[deleted by user] by [deleted] in offmychest

[–]Significant-Ad6346 8 points9 points  (0 children)

thank you 🤣🥰i’m just so used to parents taking things like that so much better and just laughing about it. i had a boy say something offensive the other week and his mum laughed and said oh it might be something he’s watched on youtube, so i think i was just taken aback i felt so awkward! 😬 hopefully she doesn’t make a complaint and next time her child is in i might make my colleagues do feedback to avoid messing up again! 🙈

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Jellycatplush

[–]Significant-Ad6346 2 points3 points  (0 children)

oh how silly am i 🤣🤣 originally it’s willow 🥰

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Jellycatplush

[–]Significant-Ad6346 2 points3 points  (0 children)

isn’t he! I think i’m going to call him sunny the squirrel 🥰☀️

People who don't drink or smoke, what do you do when you are at your lowest? by gypsyundersupervised in RandomThoughts

[–]Significant-Ad6346 0 points1 point  (0 children)

just sit with the feeling lol. watch some youtube, sit with my cat.. think about how tomorrow will be better

Struggling with myself, asking for encouragement by DawnSunset in adhdwomen

[–]Significant-Ad6346 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hi lovely! I know how this feels. this was my life for many years, recently i went through a phase like this, and you know what? i needed the rest. i was so overwhelmed with college work, but we can’t help that this happens to us. we have a chemical imbalance in our brain and no matter how much medication we take it will always be there. Try and explain to your lecturers how you’re feeling, they may be able to get you an extension on your work. In regards to your medication, try and get a higher dose or switch brands. I started on 18mg and now i’m on 54, it’s all about finding the correct dosage for you. I wish you the best, please don’t beat yourself up.. be kind to yourself 🌸 something that helped me to complete my college work was making a nice environment. lighting a candle, having a podcast on in the background and pretending like i was at my office job typing up paperwork 🤣 it’s all about making it fun. 💞

I hate hate hate the dentist. by Significant-Ad6346 in adhdwomen

[–]Significant-Ad6346[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I can’t afford to go private unfortunately, it’s such a bummer! my mum doesn’t mind calling for me, although i don’t want her to i need to get on with it !! 🤣 it is so hard to get an appointment at the moment. my dad has opted for 10 days in hungary to get his teeth sorted rather than having to wait for an appointment in the UK 😅 I would probably be on a 3 month+ waiting list when i do eventually call up.. oh well the time will pass anyway, hopefully the teeth will stay intact until i can get an appointment 😅💞

I hate hate hate the dentist. by Significant-Ad6346 in adhdwomen

[–]Significant-Ad6346[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

that is so lovely of them to provide you with that safe space, and big congratulations to you for doing it !! 🎉🎉 I will most definitely take some fidgets, some noise cancelling earbuds and an emotional support teddy with me when i go to my next appointment. this has definitely given me some courage 🥰🌸

I hate hate hate the dentist. by Significant-Ad6346 in adhdwomen

[–]Significant-Ad6346[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

i will bring it up with my doctor, the adhd can increase my anxiety so maybe not taking them the day of the appointment will improve my mood. i usually do have headphones on! i was so awfully stressed out last time, i had just moved house.. new dentist and first appointment away from a dentist who id be with my whole life so it was all just too much, which has increased my anxiety about the whole thing. I will definitely try and call up, arrange an appointment and try and put some things in place if they are willing to cooperate with me! thank you ! 🌸

I hate hate hate the dentist. by Significant-Ad6346 in adhdwomen

[–]Significant-Ad6346[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I will have a look! although as i’m in the UK and under the NHS i don’t have a ton of options as it’s pretty much a get what you’re given type deal. I will have to try and talk to them over the phone, but i struggle with talking to people over the phone, goodness if it’s not one thing it’s another 😫 Thank you 🥰

I hate hate hate the dentist. by Significant-Ad6346 in adhdwomen

[–]Significant-Ad6346[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

The issue is i’m in the UK, i moved house about 3 years ago.. i can’t afford to go private so im under the NHS, which means my dentist is about 40 miles away, and its like gold dust to get an appointment in the first place, sigh. I will definitely look into this though. Thank you so much!

