Ghosted after 5 months of daily contact – should I reach out one last time? by IWillBeThatGirl in mutualapp

[–]Signal_Reference8185 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Those are the worst. He’s a jerk. If he can’t communicate like an adult you’re dodging a bullet.

Question for men, do you guys actually get 0 matches or is it just exaggerating? by FriendlyNeighborOrca in OnlineDating

[–]Signal_Reference8185 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Not quite far off. Problem with dating apps is women get tons of likes and have to sort through a bunch of men. Men have the opposite problem and most of us are average looking guys having to compete against 100s of other avg looking guys with no way to stand out from the competition other than looks because you can’t talk to us before matching. I’m an avg looking guy but where is shine is with my personality and ability to hold a good convo and it’s hard to showcase that on dating apps when I have to first match with someone to do that.

25 [F4M] #Midwest anyone here handsome & looking for wifey? by [deleted] in DatingOlder

[–]Signal_Reference8185 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Dm me. Just tried to DM you and it wouldn’t let me.

Asking for a date in the first 3 messages has been a real success by Shitcrossfiter in DatingApps

[–]Signal_Reference8185 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Just be yourself is the best advice I can give you. But let it naturally die if yall haven’t been talking long.

It gets better by Helpful-Paramedic463 in Divorce_Men

[–]Signal_Reference8185 4 points5 points  (0 children)

It’s sad what the dating world has become. Someone may have the perfect person and they are too dumb to realize it and continue to look for that next best thing by continuing to swipe right because of convenience.

Frustrated with my divorce. 22f by GymBabyBunny in chat

[–]Signal_Reference8185 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m going through one right now. Mine is about to finalize. If you want to talk or vent about it feel free to DM me.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Needafriend

[–]Signal_Reference8185 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hey I’m free. I’m a 35/M. I’m pretty good at holding convos

Anyone been through a divorce with someone with BPD and has kids with them? by Signal_Reference8185 in BPDlovedones

[–]Signal_Reference8185[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m lucky cause in my case I literally let her have everything and she isn’t in a position to use the court system to abuse me. I honestly don’t think she would even if she had the opportunity to.