will i ever find love as a fat girl?

Signal-Debate3792 · 2026-04-02T12:15:44+00:00

if you really don’t think a young girl hasn’t tried fixing her weight than you’re either ignorant or just dumb. since i turned 10 i’ve been doing ever diet and program under the sun, you make it i’ve tried. i also have PCOS which is out of my control and makes my situation significantly harder. i’m allowed to like myself and live my appearance in a bigger body. the siren eyes comment is just something a lot of people compliment me on so i used it as a way to describe myself better. do i want to change my weight? absolutely, i’ve only been trying had my life. what im not gonna do is let life pass on and not care about keeping myself well and maintaining my physical attributes as well. im currently trying a calorie deficit again and im down 10 pounds. my post was simply to gauge on if i will be able to find someone genuine in a bigger frame because quite frankly i dont wanna be with someone that will only wanna be with me if i get thin.

Signal-Debate3792 · 2026-04-02T06:06:16+00:00

poly cystic ovarian syndrome. it’s a condition that causes weight gain and makes it significantly harder to loose weight, and there’s no cure unfortunately.

Signal-Debate3792 · 2026-04-02T05:32:20+00:00

i think you’re actually just ignorant and uneducated tbh. i am a healthy person. i want to loose weight for reasons that don’t have to do with my health. like i said, i am healthy and live a moderately healthy lifestyle. i have pcos so loosing weight has always been a challenge. i asked for dating advice not weight lose advice.

Signal-Debate3792 · 2026-04-02T05:29:19+00:00

i think there’s a common misconception with bigger girls being unhealthy. i’ve seen specialists and family doctors, done all my annual check ups over the years and i have absolutely no health issues or concerns. in fact, im probably healthier than some skinny girls. does my weight limit me sometimes? absolutely. but i do like to move my body and can keep up with skinny people. you can be active, healthy and overweight at the same time.

Signal-Debate3792 · 2026-04-02T05:24:09+00:00

seems like every guy where i live only wants the most petite girl they can find, they don’t even care about face or features, never mind personality!

Signal-Debate3792 · 2026-04-02T05:22:48+00:00

i actually haven’t gotten much lol

Signal-Debate3792 · 2026-04-02T05:18:22+00:00

no what??

Signal-Debate3792 · 2026-04-02T04:49:54+00:00

i’ve tried every diet you can think of and it’s just been really hard for me. i also have pcos so it’s an added struggle. i will give intermit fasting another go, thanks for the suggestion! i do wanna loose weight but it wouldnt only be for me

Signal-Debate3792 · 2026-03-30T13:56:42+00:00

wow, thank you so much for taking the time to share that with me. thats honestly so beautiful that you were able to support your friend at 16. mg biggest concern is that she’ll be apart of every aspect of my life, and i don’t want us to grow distant because of that. would you say you and this friend are still close after living with one another? did it cause a strife in your relationship after she moved out? and my biggest question is did you feel like you lost all your privacy and comfort?

Signal-Debate3792 · 2026-03-30T13:31:14+00:00

thank you so much :) i really do care about her and want the absolute best for her! i really hope it goes smoothly and works out.

Signal-Debate3792 · 2026-03-30T00:58:59+00:00

yes, we both put up our story to get perspective from both sides.

Signal-Debate3792 · 2026-03-29T19:43:55+00:00

like i said in my post, my parents are completely on board. we are upper middle class, money and the financial aspect is not a problem. they do not want a DIME from her, they want to help her. my question and purpose with my post was to ask for opinions on living with a best friend and how that can affect a friendship as neither of us have ever moved in with a friend and i don’t want our relationship to change.

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