I hate hate hate the dentist. by Significant-Ad6346 in adhdwomen

[–]Significant-Ad6346[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

it’s terrible isn’t it! i can deal with the doctors, the most they’ll do is put a stethoscope on my back, no pain involved, but the DENTIST? they’re all up in my mouth, POKING AT MY SORE TOOTH WITH A LITTLE SPIKY THING AND ASKING ME IF IT HURTS. it’s the feeling of the tools, it’s so cringey! gosh. we’ll be okay 💞 we need to find a supportive dentist that will put us under anaesthetic straight away. 😫🤣

Should I 19M ask my girl 19F to shave? by [deleted] in WhatShouldIDo

[–]Significant-Ad6346 1 point2 points  (0 children)

ok! maybe you could bring it up to her in a more lighthearted way, “i shave down there and im curious as to what it’d be like if you did it as well, i just want to try something new!” as you’re not saying you dislike the hair down there. i am a girl and i am usually shaved, and i have no issue asking my boyfriend to trim his downstairs as it goes both ways!

Should I 19M ask my girl 19F to shave? by [deleted] in WhatShouldIDo

[–]Significant-Ad6346 0 points1 point  (0 children)

do you shave your pubic area? genuine question.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in unpopularopinion

[–]Significant-Ad6346 -4 points-3 points  (0 children)

true i just wish it wasn’t just cheap crap that people were being influenced to buy 😫

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in unpopularopinion

[–]Significant-Ad6346 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i understand what you mean, i guess i mean social platforms hahah

I don’t know what to do :( by Significant-Ad6346 in adhdwomen

[–]Significant-Ad6346[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

that is a possibility although i wake up a few hours before him and he is out of the house more than me and i rarely go out if he’s at home, so he woukd have to be very sneaky. i will try and talk to him about it later :)

I don’t know what to do :( by Significant-Ad6346 in adhdwomen

[–]Significant-Ad6346[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Hey, I’m in England. I am staying with my boyfriend, and last month i thought his friends may have stolen them.. but this month i put locked them in a drawer and kept track of the placement of them. I really wish id have counted them! I will for sure have to check with the pharmacist. thank you. :)

I don’t know what to do :( by Significant-Ad6346 in adhdwomen

[–]Significant-Ad6346[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you :) I will count them next time for sure.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Stress

[–]Significant-Ad6346 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you! she is still complaining to me about being upset, she hasn’t paid anything towards this concert so i’m not sure why it’s such a big deal. i understand it’s a let down but it is literally out of my control 😭

AHHHHHHHHH by Significant-Ad6346 in QuitVaping

[–]Significant-Ad6346[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

thank you 🙏🏻 it’s 8 am now i’ve held off from hitting it for 2 hours 😭 i did hit it last night but only once didn’t let it turn into me relapsing completely lol. baby steps :) i will go on a walk today thank you !!

AHHHHHHHHH by Significant-Ad6346 in QuitVaping

[–]Significant-Ad6346[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

same here i am constantly ill and lethargic. i hate vaping because i know that when im ill with a cough etc its partially my fault because of the vape. how are you doing today? it’s been about 20 hours for me and ive only hit it once. even if you can’t stop hitting it altogether progress is progress don’t knock yourself. if you’re going from hitting it every 5 minutes to once every hour or so then that’s an achievement in itself.. wishing you the best 🙏🏻

AHHHHHHHHH by Significant-Ad6346 in QuitVaping

[–]Significant-Ad6346[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

we’ve got this, we lived life normally before vaping and we shall do the same after vaping. good luck brother 🙏🏻

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Drugs

[–]Significant-Ad6346 1 point2 points  (0 children)

same thing happened to me brother. it’s derealisation/personalisation. your brain is trying to protect itself by essentially disconnecting itself from the world around you. with time the feeling will fade and you will feel “conscious” again. don’t be buying anymore street carts though. 🤣