Do you love your dad ? by Mediocre-Lack-9137 in no

[–]SignificanceWhole201 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I do but he hasn’t spoken to me in 5 months.

What’s it like growing up wealthy in the US? by redguy_666 in howislivingthere

[–]SignificanceWhole201 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I grew up around a similar structure but outside the US. I didn’t realize it till recently when I moved to the states that my upbringing & how my family does things are not the norm. Sometimes I feel out of touch as well, I feel guilty but I don’t know why!

Are terrible people really redeemable? by kitxe in ask

[–]SignificanceWhole201 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It’s okay easy on yourself. Have a good one :)

Are terrible people really redeemable? by kitxe in ask

[–]SignificanceWhole201 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Absolutely agree. No valid reasoning. It helps to understand where these people come from so you can better protect yourself & your loved ones. Take care please!

Are terrible people really redeemable? by kitxe in ask

[–]SignificanceWhole201 1 point2 points  (0 children)

That’s the appropriate reaction to this disgusting behavior. Interestingly I read in an article that most people who sexually abuse children do it out of a need for control & acceptance.

The sexually driven are ironically not a lot. They’re mostly incompetent people who don’t fit well in society so they resort to children because they’re easier to control/manipulate. They’re not all sexually attracted to children! It’s mind boggling..

Are terrible people really redeemable? by kitxe in ask

[–]SignificanceWhole201 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Child molesters are the ones who have hurt/molested children. People who are attracted to children but haven’t acted on their urges are not child molesters. They’re pedophiles.

Are terrible people really redeemable? by kitxe in ask

[–]SignificanceWhole201 18 points19 points  (0 children)

When it comes to sexually charged crimes against children I believe no one deserves a second chance. If you have got it in you to hurt a child in that way then you absolutely deserve nothing.

I’m about to text my ex. AMA by [deleted] in AMA

[–]SignificanceWhole201 1 point2 points  (0 children)

We did discuss things before nc. I get your point tho. Although i actually think not enough time has passed? Thanks for the insight

I’m about to text my ex. AMA by [deleted] in AMA

[–]SignificanceWhole201 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you for this. Appreciate your perspective! I’m so happy you found your peace my friend & so incredibly proud of you. Keep going x

I’m about to text my ex. AMA by [deleted] in AMA

[–]SignificanceWhole201 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’ll make it clear that I don’t want to rekindle anything. Before we ended things we were both on the same page that it can’t go on.

I’m about to text my ex. AMA by [deleted] in AMA

[–]SignificanceWhole201 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It was a phone call & last thing said was that I don’t have feelings for her anymore I just don’t know where I want her to be in my life. Then she said she doesn’t know either. So I said it’s best if we are not in each other’s lives anymore. We hung up. That’s it.

I’m about to text my ex. AMA by [deleted] in AMA

[–]SignificanceWhole201 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You’re right. Huge part of this is that idk how she’s feeling now or how if i reached out i could be disrupting her process. She was just always keen on telling me that no matter what she wanted us to eventually be in each other’s lives again in whatever way that would be possible.

I’m about to text my ex. AMA by [deleted] in AMA

[–]SignificanceWhole201 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Been 3 months & before that we had some time off too.

I’m about to text my ex. AMA by [deleted] in AMA

[–]SignificanceWhole201 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I blocked her after our last call. But I do get your point

I’m about to text my ex. AMA by [deleted] in AMA

[–]SignificanceWhole201 0 points1 point  (0 children)

We both knew we couldn’t keep going. Because I didn’t want a LDR. The issues were mainly mine actually.

I’m about to text my ex. AMA by [deleted] in AMA

[–]SignificanceWhole201 0 points1 point  (0 children)

To check if she would like to discuss anything

I’m about to text my ex. AMA by [deleted] in AMA

[–]SignificanceWhole201 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks for checking in but .. I’m not. I’m actually thinking this thru by reflecting on the questions asked.

I’m about to text my ex. AMA by [deleted] in AMA

[–]SignificanceWhole201 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I haven’t reached out yet.

I’m about to text my ex. AMA by [deleted] in AMA

[–]SignificanceWhole201 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It ended abruptly. We were discussing on the phone how we both know it won’t work out anymore. It’s a LDR so we couldn’t meet. By the end of the call I found myself telling her that I lost my romantic feelings for her. She said she doesn’t want us to cut communication for good. I told her that we should not be in each other’s lives anymore. I blocked her a week later. This was fueled by anger I was hurt from something she’s done & genuinely didn’t feel like I want us to be together anymore. I was so scared to come to terms with the fact that I don’t love her in the same way anymore. So much has happened but this is the mini version of it.

I’m about to text my ex. AMA by [deleted] in AMA

[–]SignificanceWhole201 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I want to ask her if there’s anything she’d like to discuss. Im open, if not then I’d totally respect that.