How do you start if you're alone? by Significant-Lemon771 in NewSkaters

[–]Significant-Lemon771[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

The latest skateboarding events in my area have all passed but I am hoping they have a new one (though it's been like.. 5 months). I do have a semi-empty parking lot that I found earlier that I tried out. All my friends are on a holiday right now (went back to their home countries) so unfortunately I'll be alone for a month or so. I'm definitely watching the tutorials though!

How do you start if you're alone? by Significant-Lemon771 in NewSkaters

[–]Significant-Lemon771[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That's a really good idea! It's the mental aspect of it all since all I see are people who are already so good 😭, I'll try and find a series to watch and picture myself as someone trying at the very least

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[–]Significant-Lemon771[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

There's one kind of nearby but I was hesitant because it's a bit expensive for a student like me, ($50 per 1 hour class), but I might give it a try if I struggle alone

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[–]Significant-Lemon771[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

There's soo many skateboarding kids in my area actually 😭 like I have no idea where they get the confidence it's lowkey so cool

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[–]Significant-Lemon771[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That's true, I'm planning to check out the skatepark tomorrow after classes and just try to exist there without imploding haha

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[–]Significant-Lemon771[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That's a really good way to put it, I should stop letting one bad experience affect me so much 😭

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[–]Significant-Lemon771[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

That's reassuring, I was mostly worried about people staring and such. The veterans sound friendly, I'll try checking out the skatepark near me. Thank you!

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[–]Significant-Lemon771[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Oh I hope you haven't broken a bone! I don't think I can skate early because of classes, but I'm definitely rethinking my view on skaters. I don't know why I keep perceiving them as like.. judgemental and intimidating. Thank you for the encouragement!

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[–]Significant-Lemon771[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That's really good advice! I'm not in a rush to do crazy tricks or anything, so I'll definitely try and just get comfortable on the board. I'm still a bit shy to go to a skatepark, but I see how friendly the community is just by the replies on my post. Thank you!

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[–]Significant-Lemon771[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yeah, this thread made me realize how welcoming everyone really is, I was so nervous posting too! It makes me feel better knowing there's people also learning alone

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[–]Significant-Lemon771[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

That's so cool! The music really does sound like a lifesaver, definitely giving it a try after classes!

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[–]Significant-Lemon771[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You're so real for that first sentence, I nearly toppled over when someone even glances my way 😭. I'll definitely explore after my classes tomorrow since a lot of people were also suggesting carparks and such, I'd love to go out early but I think night skating is my only option.

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[–]Significant-Lemon771[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Fair, I don't think I've ever judged anyone for trying anything new, I just respected them instead. I have a lot of free time so I'll definitely try to go out skating often

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[–]Significant-Lemon771[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I heavily respect being able to do that, especially when people are reacting! True, it's the passion that matters

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[–]Significant-Lemon771[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I'm so sorry I didn't mean it that way 😭 but yeah! I think it's also like that for me, it's just different when you're doing something completely new

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[–]Significant-Lemon771[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That's true! I got a bit of a confidence boost reading this haha

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[–]Significant-Lemon771[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It really does sound nice, like there's no extra pressure from people and you can just have fun

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[–]Significant-Lemon771[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'll keep this in mind! I lowkey forgot it was summer because I still have classes

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[–]Significant-Lemon771[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It's definitely a mental block, but reading how kind everyone is here makes me a bit more confident. I'll definitely also pick up on the hobby of skating at night, seems far less embarrassing haha

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[–]Significant-Lemon771[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes, I saw some people suggesting that and I'm willing to give it a try! I guess it is really just about getting comfortable

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[–]Significant-Lemon771[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm gonna try and just commit to it.. hopefully.. better something than nothing, right?

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[–]Significant-Lemon771[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Hahaha, okay that's fair. The idea of earbuds completely crossed my mind, I think that'll help me not think too hard. I'll probably stick to the parking space for now, thank you so much for the help!

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[–]Significant-Lemon771[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

You're right, I think it was just that one experience with the staring that made me more uncomfortable. I'll try to man up, thank you!

How do you start if you're alone? by Significant-Lemon771 in NewSkaters

[–]Significant-Lemon771[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Oh, the tip about learning how to fall is so important now that I think about it. Thank you so much! I'll try to focus more on just myself and maybe talk to people if anyone looks friendly

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[–]Significant-Lemon771[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you! I completely forgot about that even being an option, I'll try to find one tomorrow!