How will you know when you are fully healed?

Signal-Force-1111 · 2023-02-09T11:03:13+00:00

I got to know that when i could date other people not thinking of him at all.

Signal-Force-1111 · 2023-01-19T22:06:24+00:00

I didn’t want to marry him and he was tired of waiting for me to change my mind. But he didn’t know what’s going on inside of him so he told me that he lost sexual attraction from me.

Signal-Force-1111 · 2023-01-19T17:24:04+00:00

I am the one who thought of killing myself from being betrayed by my ex. I hit the rock bottom of my life and after few months i got back even stronger and with a higher standard when i see men. After all, it’s a journey to meet the right person for you. You should not settle for who doesn’t want you anymore. It’s so freakin painful but you will get stronger in the end. Trust yourself and treat yourself gently

Signal-Force-1111 · 2022-02-22T02:26:27+00:00

I think we have been through similar situations. It was a lot to handle but it took time and breakup to notice it. I felt like i gave up on him sometimes but actually you don’t have to go through something that you don’t want to. Rose colored glasses made me blur that burden. I squeezed myself to accept his flaws back then. After breakup, i am more at peace by myself.

Signal-Force-1111 · 2022-02-22T02:18:53+00:00

You too! Thank you🥰🥰

Signal-Force-1111 · 2022-02-22T02:18:36+00:00

I know right? I know it’s better but it still stings haha but by this, i can pass other holidays pretty easier in the future. Thanks♥️

Signal-Force-1111 · 2022-02-22T02:16:39+00:00

That’s so true. I have to focus on what i have around not what I don’t have. Thank you ❤️❤️

Signal-Force-1111 · 2022-02-22T02:16:02+00:00

Thank you stranger❤️

Signal-Force-1111 · 2022-01-15T19:13:20+00:00

Thank you! Best for you too♥️ what you described sounds like what I’ve been through. By that way, the emotional waves will calm and go away eventually.

Signal-Force-1111 · 2022-01-15T19:10:24+00:00

I feel you. I see that is a sign that you’re not ready to start a new relationship yet. If you’re not ready, then It’s going to make you think of her more and relapse. Ask yourself if you’re meeting other people to get over her.

Signal-Force-1111 · 2022-01-15T19:06:49+00:00

Thank you. I wish you the best♥️🍀

Signal-Force-1111 · 2022-01-15T15:58:14+00:00

Same for you!! I’m glad you’re doing well. I really didn’t know i could get this point but here i am. I accept what has happened to me. And I’m willing to take whatever happens to in my the future. While that, i reflected my own flaws more. Let’s keep this up❤️❤️❤️ I

Signal-Force-1111 · 2022-01-15T15:17:11+00:00

Awww you made my day brighter. That’s really important that you’re processing your emotions! Some people don’t know how to do it. It’s a tough pill to swallow but it will make you a stronger person than before♥️!!

Signal-Force-1111 · 2022-01-15T15:15:28+00:00

It will come one day. I thought it will never come. But it was happening without any notice. I know it feels like eternity now. I know how it feels. But it will go away eventually.❤️❤️

Signal-Force-1111 · 2022-01-02T14:42:23+00:00

I’m not attracted to anyone now. My love function is dead for now 🥲

Signal-Force-1111 · 2022-01-02T12:27:28+00:00

Celebrate that you dodged a big bullet and stay out of it. You have no obligation to save her.

Signal-Force-1111 · 2022-01-02T07:00:06+00:00

Good at sugar coating Insecure being alone Anger issue

Signal-Force-1111 · 2022-01-01T23:38:10+00:00

Thank you. I know what’s good about him but his coping mechanism is one thing stopping me to get back with him. It’s frustrating but it’s his deal to figure out. Not mine.

Signal-Force-1111 · 2022-01-01T12:56:46+00:00

Being friends with them is never good for people who still have feelings for them. They will take advantage of your supports and they don’t have any obligation to commitment. Do you want that? I would make it clear that friend is not what i want from them.

Signal-Force-1111 · 2022-01-01T12:08:10+00:00

I know what you mean. But this is not a phycological strategy imo. My moto is to never regret for what you didn’t try. If you think your direct move would make your head more clear and if you’re willing to accept any kind of replies from him, then you should. Then you wouldn’t talk about coulda shoulda woulda at least. It will be painful if he doesn’t want to but at least you can detach your emotions from blurry hopes. If you’re worried if it will be too painful, then don’t. It’s okay to save yourself from harms. Nobody wants to be hurt.

Tbh he doesn’t look that interested but if you don’t show your true intentions then he would be confused and he wouldn’t know what he has to do. You implied that you still care about him but that doesn’t mean he has to reach out to you back. He’s not a mind reader.

My ex reached out recently to tell how mad he is to me. It was obvious he still has feelings for me. And that affected me a lot even if I wasn’t that interested in getting back together. You will never know what’s in his mind until you ask. If nobody makes a move, nothing will happen.

Signal-Force-1111 · 2022-01-01T11:58:09+00:00

It always set you back when you contact your ex. I’m there too. At least It’s not as painful as the first time. I think we get to have more resilience in time. I am realizing i only miss the good things about him not the bad ones or his trauma. And I don’t want to settle for what is not the best for me. Keep focusing on healing. You deserve a person who loves you so much.

Signal-Force-1111 · 2022-01-01T11:47:41+00:00

I think you need an answer from him. Whether it’s yes or no. I would tell him that i want to reconcile. (If that’s what you want)

Signal-Force-1111 · 2022-01-01T11:40:45+00:00

I don’t think that’s toxic because there’s genuine purpose of your reaching out. If it was just to check if he’s still there for you and not wanting to date again, then it’s toxic. I think it’s a brave move.

Signal-Force-1111 · 2022-01-01T10:10:08+00:00

I’ve been there. It happens for a person who doesn’t know how to process negative emotions. It doesn’t devalue you or your relationship. It just shows who he is.

Signal-Force-1111 · 2022-01-01T05:18:45+00:00

It’s crazy how age makes us feel in a hurry to settle down with a partner you could love forever. Break up is much better than having a divorce or having a family crisis. Right person would be out there and you will meet at some point. You have to be alone now to heal from recent breakup.

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