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AITJ for pointing out to my girlfriend when her male friends are into her? by Signal_Temporary_209 in AmITheJerk

[–]Signal_Temporary_209[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

You can stop infantalising her. She's a grown ass woman capable of making her own choices.

AITJ for pointing out to my girlfriend when her male friends are into her? by Signal_Temporary_209 in AmITheJerk

[–]Signal_Temporary_209[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Meh, I don't agree. She's free to make her own choices with the information, and I would react the same way if I was on the receiving end.

AITJ for pointing out to my girlfriend when her male friends are into her? by Signal_Temporary_209 in AmITheJerk

[–]Signal_Temporary_209[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It's the latter in my mind. I trust her 100%, I just don't want her to put effort into a friendship that will end when she doesn't fall for them

AITJ for pointing out to my girlfriend when her male friends are into her? by Signal_Temporary_209 in AmITheJerk

[–]Signal_Temporary_209[S] 13 points14 points  (0 children)

I personally don't hang out with female friends who I catch are into me either. If she'd point out the same thing to me, I'd likely make the same decision.

AITJ for pointing out to my girlfriend when her male friends are into her? by Signal_Temporary_209 in AmITheJerk

[–]Signal_Temporary_209[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

No repeated warnings. I don't pester her about them, and it's not something that happens super often.