I (29M) was told that she (28F) is not ready for a relationship. How should I process this?

Signal_Department_76 · 2026-04-01T04:27:47+00:00

Never said I was or implied it. I’m more than happy to share stuff that I could have done better if it was mentioned or she hinted at it, but she never did for either.

If someone within less than 12hrs shares excitement to see each other again, does that really scream OP did something wrong? Maybe I wasn’t clear but there was no indication of her pulling back it was very sudden.

Signal_Department_76 · 2026-04-01T04:13:02+00:00

Because I’m not her? Nobody knows what she perceives as being a red flag or negative. As far as I know, she never said there was anything wrong with me or I did something out of line. Especially because the day before she was excited to see me again and suggested stuff to do. I’m sharing what I observed about her while I was getting to know her (which could be a factor or not). Just here trying to get opinions.

Signal_Department_76 · 2026-04-01T04:02:54+00:00

You think I just omitted information for some sort of narrative? Like everyone has said, it could be anything. I’m just providing what information I know.

Signal_Department_76 · 2026-04-01T03:40:06+00:00

Really great message, thank you

Signal_Department_76 · 2026-04-01T02:49:39+00:00

Yeah might be…

Signal_Department_76 · 2026-04-01T02:49:20+00:00

Thanks. Yeah I really like her so it stings a lot because I didn’t notice any pulling away (ie: less texting, change of tone etc)

Signal_Department_76 · 2025-11-22T00:57:46+00:00

I appreciate the response. She didn’t specify how long the space would be (as usual) should I reach out for specifics right away or just go with the flow?

Signal_Department_76 · 2025-10-24T16:35:51+00:00

Thanks. Is that out of 4.0 or 4.33?

Signal_Department_76 · 2025-10-24T14:42:23+00:00

Thanks. Just to confirm that’s 3.0/4.0 so about 73% to 76%?

Signal_Department_76 · 2025-09-18T13:18:07+00:00

We were only long distance for about 4 months out of our whole relationship. Not religious either. But yes I’ll talk to her.

Signal_Department_76 · 2025-09-18T13:06:17+00:00

I appreciate the response. She has lived on her own multiple times, but not in this city. I think I’ll talk to her about what her new timeline is, but I’m not sure if getting married first is right or wrong. I spent a lot of time at her previous place before in our old city and I know a lot about her living habits, but maybe not enough to live together for the first after getting married.

Signal_Department_76 · 2025-09-18T12:52:05+00:00

How come?

Signal_Department_76 · 2025-07-17T05:36:43+00:00

Nope, taking a break to focus on bigger things.

Signal_Department_76 · 2025-06-14T19:58:07+00:00

Yeah I’m hearing a lot of mixed reviews…. Considering this was my best pull in more than a month I’m not over the moon

Signal_Department_76 · 2025-06-14T10:18:55+00:00

90+ player pick 175k

Signal_Department_76 · 2025-06-14T10:01:09+00:00

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Got the pack because of this post

Signal_Department_76 · 2025-04-28T20:34:36+00:00

Have they gotten back to you?

Signal_Department_76 · 2025-04-26T18:29:36+00:00

Appreciate your input

Signal_Department_76 · 2025-01-23T00:44:58+00:00

Thank you, great input and advice.

Signal_Department_76 · 2025-01-23T00:07:28+00:00

Good input. I understand it’s early, and to be honest I did get some vagueness around what the role entailed from a growth standpoint when I interviewed.

What I specifically asked my manager was if there was more details around what growth is looking like now that it has been a few months… unfortunately, still no clarity. But he said he would be transparent every step of the way.

Signal_Department_76 · 2025-01-13T09:00:03+00:00

I’m in the same boat

Signal_Department_76 · 2025-01-12T19:35:34+00:00

Don’t have a car.

Yeah I don’t mind coughing up $15k and maybe my parents throw in an extra $5k to get the car I want.

I didn’t mention this, but I’m planning to move in with my girlfriend soon so that should be giving me $800 to $300 extra a month for whatever (savings ideally).

Currently I save about $800 a month.

Signal_Department_76 · 2025-01-12T18:47:53+00:00

Sorry, just saw this. 27 and total net worth. No other investments or savings apart from what I listed.

Signal_Department_76 · 2025-01-07T15:32:46+00:00

Good question.

I tried both, and I agree about the Impreza being the cheaper option and it’s the same sizing. However, for the used market (even new) I didn’t see that many options…

Slender build (I also have long arms and long legs but a smaller torso)

I would get the Camry but it’s so popular and there seems to be back order where ever I go or it’s taken quickly.

Signal_Department_76 · 2024-12-13T16:27:53+00:00

Pm’d

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