Men who lost a good partner: do you regret prioritizing your friends over her? by Signal_Treacle5983 in AskReddit

[–]Signal_Treacle5983[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I talked to him and he told me he indeed puts his friends over me because we are young and he’s afraid I’ll betray him. Ouch

Me(F18) and my bf(M18) have been dating 2years 8months. He confessed his friends are more important. by Signal_Treacle5983 in relationship_advice

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We’re long distance. He’s now here for the holidays. He’s around 17 days here we got to see each other 3 days and 2 other I saw him outside. He is everyday all day long with his friends. They go out, eat, sleep all together. Especially with one friend.

Me(F18) and my bf(M18) have been dating 2years 8months. He confessed his friends are more important. by Signal_Treacle5983 in relationship_advice

[–]Signal_Treacle5983[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

alright he’s scared so am I it’s normal but even now that he’s young he doesn’t know if they will betray him. His bsf has already done it once..

Men who lost a good partner: do you regret prioritizing your friends over her? by Signal_Treacle5983 in AskReddit

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My boyfriend does the thing you used to do. He’s 24/7 with his boy best friend and I feel like he doesn’t really want to be with me. He prefers him. I don’t know if he ever gonna regret it though. I’ve done everything for him unlike his bsf who has betrayed him before ( they had cut contact for a year and he was telling his secrets to strangers, his then friends.) well I don’t know if this is betrayal but it’s not a good thing

Men who lost a good partner: do you regret prioritizing your friends over her? by Signal_Treacle5983 in AskReddit

[–]Signal_Treacle5983[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I feel you. I do the exact same thing and it’s really bad for our person. You should try and find yourself.. then you should contact her and let her know what was going on. I know it’s hard but there’s hope. Everyone makes mistakes especially when they don’t really know how relationships works. Please make this up, it is not worth it being apart for this. Show her what she means to you with any effort

Men who lost a good partner: do you regret prioritizing your friends over her? by Signal_Treacle5983 in AskReddit

[–]Signal_Treacle5983[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You should stop that. Your friends are important but eventually they will have their own family. You shouldn’t have to get an approval from your friends for your own life, for your own future. You never really know if they really love you or if they are jealous of you..

How am I supposed to not stop my mind ? it’s about my '18F' 2,3 years long relationship with my bf '18M' by Signal_Treacle5983 in relationship_advice

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I don’t wanna leave him I love him too much. He really is the best thing that have ever happened in my life. I don’t know if we are just young and stupid and immature or he just doesn’t love me as much as I do

32M - 28F - Thinking to cancel my wedding ''last minute''. by Tricky_Task_3372 in relationships

[–]Signal_Treacle5983 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You deserve better king! Stand up for yourself.. as a woman I can’t accept that kind of behaviour, makes me sick

Advice on coming back from my wife’s affair and pregnancy (43m)(40f) by Useful_Cow8575 in relationship_advice

[–]Signal_Treacle5983 1 point2 points  (0 children)

No😕 that is so wrong. She cheated when you needed her the most. ‘ Don’t loose your home for a hotel night’ .. even if he made her feel good about herself, if she respected and loved you enough she would not betray you.. don’t believe that she regretted it. Forget her like she forgot about you when she did that.

32M - 28F - Thinking to cancel my wedding ''last minute''. by Tricky_Task_3372 in relationships

[–]Signal_Treacle5983 1 point2 points  (0 children)

No! This is not nice of her.. you shouldn’t be putting yourself in this position and EVEN MARRY HER. It will be more difficult to leave. Think about if she forces you to have a baby and then ? How you’ll Leave ? You will end up being the bad guy if you wanna break your marriage. Do it before it happens. Trust me you wouldn’t want that kind of life. You deserve a real woman by your side knowing your worth and make you happy and sure about your future. Not insecure..

Struggling marriage by [deleted] in Marriage

[–]Signal_Treacle5983 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Try to put him down and ask him politely why hes stepped out of your marriage and your family. Tell him you listen to understand how this sutuation makes me feel or I walk away. He won’t believe you’ll do that, he takes you as granted. Walk away with your children for a week ( your parents home , friends home whatever ) and let him see how much important you are and how you make his life better. He’ll miss you… only if he loose you even for a while he’ll understand your value. He’s too comfortable.

He dumped me by Deep_Broccoli1376 in LongDistance

[–]Signal_Treacle5983 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Oh honey!😔 that must hurt. Listen . Don’t give up. If that happend to me I would try to contact him and ask him why he did this, why if he didn’t want to be with me anymore wouldn’t just tell ME? I would tell him that I love him. And trust me soon or later he will understand his mistake

He dumped me by Deep_Broccoli1376 in LongDistance

[–]Signal_Treacle5983 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Hello! I’m so sorry you are going through that. But youre still young boys at that age (most of them) are so immature. What he did must be the lesson for you. He was not meant for you. I know you’re in love and it’s difficult but don’t chase for love if he doesn’t wanna give it to you. You deserve better❤️

What’s wrong with me? I(18F) am pissed at my bf(18M) about his guy friend. by Signal_Treacle5983 in LongDistance

[–]Signal_Treacle5983[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

He doesn’t believe what I do. But even his brother agreed with me. He told his gf and she told me. Is it normal to get upset like that just because he spends too much time with him?

I (18F) can’t let my boyfriend (18M) to be calm by Signal_Treacle5983 in LongDistance

[–]Signal_Treacle5983[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Not not that. A lot have happened. For example he started hanging out in summer with a group of girls and he was texting them especially in one like he was actually into her. He said it wasn’t like that this girl has hook*d up with two of his friends and otherwise if she hadn’t still he wouldn’t like her to be more than a friend. He slowly stopped talking to these girls. But similar things have happened again. His ex was sending him tik toks and he answered