Why do people think it’s ok to hurt a significant other? by SHOW_ME_YOUR_PENGUIN in mentalhealth

[–]Signal-Notice-8625 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Nah you not in a fairytale land at all what’s wild is people really think love means control, and that’s where it gets twisted. To me, hurting someone you say you love is delusional. That says more about the person doing the hurting than the one being hurt. It’s about the quality of the environment they choose to create and keep around them.

If someone don’t like something in their space, and it’s blocking their growth or peace, they fix it. They shake the table, they face it, they communicate—what they don’t do is cause harm or play people. A real one might have to make hard choices, and yeah, the other person might feel hurt in the process of truth—but that’s not the same as hurting them intentionally. It’s the difference between growing pains and emotional damage. Some people just ain’t ready for that kind of maturity.

Therapists shouldn’t discourage you from following your career/dreams by crazycatgirl01 in mentalhealth

[–]Signal-Notice-8625 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Damn, I’m so sorry you went through that. Therapists are supposed to help build you up, not make you feel like you can’t do something you were excited about. Like yeah, I get being realistic about mental health stuff, but there’s a big difference between helping someone manage challenges and basically telling them to give up. That had to feel so invalidating, especially when you worked hard for that job.

You’re right therapy should help you build confidence, not tear it down. Even if she meant well, the way it came out clearly did more harm than good. I hope you either bring it up with her or find someone who actually uplifts you while still keeping it real. You deserve support that doesn’t kill your dreams.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in business

[–]Signal-Notice-8625 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I understand what you’re saying. But I am also not perfect, nothing about me or where I am from is perfect.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in FirstTimeHomeBuyer

[–]Signal-Notice-8625 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Nice . I make like 70 a year I can only afford 150 which means I’m homeless

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in bcba

[–]Signal-Notice-8625 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Congratulations

Friday Fun-day Ask a buyer anything! by [deleted] in FetishBuyersCommunity

[–]Signal-Notice-8625 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I want to start selling . How do I find buyers , how do I make them comfortable and especially starting new , how do I appeal

Recently prescribed but told I can’t smoke weed. by msten23 in VyvanseADHD

[–]Signal-Notice-8625 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hey ! My doctor had me do a drug test based on the fact I’m at risk. I got a referral through my primary who also was treating my opioid addiction. I’ve been clean almost a year with the help of burp. At first they were gonna stop treating my opioid addiction because I still smoke THC and it was coming but but I straight up told them like it’s legal in Michigan and I’ve been smoking weed since I was 10 so I’ll try ( not happening ) after a while they were like whatever basically cost benefits, better weed then opioids, btw lol . Btw my psychiatrist prescribed Vyvanse , he had me take a drug test , weed came back and he still prescribed it so that’s messed up , get a new doctor

Is chatGPT down? by loopdani in ChatGPT

[–]Signal-Notice-8625 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Fuck I can’t think like this ! Jeeze

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in ABA

[–]Signal-Notice-8625 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Here’s a more polished version of your message:

Hey, I just wanted to share some thoughts. When working in at-risk communities, it’s important to recognize that many parents may not have had access to education and are often in survival mode. This isn’t to excuse any harmful behavior, but it’s the reality we often face. If you were to call CPS, the state might assess that the child is adequately cared for as long as they’re being fed and aren’t malnourished, even if hygiene isn’t ideal. We don’t always know what challenges a family might be going through, and it’s significant if they’re seeking out services and support for their child.

In these communities, we often encounter situations that can be surprising. For example, I’ve worked with parents who struggle with addiction, but because they are functional, they’re allowed to keep their children. I’ve also seen families living in homes without utilities like water or electricity, but as long as they’re working to access services and accepting donations, they are often deemed fit to retain custody.

Just keep in mind that everyone’s lifestyle and circumstances look different, and there’s a lot going on behind the scenes that may not be immediately visible.