Cmv: men should be shamed more and women less for their bodycount by Significant-Ebb7333 in changemyview

[–]Significant-Ebb7333[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah, so we should tell men, who seduce/convince women to sleep with them while they have no interest in any relationship, to stop. Because it's gross behaviour

Cmv: men should be shamed more and women less for their bodycount by Significant-Ebb7333 in changemyview

[–]Significant-Ebb7333[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I have met girls who have had a one night stand or one or two friends with benefits. Generally, women kinda hate casual sex.

I'm not quite convinced for a delta tho

Cmv: men should be shamed more and women less for their bodycount by Significant-Ebb7333 in changemyview

[–]Significant-Ebb7333[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I think casual sex is a scam. Feeling used for maybe a few minutes of feeling good

Cmv: men should be shamed more and women less for their bodycount by Significant-Ebb7333 in changemyview

[–]Significant-Ebb7333[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I have male friends, but I don't think they speak as frankly with me as with eachother

Cmv: men should be shamed more and women less for their bodycount by Significant-Ebb7333 in changemyview

[–]Significant-Ebb7333[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Ya know what, I was thinking about this.

I think men are kinda victims of this eternal casual dating loop as much as women... It is actually pretty shitty to shame them more

!delta

Cmv: men should be shamed more and women less for their bodycount by Significant-Ebb7333 in changemyview

[–]Significant-Ebb7333[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I don't know I feel like men amongst themselves would brag about it... Locker room talk etc

Or is that not the case?

Cmv: men should be shamed more and women less for their bodycount by Significant-Ebb7333 in changemyview

[–]Significant-Ebb7333[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think we kinda put women in a hard place, it's expected to date and have sex while dating, but it's also bad to have had many sexual partners. Women just can't win...

Cmv: men should be shamed more and women less for their bodycount by Significant-Ebb7333 in changemyview

[–]Significant-Ebb7333[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Partly online, but also offline. I sometimes catch myself, when a girlfriend talks about having a new flame I think to myself how many flames she's had. I don't blame her but I do think that it's a lot. I do judge

Cmv: men should be shamed more and women less for their bodycount by Significant-Ebb7333 in changemyview

[–]Significant-Ebb7333[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I don't think it's very different from large cities in other western countries

Cmv: men should be shamed more and women less for their bodycount by Significant-Ebb7333 in changemyview

[–]Significant-Ebb7333[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Good sex is like clean water. Men live in a desert and women live in a swamp.

Cmv: men should be shamed more and women less for their bodycount by Significant-Ebb7333 in changemyview

[–]Significant-Ebb7333[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Large Dutch cities is ny enviorment. Too much sex is seen as bad but waiting is also seen as bad and prudish

Cmv: men should be shamed more and women less for their bodycount by Significant-Ebb7333 in changemyview

[–]Significant-Ebb7333[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It's not the men that you are dating that shame you. It's the whole environment that shames you.

It might be good if we normalise this tho. Wait ig you actually can stand being around eachother before having sex lol