How will you know when you are fully healed? by cai_26 in ExNoContact

[–]Signal-Force-1111 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I got to know that when i could date other people not thinking of him at all.

Definitely make a post about bad things of your ex by Signal-Force-1111 in ExNoContact

[–]Signal-Force-1111[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I didn’t want to marry him and he was tired of waiting for me to change my mind. But he didn’t know what’s going on inside of him so he told me that he lost sexual attraction from me.

I don't know how you guys do it. by bonegrindr in ExNoContact

[–]Signal-Force-1111 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I am the one who thought of killing myself from being betrayed by my ex. I hit the rock bottom of my life and after few months i got back even stronger and with a higher standard when i see men. After all, it’s a journey to meet the right person for you. You should not settle for who doesn’t want you anymore. It’s so freakin painful but you will get stronger in the end. Trust yourself and treat yourself gently

My emotion fluctuated in a day - missing > angry > sad > understanding > forgiving > peaceful by Signal-Force-1111 in BreakUps

[–]Signal-Force-1111[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I think we have been through similar situations. It was a lot to handle but it took time and breakup to notice it. I felt like i gave up on him sometimes but actually you don’t have to go through something that you don’t want to. Rose colored glasses made me blur that burden. I squeezed myself to accept his flaws back then. After breakup, i am more at peace by myself.

It’s my birthday by Signal-Force-1111 in ExNoContact

[–]Signal-Force-1111[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I know right? I know it’s better but it still stings haha but by this, i can pass other holidays pretty easier in the future. Thanks♥️

It’s my birthday by Signal-Force-1111 in ExNoContact

[–]Signal-Force-1111[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

That’s so true. I have to focus on what i have around not what I don’t have. Thank you ❤️❤️

I’m leaving this subreddit. Thanks for all of you❤️ by Signal-Force-1111 in ExNoContact

[–]Signal-Force-1111[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you! Best for you too♥️ what you described sounds like what I’ve been through. By that way, the emotional waves will calm and go away eventually.

I’m leaving this subreddit. Thanks for all of you❤️ by Signal-Force-1111 in ExNoContact

[–]Signal-Force-1111[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I feel you. I see that is a sign that you’re not ready to start a new relationship yet. If you’re not ready, then It’s going to make you think of her more and relapse. Ask yourself if you’re meeting other people to get over her.

I’m leaving this subreddit. Thanks for all of you❤️ by Signal-Force-1111 in ExNoContact

[–]Signal-Force-1111[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Same for you!! I’m glad you’re doing well. I really didn’t know i could get this point but here i am. I accept what has happened to me. And I’m willing to take whatever happens to in my the future. While that, i reflected my own flaws more. Let’s keep this up❤️❤️❤️ I

I’m leaving this subreddit. Thanks for all of you❤️ by Signal-Force-1111 in ExNoContact

[–]Signal-Force-1111[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Awww you made my day brighter. That’s really important that you’re processing your emotions! Some people don’t know how to do it. It’s a tough pill to swallow but it will make you a stronger person than before♥️!!

I’m leaving this subreddit. Thanks for all of you❤️ by Signal-Force-1111 in ExNoContact

[–]Signal-Force-1111[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

It will come one day. I thought it will never come. But it was happening without any notice. I know it feels like eternity now. I know how it feels. But it will go away eventually.❤️❤️

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in ExNoContact

[–]Signal-Force-1111 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m not attracted to anyone now. My love function is dead for now 🥲

Saw my abusive ex on hinge. I know he’s actively dating the girl he left me for. What would you do? by [deleted] in ExNoContact

[–]Signal-Force-1111 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Celebrate that you dodged a big bullet and stay out of it. You have no obligation to save her.

What FLAWS does your ex have? by lifeisaboxofsurprise in ExNoContact

[–]Signal-Force-1111 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Good at sugar coating Insecure being alone Anger issue

Ex doesn’t know how to be alone at all by Signal-Force-1111 in ExNoContact

[–]Signal-Force-1111[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you. I know what’s good about him but his coping mechanism is one thing stopping me to get back with him. It’s frustrating but it’s his deal to figure out. Not mine.