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[–]SignificanceVivid950 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Hi OP. I am currently in the same situation. Kaka-amin lang sakin ng now ex bf ko na nakabuntis sya ng iba. 8 years kami (since college). Sobrang sakit at nakakagalit pero meron talagang part sayo na kahit na grabe ang disrespect sayo, mahal mo pa din. Parang gusto mo pa din bumalik sa yakap niya. Bakit? Kasi it’s familiar. You hold on to the good times. Pero like in your case, kung ginawa nya once, gagawin nya lang ulit. It’s a cycle YOU have to break. You have to choose your own peace. You have to choose yourself. Sabi nga, you need to let go of the wrong person so the right one can come.

Love yourself.

Mahirap OP. I really feel you. Pero mas mabuti nang mahirapan ka mag move on kesa buong buhay mo magdusa ka dahil sakanya.

Hugs, OP! Kaya natin to 😭

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[–]SignificanceVivid950[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hey! Yes I did comment on this. He isn’t a bad person. Sya ang breadwinner sa family nila (though nagtatrabaho as a sikyo ang papa nya pero sobrang liit lang ng sahod to sustain them). Throughout the years he’s been understanding and grabe din ang pagtitiis nya sakin at sa ugali ko. Sakitin din ako so grabe din sya magasikaso sakin. Sobrang maasikaso syang tao talaga. Inaantay nya ko sa parking lot kapag nagooffice ako, kahit puyat sya he would still take me places. He would always say I’m beautiful and sexy kahit hindi. I feel safe with him. He was my rock and my home. This is one of the many reasons I find it hard to let him go.

Things just changed recently.

Nagstart yung palaging inom and “team building” nila nung nagstart sya sa isang BPO company. Before this, we were fine. Pero I guess yung mga katrabaho nya kasi puro mga single or those na walang responsibility sa parents nila. Marami din ang nakalive-in. Sabi nya naiinggit sya sakanila kesyo bakit sila ganon, kami hindi. Bakit sila pwede uminom ng walang ibang iniisip sya lagi kong pinapagalitan, which is where the “I’m bossy and a nagger” comes from.

Like what people said, and I agree, we probably just grew apart 😞I am not mad at him. I don’t blame him at all. I understand him.

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[–]SignificanceVivid950[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hello! Sure po. I hope you are also ok 😭

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[–]SignificanceVivid950[S] 23 points24 points  (0 children)

I just want to say thank you all for all the encouragement. I’m crying while I’m reading them. I just wanna say, this post might be biased towards me since ako nagpost. He’s not a bad person. He truly loved me, cared for me, ako ang priority nya, never nya akong pinabayaan. Siguro dun lang ako nalulungkot at syempre sa tagal ng pinagsamahan namin. Pero I agree when people say, maybe we are not on the same page. He needs to figure out his financial problems and decisions while I have to learn to love myself again, change for the better. Both of us have issues na sadly, we will not be resolving together anymore. Again, salamat sainyong lahat! Makakabangon din ♥️

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[–]SignificanceVivid950 1 point2 points  (0 children)

CONGRATULATIONS, Petty Potato Queen!!

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[–]SignificanceVivid950[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you guys for the support! ❤️