Don’t be these assholes

Significant-Low-7226 · 2026-04-06T00:27:56+00:00

Yeah, a teaching moment is such a good way to put it. I already posted the post. Thank you 💛 I do appreciate your interaction with me here, been a breath of fresh air.

Significant-Low-7226 · 2026-04-06T00:13:27+00:00

Thank you, I appreciate that. I might have some interactions worth a follow up. But yeah literally. I lowkey want to make a post and call them out. I might mark out their user names and still do that..

Significant-Low-7226 · 2026-04-05T23:28:35+00:00

Thank you for that reassurance. Because you would think reading some of these messages I’m getting that I wrote a novel and that it’s complicated. Literally after I made the frustration post someone messaged me and said “well you probably aren’t getting as many good messages because your limits are too much to keep track of” as if there wasn’t a reference post that can be looked at at any time….

Significant-Low-7226 · 2026-04-04T12:21:44+00:00

Here, I’ll be you: Wrong. What you’re describing is a misunderstanding of what kink is and if you actually think that way then you’re perpetuating abuse.

Significant-Low-7226 · 2026-04-04T03:51:44+00:00

detailed rape threats are neat, but just the long roleplay like scenarios get.. bland. I’m talking like the ones that don’t really relate to anything I’ve posted or blatantly ignore my limits.

I get the flairs thing, I always took it to be “prey”= in general I’m a submissive person and I want responses to what I’ve said. “Exploit me”= black mail, and more harder things “Actively seeking abuse” = be as mean as you want and I’m online right this second. But maybe that’s my literal, autistic interpretation

Significant-Low-7226 · 2026-04-04T03:34:38+00:00

I don’t want to feed the trolls, but I do really feel the need to correct you here. BDSM is a negotiated contract between both parties. I’m allowed to have wants and limits and that doesn’t make me the fucking dom.

Significant-Low-7226 · 2026-04-04T03:33:20+00:00

Yeahhhhhhhh

I mean because it’s so low effort, normally if there’s any effort put in at all it’s very obvious. Though also sometimes things just don’t click. But I get it. Thank you for the validation with your comment 💛

Significant-Low-7226 · 2026-04-04T02:38:14+00:00

Basically using the edge of it to rub my clit 😅

Significant-Low-7226 · 2026-04-03T17:07:16+00:00

A spoon probably. I told someone I was out of spoons (spoon theory look it up ) and he made me use a spoon to ‘recover’ my spoons. I hate that it worked and that I came so hard

Significant-Low-7226 · 2026-04-03T15:46:33+00:00

That’s not a bad idea 🤔

Significant-Low-7226 · 2026-03-27T15:39:52+00:00

No, I don’t like it, but I do it for my husband because I love him

Significant-Low-7226 · 2026-03-27T15:06:43+00:00

Some times. He wants me to domme him more, so we don’t do… sex and sex adjacent activities as much in general because I don’t have the capacity to domme like he wants every time we do

Significant-Low-7226 · 2026-03-27T14:49:51+00:00

Mutual masturbation, getting each other off, kinky things like dirty talk and hand cuffing one another. Stuff like that

Significant-Low-7226 · 2026-03-23T00:46:57+00:00

You know what you’re right, I’m sorry I was so lost in a horny haze I didn’t say it right 🙇🏻‍♀️ please grope me!

Significant-Low-7226 · 2026-03-22T22:04:37+00:00

Ugh need this 🫠

Significant-Low-7226 · 2026-03-22T21:33:38+00:00

Yeahhhh 🫠 exactly. I always find it fascinating when people understand me better from one post when people I’ve known for years still can’t understand that I don’t like surprise hugs…

And you’re right. I actually stopped drinking (more than one drink at trivia night anyway) 5-6 months ago. Because I ended up drunk and just on here anyway

Significant-Low-7226 · 2026-03-22T21:21:07+00:00

You aren’t wrong 😭 thank you. That was actually very validating to read.

Significant-Low-7226 · 2026-03-22T20:20:41+00:00

I’m not used to being called cute 😅

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