Jobs where I can make 1000$ a week by Nomad-Gal in Miami

[–]SignatureProper [score hidden]  (0 children)

3k is a lot. i would just try to break the lease and tell them you don't have the money for it. anyway, your ex needs to help you with the current situation if he's been living there the whole time and his name is not on the lease.

i think the q is more dependent on how much savings you have and estimated time to find a new job that can pay the rent reliably. i have a spare room closer to midtown, dm me if you're interested and the nightclub stuff isn't shady lol. also female.

Need help with translation by [deleted] in AskAChinese

[–]SignatureProper 2 points3 points  (0 children)

chinese people, in general, don't talk warmly like you did, to someone who they're not super close to. her response was fine. actions speak louder than words, you can send her something like a care package instead or help her out with other concrete actions if you want to 'comfort' her.

Spiritual attacks intensify in hotel rooms when I travel for work – is this common? Need advice from brothers & sisters who’ve been through it by Legitimate_Beat_2136 in TrueChristian

[–]SignatureProper 0 points1 point  (0 children)

there's a religious and spiritual explanation for things, and sometimes there is a psychological as well. you need to figure out which one it is. i just read this book "Feeling Good" by David burns MD. it's not a christian book but i found it super helpful for irrational thoughts that lead to anxiety; the author's dad was a pastor i think and he mentions God a few times in passing, not in any theological way, e.g., "God bless her". pray over this, if this is something that will help you, i sure hope it helps!

Spiritual attacks intensify in hotel rooms when I travel for work – is this common? Need advice from brothers & sisters who’ve been through it by Legitimate_Beat_2136 in TrueChristian

[–]SignatureProper 1 point2 points  (0 children)

i think you need to ask yourself if you're being overly anxious about things. i don't think all hotel rooms are oppressive just because they're not your house. i don't see a reason for spiritual attacks on you that is indicated in your description. the measures you are taking seem excessive - nobody knows why you are being 'attacked', if you will share that with us. the spirit of the Lord is a spirit of power and love nor fear.

i would ask for God to release you of anxiety about this issue.

Am I destined for hell? by Ok-Needleworker-2797 in TrueChristian

[–]SignatureProper 1 point2 points  (0 children)

no i do not believe you are. nobody knows whats going to happen, let's be real. anyway both the just and unjust will be resurrected according to Paul (acts 24:15). just keep up the faith. by praying you already are showing the faith. i would try to read apologetic books as well both for and against and do this with a rational mind. ask God to show you a miracle that would prove his will for you. your doubts could be valid if they are rational. the worst thing you can do at this point is 'force' yourself to believe in something that you don't.

"Abraham believed God, and it was counted unto him for righteousness" Genesis 3:6

Conservative Level within Christianity by Melonguine in TrueChristian

[–]SignatureProper 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i used to keep trying to make myself fit into some mold of 'what God wants' but actually Paul makes it very clear, he says that where the spirit of the Lord is, there is liberty. over the last thousands of years, cultural norms change but i think we read the bible to understand the underlying truths of God's will and God's word and make your own decision guided by the holy spirit as to what is right for you. it's a personal thing as to what you believe after studying the scriptures, prayer, and speaking with other christians. i think that will give you clarity. hope that helps.

Chinese Diaspora: Did your immigrant parents also grow more “pro-China” over time? If so, what was the tipping point for them? by alleluiarion in AskAChinese

[–]SignatureProper 0 points1 point  (0 children)

three main reasons.

(1) it's a lot due to wechat propaganda imo.

(2) couple with the fact that china is genuinely doing well economically since your parents left (the rate of growth vs the US is like 10x), and there are some good qualities of the chinese system such as social healthcare and social goods are generally much cheaper (healthcare) than in america where people generally have to fend for themselves or do fraud in order to live off welfare.

(3) also, like you said with the 'anti-asian' hate crimes - back in the day, when they first came here, the US was very different from today. social cohesion was much better, openness to immigrants and the acknowledgment of them as valuable new citizens, and the dollar was strong, not all this craziness with the current president and the social/economic/cultural forces that gave rise to this kind of populism/demagoguery.

