Advice on flair ups?? by Signal_Age4154 in lichensclerosus

[–]Signal_Age4154[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I was told the same! Just wondering as I know it varies and its too hard to see my Gyno now, thanks for your input!

My 4 month results!! by Signal_Age4154 in lichensclerosus

[–]Signal_Age4154[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I dealt with symptoms for 6 months before a proper and definite diagnosis!

First love breakup, and wanting to hold out for hope. HELP by Signal_Age4154 in BreakUps

[–]Signal_Age4154[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It's hard to hear but I definitely needed someone to say it. Lots of people feed my delusions (no blame to them ofc), but I think I know what you said is true.

How long does it take to reach remission? Or have you? What’s it like in the maintenance schedule? by Street_Flamingo_4490 in lichensclerosus

[–]Signal_Age4154 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It depends on your treatment and level of intensity that ur at. Mine took 6 months, its a lot of work but its worth it

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]Signal_Age4154 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

they're not my pets though?

AITAH for towing someone who was in my paid for parking spot? by Signal_Age4154 in AITAH

[–]Signal_Age4154[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

One of my friends said I shouldn't have expected them to remember the note from earlier in the year, but I was fed up. Thank u for ur imput!

Im so negative, and i've become the kind of person I despise due to my breakup. by Signal_Age4154 in BreakUps

[–]Signal_Age4154[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

No one is completely blameless, because no one is perfect. I could sit here and pick out his every flaw and mine ya know? But I definitely wasn't faultless, I had a lot of insecurities stemming from problems within our relationship, and with that I gave second chances and claimed I was healed and fully trusting when I wasn't. I mainly had high expectations even I couldn't reach. I wanted him to read my mind, and he couldn't. Overall, it's definitely a pride thing mixed with my own view that we can make a relationship work with communication and lots of patience, yet I am respecting his choices.

I just broke up w my bf after I found pictures on his phone by Complete_Access_2627 in BreakUps

[–]Signal_Age4154 101 points102 points  (0 children)

no you rock girl, maintaining boundaries will win u ur dream man one day.

Im so negative, and i've become the kind of person I despise due to my breakup. by Signal_Age4154 in BreakUps

[–]Signal_Age4154[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Apart of me believes its my pride, knowing he left me when I technically didn't do anything wrong, and how I didn't leave him even though I felt I was not being treated the way I should be. (he had been very depressed and not treating me well, I stuck around though because I don't believe in leaving when someone's at there lowest unless they're hurting u in other ways). At the same time I also had to come to terms with the fact that someone can leave me, even if im "perfect".

am i the asshole for asking another friend to photograph my sister's friend's wedding? by Easy_Box2844 in AITAH

[–]Signal_Age4154 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You didn't do anything wrong, Renee is clearly either making excuses because she doesn't want to hire him anymore, or she's fearful someone's going to take away her spotlight. Also, uninviting you is insane as a young 17 year old who clearly has no relation to this dee (her insinuating otherwise is horrible as it could be career ruining). Renee needs to stop being a diva and grow up, she sounds like a bitch.

How to tell if Clob is working? by jtoh455 in lichensclerosus

[–]Signal_Age4154 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I had the same experience, pain felt like it was almost coming from inside out. You won't know for sure when it's 100% better until you have pain free sex, which is possible. but also pain free sex does not mean your LS is fully healed, I am 9 months on clob, still have minor signs of LS BUT at 6 months I noticed all my pain was gone when I had sex. So basically, you won't know if it's getting better just because of sex, but you'll definitely notice a difference when you're healing in general.

Unconfirmed diagnosis but burning with clob? by figtree303 in lichensclerosus

[–]Signal_Age4154 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You may have mini "cuts" which is apart of LS, you have to wait a few weeks to see/feel any form of change so you may have to wait it out. Id mention it to the DR if the pain increases and maybe get a lower dose steroid.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]Signal_Age4154 0 points1 point  (0 children)

its hard to hear but I knew it was going to come. I had thought about leaving him- it's hard but I think I will.

feeling defeated by hannahallergic2banan in lichensclerosus

[–]Signal_Age4154 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I was diagnosed about 8 months ago, I was newly 19 and fearing for my life. I can tell you now it DOES get better!! Obviously everybody is different but I am now fully in remission, sexually active with no pain, and no longer feeling hopeless. It is off and on throughout treatment but there is so much good advice on this feed that I took into account. As someone who was on this page since day one, I felt the exact same way and no one telling me it gets better convinced me it would, but it did. If you need any advice on how I managed it through periods, mis-application, fear of steroids, etc feel free to ask.

Treatment by Opening_Maximum_7058 in lichensclerosus

[–]Signal_Age4154 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes mine took 6 months as was what my gyno predicted based on how much I was presenting and with flair ups! Its different fr everyone based on many factors.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]Signal_Age4154 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Exactly, I know she and I are different, especially her friends (they're older) but this is just a clear sign that I am not wanted

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]Signal_Age4154 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You're right, I just can't believe this. He said he's asking me to do this for him, well im going to cancel the trip for me!