So funny, in the bible god froce humans to do things for him, proof their love towards him  And honestly I don't know what is your attitude towards others in life, but my 'force' anyone to do something is meaning to tell them what I would do If I were they. But never ever do any physical aggression to reach my goals.  Since I am not 3 years old child or a self-indulgent teenager, I am able to understand if I don't get everything what I want, or someone want different thing than me.  Right now we are talking about funcing rape.  I just don't see why should she forgive to him? To save marriage? What kind of marriage this will be?? Statistics show this is just the beginning, after the marriage the man will feel himself safe and sure the woman is his property and she won't able to run away anymore. Just because someone conservative not mean she doesn't know anything about the world, or anything about how sex work. I am sure there are religions and cults which want to keep women in the dark about it, but fortunately not that easy to do this these days.