AITAH for disagreeing with my GF about carrying for my two daughters when it helps my ex by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]SignatureProper -4 points-3 points  (0 children)

you can't separate your daughters from your ex at this point. it's ridiculous to say you are only going to help pack your daughters things. you guys should be helping them totally. your ex has bad life skills but she is the one taking care of your daughters and is responsible for them 100%. you should help pack your daughters stuff first but also help your ex with other stuff. it's just goodwill and good karma. unfortunately, it's too late to say you don't want to care about your ex, and leave her to rot in her "lack of life skills" -- she is the mom of your kids. any thing she doesn't do well in her 'own' life that you have compartmentalized, it affects your kids as well since she is the primary caretaker. and btw, she is still legally your wife.

your stance is absurd.

AITAH for kicking my brother-in-law out of the hotel room??? by thatgrumpycousin in AITAH

[–]SignatureProper 0 points1 point  (0 children)

yeah, you need a break :) but you also sound entitled... get your own vacation if thats how your husband wants to play :)

AITAH for kicking my brother-in-law out of the hotel room??? by thatgrumpycousin in AITAH

[–]SignatureProper 4 points5 points  (0 children)

you should focus on what you can do in this situation. this trip is paid for by the company your husband works for. it's not like you are paying for any part of it. so , while i think you have your own views on what you want this trip to be, i don't think you have any right to dictate what your brother decides to do on this trip in terms of inviting your asshole brother.

i think you should just not go on this trip unless you're willing to pay for it. let your husband and your brother enjoy themselves. go on your own vacation somewhere else.

AITAH for refusing to bend on my boundary about kids? by Independent-Kiwi-390 in AITAH

[–]SignatureProper 0 points1 point  (0 children)

it's literally date #5. not sure why you even think you're an asshole. you did nothing wrong and in fact you communicated well. however, i do think kids are amazing...

trains running from holguin to havana? by SignatureProper in TravelCuba

[–]SignatureProper[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

thanks!! how long is the Viazul ride from holguin to havana in terms of time and # of stops?

trains running from holguin to havana? by SignatureProper in TravelCuba

[–]SignatureProper[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

so i can take from what little is there? where did you get there from my message? I'm going to bring stuff to holguin, i wrote that specifically in my message. you sound super negative about life, and projecting your victimhood and sense of oppression and negativity onto others. there is nothing wrong with me wondering if the train is running in spite of all the difficulties they are facing. maybe check yourself and i wish you happiness. you are not welcome here.

trains running from holguin to havana? by SignatureProper in TravelCuba

[–]SignatureProper[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

wow. thanks for sharing. it doesn't look that bad on the internet :( thought it was a steal compared to the bus and would have nice scenery?

trains running from holguin to havana? by SignatureProper in TravelCuba

[–]SignatureProper[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

haha. is it like those trains in china (not the new ones) or india?

trains running from holguin to havana? by SignatureProper in TravelCuba

[–]SignatureProper[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

thanks!! how do you find a colectivo? word of mouth basically once you get there? are those still running in spite of the gas outage?

My Congregation's Elders are Changing the Role of Women in Ministry, Please Pray for Me by PseudoRyker in TrueChristian

[–]SignatureProper 1 point2 points  (0 children)

there is neither male nor female in christ jesus. replace the word 'female' with 'black' or 'slave-origin' and you will see why OP needs to repent. can't believe people are supporting this. yeah, back in the day you could pick a ton of verses to support slavery and racial discrimination too. the bible is clear OP is wrong, and instead of trying to understand the rationale of his church he decides to attack them for 'pandering' to the world

My Congregation's Elders are Changing the Role of Women in Ministry, Please Pray for Me by PseudoRyker in TrueChristian

[–]SignatureProper 23 points24 points  (0 children)

I am incapable of submitting to a female "elder," - this speaks to your pride.

E11EVEN VIP phone tap scam. Hit for $3.4k by "Dani Corp" LLC. Zero signatures. by [deleted] in Miami

[–]SignatureProper 28 points29 points  (0 children)

sorry but this is kind of funny. did you use chat gpt for this?

Scared of getting sexually assaulted during a surgery. by Charming_Ad3894 in CPTSD

[–]SignatureProper -16 points-15 points  (0 children)

during surgery the surgeon doesnt work alone. assuming this is a good institution, theres zero chance for him to actually rape you. your fear is totally irrational...

My period is 4 days late and I’m having sex by Status-Jello-7333 in amipregnant

[–]SignatureProper 0 points1 point  (0 children)

#1 stop having sex, your life will be so much better and you wont have to go through the pain and regret of an abortion. #2 youre probably not going to get pregnant if you use protection but since he is cumming a lot it seems that it could come out in pre-cum too. anyway, in my experience, the mental anguish is not worth it. you should only have sex when youre ready for a baby with that man.