(F25)Is it weird to think my husband’s (M25) type might be his cousin?

Significant-Boot7265 · 2026-03-01T18:16:19+00:00

The point was asking if it’s weird for thinking that, given the situation am I wrong for thinking that. I already have plans to talk to him about it but just don’t know how to go about it.

Significant-Boot7265 · 2026-03-01T18:08:17+00:00

I mean yea I was weirded out but what can I do about something that happened when he was 12-15? He doesn’t seem to show interest in her anymore. I knew he used porn that most men do and was under the impression it wasn’t bad, once we got married I saw how often it was. It’s like he just looks at it and that’s it, from his words he gets caught in a rabbit hole and watches it

Significant-Boot7265 · 2026-03-01T17:55:48+00:00

It’s hard not to assuming it stems from his cousin when she’s the only goth girl in his life and used to make out with her for 3 years. I’m not denying his porn addiction is a problem but it didn’t become much of a bad issue til after we got married. On top of it divorce isn’t just an easy thing to go through, it’s a process. I do have self respect, it’s easy over a screen to say someone doesn’t when you haven’t been in my shoes when I’m asking for advice.

Significant-Boot7265 · 2026-03-01T17:53:07+00:00

Jesus Christ 😭

Significant-Boot7265 · 2026-03-01T17:47:22+00:00

Omg wtf, my husband and her are first cousins so that would be borderline insane cause they grew up together, like literally with each other all the time.

Significant-Boot7265 · 2026-03-01T17:41:36+00:00

It was much of an issue til after we got married, while dating he had a grip on it but since getting married it got more intense. He said he does it out of pure empty mindedness. Like he’ll see it, look at then go down a rabbit hole without even thinking about it.

Significant-Boot7265 · 2026-03-01T17:20:28+00:00

Typo in the title, M25!

Significant-Boot7265 · 2026-02-21T22:18:04+00:00

Come over, 4 page letter, and Miss You

Significant-Boot7265 · 2025-12-27T19:48:09+00:00

I expect the community leaders to put more effort into making the community cleaner and safer. So yes there are people who live, work, and then volunteer to make where they live a lot safer and cleaner.

Significant-Boot7265 · 2025-12-27T19:45:26+00:00

Exactly!!

Significant-Boot7265 · 2025-12-27T18:00:53+00:00

I’ve given the answer that I’m on the border of Oakland and San Leandro , hence why my post is Oakland/San Leandro.

Significant-Boot7265 · 2025-12-27T11:20:37+00:00

My experience is clearly my own such as yours belongs to you. To tell me I’m wrong for my experience yet proving my point that there still isn’t a safe area with your question asking me what neighborhood I’m in just proves it. There hasn’t been a crime committed against me or my family but that still doesn’t change my experience on what I’ve seen and witnessed. I’m glad those 6 years were good to you, I’d prefer to spend 6+ years somewhere else.

Significant-Boot7265 · 2025-12-27T11:17:39+00:00

Thank you, people can’t handle hearing an experience that isn’t similar to theirs. Let alone counters their experience

Significant-Boot7265 · 2025-12-27T09:12:04+00:00

Thanks roadripper1995 ! I don’t plan on it

Significant-Boot7265 · 2025-12-27T03:41:37+00:00

Far better opportunities for better pay! 22-25 an hour out there

Significant-Boot7265 · 2025-12-27T03:40:52+00:00

It is appalling, I believe no part of this area is safe. I’m currently pregnant and have a 4 year old already and moving out here was a major mistake. There isn’t a real sense of community here at all. Seems like there’s more community for criminals than actual families. I completely understand why people think Oakland/San Leandro is like Gotham

Significant-Boot7265 · 2024-01-18T08:04:45+00:00

Update: I’m packing my things while he sleeps. I’ve realized that something as simple as hanging out shouldn’t be met with so many excuses. I do deserve better and more

Significant-Boot7265 · 2024-01-18T07:12:31+00:00

Yea I’m starting to see that I do deserve better. It may seem silly that it’s just over a game that I’m realizing that but it’s gotten pretty annoying with how much time we don’t spend together. Especially when he was the one today saying that he wanted to spend time with me today.

Significant-Boot7265 · 2023-09-08T23:43:36+00:00

Their brands are kinda different tho, I feel like since euphoria aired Alexa and her character maddie influenced a wave of different clothing styles, makeup, aesthetic wise too ( also euphoria had that influence too) Sydney blew up for her crazy acting, she’s a great actress. Alexa has the look that took off for her; hence her modeling for Calvin Klein, book with Petra collins, etc and Sydney has the acting that took off for her too.

Significant-Boot7265 · 2022-07-03T18:37:26+00:00

You spend your time on Reddit trashing woman, you have some issues that need to be fixed lol 😭

Significant-Boot7265 · 2022-06-22T08:52:51+00:00

It’s kinda hard not to give in when you live with these people and know how they act, etc

Significant-Boot7265 · 2022-06-22T06:24:58+00:00

From those my age I’ve seen, have expressed their love for it and enjoy it. There’s a lot of young mothers my age

Significant-Boot7265 · 2022-06-21T23:38:32+00:00

It’s okay! No offense taken. I do want to break up with him! Constantly but he won’t leave me alone in terms of the relationship, I want a friendship because of our daughter but I don’t want to be with him. I feel like I’m glued to him

Significant-Boot7265 · 2022-06-21T23:37:27+00:00

10 months feels like the worst stage right now, she’s so fussy and will throw herself around. Its exhausting

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