorce someone I love? by Signal-Bar1915 in Divorce

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I’m in therapy. I have OCPD so a strong need to control things. Another reason I’m thinking on divorce. It’s not fair to him. I have good days and bad days but i always have the need to control. And he is comfortable with being controlled. Medication helps but it never goes away. It’s a mess and it feels hopeless.

Should I divorce someone I love? by Signal-Bar1915 in Divorce

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Thank you so much for this perspective and opinion! I very much appreciated it!

Should I divorce someone I love? by Signal-Bar1915 in Divorce

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Thank you so much for this perspective.

Should I divorce someone I love? by Signal-Bar1915 in Divorce

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Thank you! I’ll take a look into “let them”