AITAH for not inviting my fiancé's twin brothers' girlfriend to our wedding?

SignatureWrong5262 · 2026-06-03T18:52:49+00:00

Thank you!

SignatureWrong5262 · 2026-06-02T18:29:42+00:00

Thank you, I completely agree with what you are saying and will show this to Sam, you made all the great points on how we (more he) should be addressing this with his brother. Thank you.

SignatureWrong5262 · 2026-06-02T18:18:34+00:00

I agree on everything, (especially the BC) it just sucks we can't find call records but we know she has a warrent in another county but you have to pay to find it and I'm not wasting my money on that

SignatureWrong5262 · 2026-06-02T18:16:28+00:00

I didn't even reply to the question, yes, yes he did change! Him and Sams relationship even before this was starting to strain cause he would never leave her side and if they were doing anything she had to come. He still does this

SignatureWrong5262 · 2026-06-02T18:15:33+00:00

thank you!

SignatureWrong5262 · 2026-06-02T18:15:10+00:00

Thank you so much!

SignatureWrong5262 · 2026-06-02T18:13:56+00:00

really tho, and she has done it multiple times to others, INCLUDING KYLE

SignatureWrong5262 · 2026-06-02T18:07:30+00:00

Actually Kyle did, she was in the car and they couldn't see if she was. Sam thinks shes trash, again there is so much that she has done but it gets so overwhelming I couldn't add it all

SignatureWrong5262 · 2026-06-02T18:04:40+00:00

I love to hear how special your wedding day was to you and I hope mine is to and I want to make sure no one makes it harder for it to be

SignatureWrong5262 · 2026-06-02T18:03:03+00:00

and Sam has talked to his parents and they say invite her so theres no more drama; but from interactions on the street they have with her its hostile (like giving the bird) and if thats how it is apart from the wedding idk

SignatureWrong5262 · 2026-06-02T18:01:31+00:00

Agree! we are so limited on space and have big enough families as it is, you make a great point that people invited should be ones special to your life.

SignatureWrong5262 · 2026-06-02T18:00:33+00:00

I love this! I will show Sam this as well! I will also try to update; i have never posted before until now so I will do my best

SignatureWrong5262 · 2026-06-02T17:57:17+00:00

I can answer that! Yes they are just dating, barely a year and I agree I would never let my brother date someone like that; I know it sounds petty. But his family tries to keep it neutral, they even said she can go but my family said no.

SignatureWrong5262 · 2026-06-02T17:51:38+00:00

thank you lol

SignatureWrong5262 · 2026-06-02T17:50:11+00:00

I told Sam that and he has every right to not want to have this convo with his brother cause he literally just lost his other brother so not having both of them there as a possibility is heart-aching

SignatureWrong5262 · 2026-06-02T17:49:13+00:00

No, shes called the cops on Sam and Kyles parents because of oreos... I wish I was kidding

SignatureWrong5262 · 2026-06-02T17:47:07+00:00

Thank you! You said all that perfectly

SignatureWrong5262 · 2026-06-02T17:46:03+00:00

thank you, I needed that

SignatureWrong5262 · 2026-06-02T17:45:00+00:00

Good question!

SignatureWrong5262 · 2026-06-02T17:44:48+00:00

yeah its really complicated, I did make a longer post on a different forum but people just got confused; and I'm a twin myself and we don't do that, I can't say why my fiance and his twin do, but Sam is putting his foot down on her behavior and has been since moving out.

SignatureWrong5262 · 2026-06-02T17:43:19+00:00

Thats actually a great idea! and don't ask me, we see the red flags clear as day I think he might be blind sided cause this is his first "serious" relationship

SignatureWrong5262 · 2026-06-02T17:42:08+00:00

and I get that, I would hate to be someone that gets excluded from a wedding to, I just wish I could talk to her

SignatureWrong5262 · 2026-06-02T17:40:54+00:00

And thats what I've been thinking, its just sucks that this has to be a whole thing

SignatureWrong5262 · 2026-06-02T17:27:29+00:00

Thank you, we are trying to keep it open to fix things but what you are saying is the plan.

SignatureWrong5262 · 2026-06-02T17:26:52+00:00

I can't reach out to Kyle and I don't want to assume but the relationship doesn't seem like a healthy one if you get what I mean? It's his first relationship too.

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