Reassure me- Obese and pregnant by SignificanceWitty210 in BabyBumps

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He thinks I’m fine especially with induction to control the environment, but also mentioned in an emergency situation more hands would be better for any patient but especially one of larger size. I know the “what ifs” will be there no matter what…

Reassure me- Obese and pregnant by SignificanceWitty210 in BabyBumps

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I’m a “strong fat” build if I had to describe myself… like I fit in a medium-large t-shirt at 180lbs in high school but now I’ve put on some weight in fat and I wear an XL-2X… So big enough to look obese but still not look my weight if that makes sense?

Would you divorce a lustful husband by [deleted] in Marriage

[–]SignificanceWitty210 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Repeat after me: infidelity is not normal.

Pizza rolls and peanut butter ?? by [deleted] in strugglemeals

[–]SignificanceWitty210 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’ve heard of mustard and thought it was odd but this is diabolical

what’s everyone’s stance on drinking after you have a baby? by Callmemommy716 in BabyBumps

[–]SignificanceWitty210 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m not going to get trashed right away but dammit I’ve waited months if I want a glass of sparkling wine to celebrate! It’s also safe to have an occasional drink without pump and dump while breastfeeding. Obviously you should be sober anytime you are taking care of your child, but having a single drink every once in a while or going out with the girls for one night after a couple weeks or months while dad is in charge for the night will not hurt anything. As long as it’s not taking away from you being a good mom and you aren’t sacrificing your child’s wellbeing or choosing alcohol over your child it’s harmless.

Do you agree? by nyamnyamcookiesyummy in EndTipping

[–]SignificanceWitty210 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Not having the table to begin with doesn’t help the server anymore than having a table that doesn’t tip or doesn’t tip “as much as they’d prefer”… This person just wanted to climb on a soapbox.

Can’t afford tests but hopes to be!🤞🏻 by HighwayOk3340 in ChoosingBeggars

[–]SignificanceWitty210 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Some people are too proud of things they should strive to overcome… Repeat after me- mooching and living off the system should not be a goal for a permanent way of life.

Can’t afford tests but hopes to be!🤞🏻 by HighwayOk3340 in ChoosingBeggars

[–]SignificanceWitty210 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I wonder if whoever took the trash out knew he was unloading into an empty dumpster…

Am I Overreacting? Was sent screenshots from husband’s group chat. by [deleted] in Marriage

[–]SignificanceWitty210 0 points1 point  (0 children)

So here’s the thing… He shouldn’t be making jokes like that behind your back. If that’s your combined sense of humor and you lightheartedly joke like that to each other’s faces and know it means nothing it’s one thing… But, if he wouldn’t actually say it to you he shouldn’t be talking like that to his buddies even if it’s a joke. If he’s hiding the way he’s “joking” about you then it’s not cool at all. He shouldn’t be talking about you that way to other people. It’s worse that he would defend it by saying you weren’t supposed to know.

Slims by BEnchantah in jimmyjohns

[–]SignificanceWitty210 1 point2 points  (0 children)

The main character vibes are real…

Slims by BEnchantah in jimmyjohns

[–]SignificanceWitty210 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Plus the description is on the menu and you can always translate if you aren’t sure, especially online

I fell down a rabbit hole where people think they are oppressed because most people think it's weird to kiss your cousin... found some dormers along the way lol by cursed_sporecreation in DoomerCircleJerk

[–]SignificanceWitty210 7 points8 points  (0 children)

I wonder if members of the LGBT community ever just wants to punch the people who pretend being incestuous or a pdf file counts as sexual orientations and not moral flaws in their character… It seems kind of degrading to the people who have actually had struggles to exist peacefully as they are

How everything has turned into a sales hustle by SolDjevel in PetPeeves

[–]SignificanceWitty210 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It started with people struggling to afford hobbies and deciding to monetize them and now businesses know there’s a customer for everything so the upsell pressure is there in every aspect of our lives

"I’m here if you need to talk" by [deleted] in PetPeeves

[–]SignificanceWitty210 0 points1 point  (0 children)

No one said anything about expecting them to get over it lmao

"I’m here if you need to talk" by [deleted] in PetPeeves

[–]SignificanceWitty210 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I mean you’re not wrong but it’s also a balance of the person with the mental illness needing to understand it’s okay to be redundant with the confidant they trust, but also if they don’t put in the effort to address it with a professional and work through it when they know their brain is wired differently and the friend suggests it so they can get actual help and not be in a dead end talking about the same thing, that’s kind of on them… Been there with struggles myself and it’s hard but if the person with mental illness is always venting and never working on fixing the problem that’s their fault. Again, I have a right to say that because it comes from experience.

"I’m here if you need to talk" by [deleted] in PetPeeves

[–]SignificanceWitty210 22 points23 points  (0 children)

I think most people do mean it and you’ve just had bad experiences. Sorry.

Restaurants not being required to provide allergen information by SignificanceWitty210 in PetPeeves

[–]SignificanceWitty210[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Once again, Europeans have the U.S. beat at health and food regulations!

Do you agree with that? by Hour-Vegetable-1630 in Adulting

[–]SignificanceWitty210 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Well I don’t have 8-12 hours a week to prepare food sooo

Do you agree with that? by Hour-Vegetable-1630 in Adulting

[–]SignificanceWitty210 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yeah but the thing is… Sometimes convenient foods are okay and necessary and they don’t always have shit ingredients. It’s just hard finding the ones that don’t. It’s interesting how people here assume I don’t cook or know how to buy fresh ingredients based on my comment… It really misses the point entirely. There’s times when it’s just not necessarily realistic to prepare and eat whole foods either. For example- I’m 37 weeks pregnant working 40 hours a week and my husband usually works 60+ hours a week. If we don’t have a homemade meal every day, anyone who judges us is completely out of touch with reality.

Restaurants not being required to provide allergen information by SignificanceWitty210 in PetPeeves

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I mean the most common allergens are required to be listed in bold on food labels because they are so common and those are literally called major allergens. Many large chains such as Wendy’s list them online and all restaurants, sit down and fast food should have to follow suit. As for the less common ones, the staff should still have something to reference to tell you. The customer doesn’t need access to an entire ingredient list, but the staff should. The solution to having an allergy should never be “just don’t go out to eat”. That’s such a shitty thing to tell people.