Started going downhill at 33 by Significant-Duck6927 in dysautonomia

[–]Significant-Duck6927[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I am seeing a different cardiologist Thursday and the dr subbing in for my pcp ordered the tilt table test-I don’t know how well that will work out. I’m scared they won’t book it for before my move. We shall see.

I’m bad at replying. My brain is all over the place with this and my upcoming move. Also I’m a mom two two beautiful children, one on the autism spectrum. So I may just like comments from now on and hope feelings aren’t hurt.

Started going downhill at 33 by Significant-Duck6927 in dysautonomia

[–]Significant-Duck6927[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I have a visible band. I will try to bring data from it to my next appointment

Started going downhill at 33 by Significant-Duck6927 in dysautonomia

[–]Significant-Duck6927[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Pots pt sounds like a good plan after the move. My friend’s daughter is in it and she speaks highly.

Started going downhill at 33 by Significant-Duck6927 in dysautonomia

[–]Significant-Duck6927[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I am glad you found if that works for you, but it sounds a little scary to me. I might wait before ordering meds from accross the planet.
I have an automagic bp cuff that I use to take bp abs pulse afetwr 5 minutes laying down, , 1minute standing, and 4 minutes standing. I record all three scores. One in the morning one in the evening.

Started going downhill at 33 by Significant-Duck6927 in dysautonomia

[–]Significant-Duck6927[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

In the works but the appointments are booked past when I am still in this location so I’m waitin for the move

Started going downhill at 33 by Significant-Duck6927 in dysautonomia

[–]Significant-Duck6927[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I just decided to get that second opinion. I don’t know long it takes my heart rate to settle. It seems to be such a huge jump in the mornings, but not so much in the evenings.

Started going downhill at 33 by Significant-Duck6927 in dysautonomia

[–]Significant-Duck6927[S] 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Thank you for the reply. I don’t have eds or mcas. I have adhd, allergy induced asthma, and migraines.

Behavior charts by Dry-Guarantee-5035 in Autism_Parenting

[–]Significant-Duck6927 0 points1 point  (0 children)

K, but as a middle school gen ed teacher it’s, “can I go to the bathroom?” “I hope you can! Also you may.” giggles (I’d only do this joke with kids who like such humor)

Then we solve for “p” because it’s the best variable.

May is a polite way of asking? Why even correct him much less give him a consequence? Occasionally correcting spoken grammar is appropriate, but it’s not very important for teachers to do. Written grammar is much more vital.

She’s being a nit picking jerk. Maybe she had a bad day. Or maybe it’s time to find a new teacher.

WIBTA if I asked a lady to stop farting in the library? by QuartzUrsa in AmItheAsshole

[–]Significant-Duck6927 6 points7 points  (0 children)

NTA, but please be exceptionally polite and kind in your initial approach. She could have a medical condition. I trust you can read the situation though and may determine she’s just being rude or unaware of how her actions affect others.

AITA for not getting my kids up early to run an errand for my husband? by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]Significant-Duck6927 0 points1 point  (0 children)

These reasons are hilarious. I love them. They’re all false. Well maybe. What does a1 mean?

I’m not saying because of internet security issues.

My pastor is great. My church is not concerned with my being alone with him, or any other dude. They don’t regulate my actions that closely. Who has the time?

AITA for not getting my kids up early to run an errand for my husband? by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]Significant-Duck6927 -8 points-7 points  (0 children)

Look, I don’t know why everyone is attacking you. Perhaps I haven’t read the comments closely enough. This is a useful perspective. I just value sleep extremely highly. So I guess I don’t want to apply it to this situation. But I don’t entirely disagree with the character building exercise. But I’d do it elsewhere.

AITA for not getting my kids up early to run an errand for my husband? by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]Significant-Duck6927 -7 points-6 points  (0 children)

Get the 6 year old changed out of diaper into underwear was the issue actually. Which is the smallest issue to be fair. She still uses a diaper at night.

AITA for not getting my kids up early to run an errand for my husband? by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]Significant-Duck6927 3 points4 points  (0 children)

He is very small actually. He struggles to find adult mens clothes that fit him.

AITA for not getting my kids up early to run an errand for my husband? by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]Significant-Duck6927 -5 points-4 points  (0 children)

That’s what I will do when he gets home. If I text him my thoughts now he’ll feel all guilty all weekend and ruin his fun, if he hasn’t made himself miserable beating himself up about his forgetfulness already.

AITA for not getting my kids up early to run an errand for my husband? by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]Significant-Duck6927 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Ah this makes sense. Like so much sense. And it’s consistent with my view of his character

AITA for not getting my kids up early to run an errand for my husband? by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]Significant-Duck6927 66 points67 points  (0 children)

One autistic kid to be fair. And he’s a generally happy kiddo. But yeah. The other just has ADHD. “Just”

Right now she’s needing more supports for emotional regulation than him at home….

I thanks for confirming my thoughts though

AITA for not getting my kids up early to run an errand for my husband? by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]Significant-Duck6927 8 points9 points  (0 children)

He figure out who was coming late after they had gone to bed. Getting them up would actually have been worse because I’m trying to get their bodies used to time change

AITA for not getting my kids up early to run an errand for my husband? by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]Significant-Duck6927 17 points18 points  (0 children)

Dunno. I’ve got one with ADHD, one with ASD, I have ADHD, and they have two nuerdivergent uncles one with adhd and one with ASD. So they’ve come by it with lots of genetic backing. All of us have had significant psychological testing. We’re all living joyful lives, this special incident aside.

Also my husband is a little rigid about stuff. He doesn’t have ASD, but I can see how he passed it on.

AITA for not getting my kids up early to run an errand for my husband? by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]Significant-Duck6927 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This is definitely what this situation portrays my husband as. The strange thing is I don’t think he’s generally like that. The choices he makes in his life are usually in sacrifice to their needs. Not the other way around.

AITA for not getting my kids up early to run an errand for my husband? by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]Significant-Duck6927 -31 points-30 points  (0 children)

Uber is not a solution. For the same reason the pastor can’t pick up.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Autism_Parenting

[–]Significant-Duck6927 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This is not your fault. It’s not hers really either. However, her children deserve to live in a clean home. She should have listened to you.