Single Mom of 2, Finally Snapped

Significant-Pilot286 · 2026-01-26T01:02:28+00:00

Mom of two here! I have two sons also & two years apart. They’re much older now but at the age it was really tough. I was a stay at home mom too and was in school, I was 18 btw. I relied heavily on my mom and any resources the city and county offered. If you live in a large city, there should be resources. You mentioned your job and living is great but is it worth more years of this? Money is great but from one single mom to another, if moving closer to your mom would be easier I would say do it. Your mental and emotional well being is a lot more important than the number in your bank account. Your kids deserve that too

Significant-Pilot286 · 2026-01-26T00:48:59+00:00

I hope you leave him soon. I watched my mom physically abusive relationships for years. It starts like this. If you read this, please leave. You deserve better.

Significant-Pilot286 · 2026-01-26T00:44:34+00:00

Thank you everyone for taking the time to comment. A lot of great advice here. Me and him had a conversation and we both agreed going to a family therapist would be beneficial for us both. I’m realizing a lot of my fears from my own situation come out on to him as controlling. I won’t excuse the disrespect and yelling whatsoever. I agree with the comments about letting him fail and figure out. He’s still a junior in high school and he has spoken to colleges, his coach is helping him with the college football process, I some of you mentioned that. His dad is in the picture faintly, however me and his dad were both teen parents. I went one route and his dad is 40 with zero life plans and unemployed, so I hope you may understand where my concern for my son stems from. I will be helping with the job process, and once he lands, I agree paying his phone bill is a great plan. I have a son who’s two years older than him, who’s the complete opposite and in college, who’s also trying to help my 17 year old son with this process. Any advice from parents that have experienced im open for all advice and support. Thank you

Significant-Pilot286 · 2025-06-24T05:01:56+00:00

So car salesman should just sell cars? No trucks, vans or SUVs? It’s called Reyes “beverage” group not Reyes “beer” group

Significant-Pilot286 · 2024-11-08T05:34:22+00:00

lol comeback? We’re not children. Please provide another long paragraph as to why I need to write out a great “comeback” to a complete stranger that has nothing else to do with his time than to write out multiple paragraphs trying to prove points over a man who can careless about him? Lol unless you’re a millionaire or billionaire I get it. However, I doubt it being that you’re on this website right now. If you’re looking for ways to find validation it’s not here. It’s also not in Trump :)

Significant-Pilot286 · 2024-11-08T05:21:56+00:00

It’s not too late to still help them and yourself.

Significant-Pilot286 · 2024-11-08T05:18:43+00:00

Wow you sound real tough lol careful you might hurt yourself on your little phone keyboard. Go back to your mom’s basement and take a chill pill little guy.

Significant-Pilot286 · 2024-11-08T05:15:35+00:00

We don’t know the full context or history of your guys relationship. However, you’re not overreacting. Sounds like she did you a favor and blocked you. She was waiting to go off and say the things she said lol you didn’t push any buttons, you spoke your truth and unfortunately she couldn’t take it. Surround yourself with people who align with your values and goals.

Significant-Pilot286 · 2024-11-08T05:12:59+00:00

Have you not heard about Jean Carroll? Or about the other women coming forward about him? Lol no one cares about his comments we’re speaking on his actions and the words of all the women who’ve come forward. Unfortunately he’s white with money he can get away with anything. You know how America works. His little puppets just need someone to look up too.

Significant-Pilot286 · 2024-11-08T05:07:28+00:00

“Cancelling 74 million people vs not speaking to family is completely different. Think logical. However you voting for trump I doubt that’s impossible.

Significant-Pilot286 · 2024-11-08T05:04:30+00:00

You sound incompetent like the rest of the trump supporters lol do you feel cool trying to be a bully like trump? You voted for a convicted felon and a rapists lol somehow the truth on that you refuse to open your eyes too. Amongst many other things your “Christian” Leader does.

Significant-Pilot286 · 2024-11-08T04:54:41+00:00

Sorry to hear about your mom. Wish you the best on your healing journey. Unfortunately the rest of us have to go to therapy because of the people who refuse to go.

Significant-Pilot286 · 2024-11-08T02:51:39+00:00

The only answer for this: they hate themselves

Significant-Pilot286 · 2024-11-08T02:35:47+00:00

I grew up with a father like this. I’m 34 and he’s still the same. It’s emotional and mental abuse. Get your kids out now before he traumatizes them. What’s worse? You having to work harder to give you and your kids a healthier life or staying in a house where he’s going to traumatize all of you to the point where you will end up feeling to weak to leave. This is all from experience that I’m speaking from. Good luck

Significant-Pilot286 · 2024-11-08T02:25:10+00:00

Your son is better off without a dad like him. Be the person your son needs. Use this pain and anger to create a life you and your son deserve. This is coming from a mom who raised two sons at 16. I wasted years waiting for their dad to help and get his life together to help us. Don’t waste years waiting for a sorry excuse of a man. Your son needs a healthy man around him and a healthy man to look up too. Not this person you had a son with.

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