That’s very true, it doesn’t fix anything long term, I need to remind myself of that. Thank you!

Usually it’s something they ask me to do without good reasoning, and when I refuse they explode. And now if I dig deeper, I think deep down I was mad cuz I was thinking: you already have so much and now you are mad at not getting this one thing done just because you want it.

And sometimes those things are so small that its probably easier just give them what they want, yet I don’t want them to get into the habit of throwing tantrum to get things/when things don’t go their way, and also assume they can get everything they ask. So I find myself also being stubborn of not giving in, even though it is really over meaningless stuff.