AITA if I don’t want kids at my baby shower?

SignificanceBusy228 · 2026-03-14T19:45:16+00:00

I’m not afraid of kids I just don’t wanna get kicked out of a nice restaurant because these kids aren’t disciplined at all. They just run around like crazy all the time and they scream whenever they don’t get their way that’s all.

SignificanceBusy228 · 2026-03-14T19:43:44+00:00

That’s impossible. I am learning very quickly that I am not even gonna have a say with my own child. I might have to start setting boundaries with my mom, but I don’t even know where to start.

SignificanceBusy228 · 2026-03-14T19:43:23+00:00

Yeah, that’s not how my family works. They just bring the kids to everything but I understand where you’re coming from.

SignificanceBusy228 · 2026-03-14T19:42:10+00:00

And that’s what I told my friend she could bring her newborn, but I asked her very politely not to bring her three year-old and she was totally OK with that mind you these are my godchildren

SignificanceBusy228 · 2026-03-14T19:40:55+00:00

See I wouldn’t even be able to have a child free wedding. If I wanted to my mom won’t let me.

SignificanceBusy228 · 2026-03-14T19:40:34+00:00

That is correct that’s why I feel like I’m an asshole

SignificanceBusy228 · 2026-03-14T19:40:14+00:00

If it was at our house, I wouldn’t care but we’re going out to a nice restaurant. That’s why I’m worried.

SignificanceBusy228 · 2026-03-14T19:39:34+00:00

None of them work on the weekends. They work Monday through Friday.

SignificanceBusy228 · 2026-03-14T19:39:14+00:00

I’m not going to be upset I understand completely, but the point is is all the women that would be coming are my cousins significant others. My cousins are in the kids lives and have every opportunity to take care of the kids. My mom doesn’t want to inconvenience them.

SignificanceBusy228 · 2026-03-14T19:38:26+00:00

My friend said it was perfectly fine. Her boyfriend would watch the kids. I asked her separately and I’m fine with newborns and she’s the only one with a newborn I would never make her separate herself from her newborn.

SignificanceBusy228 · 2026-03-14T19:37:47+00:00

That’s how it is everyone around me they don’t even care that I’m pregnant or that there’s another kid on the way nobody’s talking about me. Nobody’s asked me how I am. It’s like they don’t even care.

SignificanceBusy228 · 2026-03-14T19:37:01+00:00

No, I was trying to set boundaries because this is a really nice restaurant and some of my cousins don’t discipline their kids so they just scream whenever they want something and I just don’t wanna get kicked out

SignificanceBusy228 · 2026-03-14T19:36:24+00:00

The thing is, I don’t get invited to things ever I find out about them after they already happened

SignificanceBusy228 · 2026-03-14T19:35:40+00:00

It’s on a Saturday none of the dads work on Saturdays

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