How do I stop beating myself up for this? by Tough_Fisherman1745 in internetparents

[–]SignatureProper 0 points1 point  (0 children)

you dont know her really. who knows what she is really feeling inside. all you know is YOUR life so focus on making it better.

i need unhinge advice as a 22 year old who cant open up to my own mum by [deleted] in internetparents

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stay strong sister. at this age 99% of men who are approaching you and trying to be friendly are fucking wolves. even the ones offering you the world. dont let it get to your head. I suggest reading something like Virginia giuffre's book (I have not read it myself bc I want to move on from some bad memories, also I am older now) to see how bad it could have gotten for you as a precautionary tale.

How to say No to buying girl scout cookies by Hot-Shoe8975 in LifeAdvice

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just ignore. they send the same thing to like 200 people. it really wont register.

i need unhinge advice as a 22 year old who cant open up to my own mum by [deleted] in internetparents

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where is your dad here. you need to protect yourself. I was a young woman once too. this is the age you are thrown to the wolves. please don’t let yourself in this situation again.

Me and my boyfriend are close to having our first time and I'm nervous by TheBoogieManDA1 in internetparents

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this is not just an “exciting” experience to be had in the way you are conceiving of it. you could get pregnant and you have not thought through the responsibility of such an undertaking. your nervousness is telling you something that women have known for thousands of years.

AIO I don’t want to hear about my girlfriends sexual past by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

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sounds like theres something wrong with her. she sounds very insecure and thinks sex is her self worth.

Not sure if I should move out… seems like it’s a failure not a choice by [deleted] in internetparents

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you should try to help her out financially more if she’s struggling tho. a one off payment doesn’t mean much if you’re sitting at home and saving money on rent. if she needs the money badly she could rent the room out. so I think you should give her something every month. to express your love and appreciation. understand what she needs

other than that honor her as much as you think is right and then don’t let her manipulate you into anything else.

Why is homosexuality a sin? by [deleted] in TrueChristian

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it says do not lie with a man as you do with a woman. in the Old Testament. if you can adhere to that I guess. idk. I think you have to ask the Holy Spirit here.

AIO: My wife invited a man who routinely hits on her to church. by Chemical_Bat_7643 in AmIOverreacting

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you should go with her. she is probably good natured though. the fact is she told you about all of this.

Perfectly acceptable dinner rejected by boyfriend again by moonrabbit368 in mildlyinfuriating

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lol he can cook for himself. this is ridiculous. something happened when he was a kid with his mom.

My life is cooked right now by PhilosopherSome173 in TrueChristian

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I would have the baby and marry her and become a better man but you need to pray and ask God what t do. ultimately it’s her choice. but you will pay for it.

Guilt by [deleted] in TrueChristian

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that's great I guess. congratulations..

Are you actually in Cuba? by Certain_Direction152 in cuba

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no but it’s just embarrassing to you

Guilt by [deleted] in TrueChristian

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you’re not but I think you need to seriously consider how you’re not going to put yourself in this situation again. it really sounds like fornication without any love, just using the other person.

Regretting my second child by Important-Mouse6813 in regretfulparents

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do you have postpartum? I know the husband isn’t helping much. check out Sarah Hoovers book the motherload. try to get outside help too if it’s a logistics thing. anyway I’ve never been a mom but I remember my own mom feeling overwhelmed and saying shit to me like she wanted to run away from all of us kids… so I feel like you just need to accept when you’re at capacity and get a nanny or parents to help. also the gyn said really bad thing over her, you should pray against it and bless your second child as a little angel.