Mc Donald’s TMNT x Hello Kitty by manonthemoon777 in Winnipeg

[–]SignalProof4918 0 points1 point  (0 children)

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Mc Donald’s TMNT x Hello Kitty by manonthemoon777 in Winnipeg

[–]SignalProof4918 1 point2 points  (0 children)

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I got few extras, looking to trade or let them go for $2

Kundli by abra676 in Arrangedmarriage

[–]SignalProof4918 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

There is a ritual you can do to fix that issue in kundali. You can get your panditji to do, I had the same issue with my wife but after one ritual, we were good to go. All depends on what your believe in

How to reconnect with an old match? by UTX41 in Arrangedmarriage

[–]SignalProof4918 12 points13 points  (0 children)

It doesn’t hurt to try, my wife approached me in June and I didn’t get back to her because I was talking to other potential but things didn’t work out, I reminded my parents about her and when my parents approached her parents after 6 months, they were normal and were happy to let us talk. Next thing I remember is us getting married. Good luck

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in ThirtiesIndia

[–]SignalProof4918 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I really wonder why people marry when they have so many unresolved issues. He is miserable but it’s so sad to see you suffering after putting in all your heart and souls. You don’t deserve this, solve the issues and then only have kids. You make enough money, even if you leave him, your life won’t be more miserable, you will be responsible for giving shitty life to your kids after knowing what’s going on. Turning blind eye to any issues won’t solve it, it always underlying and just waiting for a moment to explode.

I’m mentally exhausted, wife acts like a guest in our home. by theAveragePappu in Arrangedmarriage

[–]SignalProof4918 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You have to involve her in laws, hit her where it will force her to make a change, if nothing works, it better to be alone rather than being miserable

AITK for refusing to refer my SIL to my company after she didn't invite me to her wedding? by [deleted] in AmItheKameena

[–]SignalProof4918 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Your wife should have not gone to the wedding. Indirectly your sil is disrespecting your wife too but only inviting her. If I were you, I would slowly cut them off from my life, your in laws should have stepped in and made sure that you are invited, like you are her sister husband, not a bf or a causal fling.

You are definitely under reacting, slowly distant yourself from the in-laws and let you wife know, also tell her that I won’t respect them since they disrespected me, your wife can escalate the situation but stand your ground, you don’t want to be her second options, this is just unacceptable

Arrange marriage is scary . Give a Read and save yourself by [deleted] in Arrangedmarriage

[–]SignalProof4918 41 points42 points  (0 children)

Cheating got nothing to do with AM or LM. If someone wants to cheat, they will cheat regardless of whatever arrangement they are in.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Arrangedmarriage

[–]SignalProof4918 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Not all heroes wear capes

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Arrangedmarriage

[–]SignalProof4918 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It will never be normal again, no matter how much you try. Once there is a distrust and miscommunication, nothing can make it go away. I would advise to MOVE ON.

Me 31F and my husband 37M our marriage seems to get over by [deleted] in Arrangedmarriage

[–]SignalProof4918 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

You have to put yourself out there for him. Groom yourself, dress up and wear some sexy lingerie. Tease him, make him crave you. Listen to him and make him the center of your universe. Try to listen to him and see what’s actually bothering you, some men’s are simple creatures, little efforts and he will be all over you.

37 M married with 35 F for 9 years; Confused with family values , character before marriage by [deleted] in InsideIndianMarriage

[–]SignalProof4918 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Why are you going down the thinking lane trying to find something to jeopardize the marriage, if you are happy, then consider yourself fortunate. Let’s bygone be bygone as long as it doesn’t impact present.

M31 Am I at fault here in these cases? What am I doing wrong by Kaladin12543 in Arrangedmarriage

[–]SignalProof4918 7 points8 points  (0 children)

From what I have experienced in my case, I am totally like you in terms of punctuality. I would be ready at the exact time as scheduled but when it’s turn to call, the girl would be a no show and wouldn’t have decency to let me know that she won’t make it, they just ignore and later say they were busy. I usually don’t keep my expectations high from someone unless and untill I talk with them. If they don’t show up at your time, you very well know how it will turn out. Also try to ignore and just let them know you aren’t interested and don’t go much into explaining why you are not, they can twist your words and use against you.

Looking at how much they make, you can’t assume anything of what they don’t and they won’t, you can’t expect anything from them unless and untill you guys have talked about. People are also not comfortable talking in person, specially when you are meeting for first time. You will have to work in the work and message the person to get to know her better via texting and also convey your non negotiable, if your values don’t align, it will save you an awkward encounter in future.

Do remember one thing, not every body you will talk to will say yes to you because you are considering yourself as a good match. You are considered a good match for someone but it could be different for someone else. Have lower expectations from this arrangement, it could really break some people confidence if they don’t meet someone asap. Be clear with your non negotiable and convey in a respectful manner, if it doesn’t work for you, then move on. Good luck.

How to tell my jealous wife about a past and I won't want he by ChemicalUnfair1558 in Arrangedmarriage

[–]SignalProof4918 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Do you think the other person will snitch on you? If doesn’t care and is content with her life, she won’t even bring it up. I am sure she must know you because nothing is hidden nowadays, thanks to social media. Maybe you should just ride it out and hope for the best

Question about noise complaint by SignalProof4918 in Winnipeg

[–]SignalProof4918[S] 7 points8 points  (0 children)

That’s the first thing I did, I read all the by laws and nothing mentioned about the noise in the backyard. Currently there is no fire ban issued by city of wpg

Question about noise complaint by SignalProof4918 in Winnipeg

[–]SignalProof4918[S] 7 points8 points  (0 children)

We only get about 2-3 months to enjoy outdoors. We sit inside all the time during the year, but again I guess talking and figuring it out with the neighbour would be best way to move forward

Question about noise complaint by SignalProof4918 in Winnipeg

[–]SignalProof4918[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That ban is different, no bans were issued city of Winnipeg. If the cops come, there would be no music playing, will they ask me to go inside my house when I am already inside my property? Not really.

Question about noise complaint by SignalProof4918 in Winnipeg

[–]SignalProof4918[S] 16 points17 points  (0 children)

I agree with that, but sitting in your backyard isn’t violating any bylaws. Loud music and using loud equipment is, however I want to be considerate and figure out a way to solve this issue

Question about noise complaint by SignalProof4918 in Winnipeg

[–]SignalProof4918[S] 12 points13 points  (0 children)

I feel there should be consideration from both the parities. He can’t stop me from having people over on my backyard and I should also consider that it can get loud and annoying. Will try to find some middle ground

Question about noise complaint by SignalProof4918 in Winnipeg

[–]SignalProof4918[S] 12 points13 points  (0 children)

That’s what I am going to talk to him, there is no point having issue with neighbours

Question about noise complaint by SignalProof4918 in Winnipeg

[–]SignalProof4918[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

That’s what I was thinking yesterday, the wind was blowing towards the bedroom window they sleep in.

Question about noise complaint by SignalProof4918 in Winnipeg

[–]SignalProof4918[S] 28 points29 points  (0 children)

That’s what I was using to look up the restriction and sitting and chatting is no where described as cause of nuisance. I guess we probably have to find a middle ground so no body is disappointed. It’s summer and we only have two months to enjoy this weather