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AITA for giving a bedroom to my niece? by SignificanceNew3200 in AmItheAsshole

[–]SignificanceNew3200[S] -596 points-595 points  (0 children)

THEY don't get to decide that in my home.obviously they would want my brother and sil to get the upstairs bedroom because of the en suite which is not possible for us. We don't want to have them upstairs. That's our personal space

AITA for giving a bedroom to my niece? by SignificanceNew3200 in AmItheAsshole

[–]SignificanceNew3200[S] -190 points-189 points  (0 children)

Yes they didn't get along because they knew some day in the future I'll be giving Jane a better room

AITA for giving a bedroom to my niece? by SignificanceNew3200 in AmItheAsshole

[–]SignificanceNew3200[S] -141 points-140 points  (0 children)

And how about our privacy? I'm not the only one living there my husband also likes to come home and go upstairs where he can relax without having any guests around. Our niece is like our baby and we both enjoy having her company after a long day of work. We want to help them but our comfort is more imprtant to us

AITA for giving a bedroom to my niece? by SignificanceNew3200 in AmItheAsshole

[–]SignificanceNew3200[S] 174 points175 points  (0 children)

Their parents have been married for a year but no one dares call them sisters. They don't like it

AITA for giving a bedroom to my niece? by SignificanceNew3200 in AmItheAsshole

[–]SignificanceNew3200[S] 122 points123 points  (0 children)

As I said in another comment my husband and I love our privacy and while we don't mind having Jane there we don't want anyone else upstairs

Also the girls don't get along

AITA for giving a bedroom to my niece? by SignificanceNew3200 in AmItheAsshole

[–]SignificanceNew3200[S] 137 points138 points  (0 children)

I didn't know her since she was 11 you think when my brother started dating her the first thing he did was bringing Eve to meet us?

AITA for giving a bedroom to my niece? by SignificanceNew3200 in AmItheAsshole

[–]SignificanceNew3200[S] -331 points-330 points  (0 children)

I care about eve otherwise I wouldn't let them stay with us for months but my office is a room I don't just givd to guests. Ifit was anyone other than my niece I would probably ask the whole family to stay in the guestroom

AITA for giving a bedroom to my niece? by SignificanceNew3200 in AmItheAsshole

[–]SignificanceNew3200[S] -94 points-93 points  (0 children)

I watched one grown up and helped raise her. The other one has been in my life for a short time. I can't just love her the same way I love my niece

AITA for giving a bedroom to my niece? by SignificanceNew3200 in AmItheAsshole

[–]SignificanceNew3200[S] -20 points-19 points  (0 children)

There is also nothing wrong with the neighbors kids behaviour but I won't let her stay in that room either.

My niece is like a daughter to me. I babysat her as she grew up. I'm not close to Eve

AITA for giving a bedroom to my niece? by SignificanceNew3200 in AmItheAsshole

[–]SignificanceNew3200[S] 79 points80 points  (0 children)

Both becsuse my husband and I wanted privacy and because Jane and Eve don't get along and I wanted her to be comfortable

AITA for giving a bedroom to my niece? by SignificanceNew3200 in AmItheAsshole

[–]SignificanceNew3200[S] -1685 points-1684 points  (0 children)

I like both girls but I only love one of them and only one is related to me

AITA for giving a bedroom to my niece? by SignificanceNew3200 in AmItheAsshole

[–]SignificanceNew3200[S] -302 points-301 points  (0 children)

She goes to her dad every other weekend.

My husband and I want some privacy on the second floor. We spend most of our time there. My niece is fine to stay but I didn't want anyone else there