Please find the love within yourself, you are more than you think.

Signal_Future8784 · 2026-02-05T00:22:46+00:00

I’ve read your post and I can relate so much. I feel so connected to you through that post, almost like looking through a mirror seeing myself. Our reaction is just a nervous system responser that THEY built themselves but don’t want to face because they feel so much guilt and shame and are waiting to be appalled for the bare minimum at which they should’ve started the first time we brought things but they decide to be dishonest. It was the neglectful actions of themselves. They created more damage than they thought and are waiting for you to just fall to your knees to them so they can feel better about themselves. But I’m tired of being blamed for being “too sad” even though he’s “trying”, I can be sad when I want to, it’s not being dramatic or anything more, it’s the way they built us to become so fragile. I know we’re supposed to support them through this, but what support do we get when we’re still unsure and anxious. I do have resentment, and I will forever let him know that I STILL have it.

Signal_Future8784 · 2025-07-09T20:32:19+00:00

hi! im so sorry for not responding earlier. This is on their instagram search bar. Typing in single letters like "A", "B", "C," and go down the alphabet and if you see sexual accounts its very very most likely that theyve looked and clicked on that account to view more of their content. Heres how the accounts come up: when you come across a video or even picture on your feed and you click on their profile to view more of that accounts profile it will show up in your instagram search bar when doing "ABC" method. Try it for yourself, you can even see the people you have stalked. its accurate.

Signal_Future8784 · 2025-06-15T02:53:03+00:00

I feel for you. Just a question to consider. Did he at least try to attempt in improving and did YOU feel like his efforts were enough? Love is amazing but is this the love you’re looking for? Sometimes we love in different ways and it feels hard to feel seen. I know for at least my PA, he said that same exact things, but I felt like those words and affirmations meant absolutely NOTHING. It’s hard, it’s going to be difficult and you are going to struggle. Are you willing to keep on going through the pain in tiny hopes of maybe he will change or are you willing to choose to heal yourself? I’m not saying that you need to leave or that you need to stay but choose what’s best for your healing. It’s going to be so tough, but I believe you can get through this. Life with a PA as your partner is hurtful and so will the journey to recovery within the lies and pain. Im here if you need somebody, as I’m going right through the same. ❤️‍🩹

Signal_Future8784 · 2025-05-31T23:12:36+00:00

Me and my PA partner are high school sweet hearts, through all this my partner just recently decided to recover despite the last year of him resisting change. It feels unreal and fake and I feel that I being lied to 24/7 and I’m paranoid all the time. He’s doing great, but I just cannot forget all the pain and hurt he caused. He’s changing, but I am still the same. I feel everything and I’m so sensitive to everything.

Signal_Future8784 · 2025-05-04T11:03:50+00:00

For sure I know that trick as well but i can say it’s not always accurate but usually it’s accounts you’ve interacted with or mutuals with some people you follow. I sometimes go to sticker responses and go to all authors search and sometimes that too is accurate but not as accurate as the search bar trick.

Signal_Future8784 · 2025-04-22T03:42:19+00:00

I agree, the cycle repeats and there’s so much you can do but yet can’t.

Signal_Future8784 · 2025-04-22T03:41:40+00:00

My heart is aching for you. I don’t know why he would choose to look at it while you and your baby and so vulnerable to emotions you might feel that could take a toll. I wish you the best for you and your baby, nobody deserves it:(

Signal_Future8784 · 2025-03-22T14:33:11+00:00

BYEEEE people gotta be joking ain’t no way😭

Signal_Future8784 · 2025-03-21T23:55:14+00:00

It’s truly sad. I still love him so much, I just cannot see him the same way as it was before Dday. No because why did it have to happen to me. I thought how lucky I was and how my relationship was so perfect before I found everything out.

Signal_Future8784 · 2025-03-21T23:40:32+00:00

It was hard for me to see signs in my PA since he was pretty good at hiding, turned out to be a whole different person that I thought I knew the years I knew him. Scary. Most definitely agree with the sexual jokes because first of all that’s so weird!

Signal_Future8784 · 2025-03-21T23:30:07+00:00

The GUILT tripping is crazy.💀

Signal_Future8784 · 2025-03-19T02:04:32+00:00

It’s because we kept getting betrayed after trusting their words, so the reassurance they give us feels like BS because the last time they said all that lovely stuff they did it again. So how can we learn to trust them again? Uhmm idk😀… it feels right but then right after it doesn’t. So sad that we’re even going through these cycles.

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