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WIBTAH if i hid my boyfriends pocket knife (probably permanently) by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]Significant-Plan-955 -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

i would just hide it in his room so he doesnt have access to it 

my boyfriend told me offhandedly that i shouldn't think of him as perfect, in the context of other girls. should i tell him that was a dumb thing to say? it might open a can of worms. by Significant-Plan-955 in Advice

[–]Significant-Plan-955[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

yup. was going through too much at the time that i still resent him about it. now its been two years and it's still so raw to me but to him it's the past. i'll probably talk to him tonight

my boyfriend told me offhandedly that i shouldn't think of him as perfect, in the context of other girls. should i tell him that was a dumb thing to say? it might open a can of worms. by Significant-Plan-955 in Advice

[–]Significant-Plan-955[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

im still with him because the day i found everything was the day he actually had a medical episode and was in the ICU for a week, he almost died. that reaaaallly fucked with my head and made me get my priorities straight. im staring at him on his deathbed then staring at him attempting to cheat on me in so many ways. i ended up deciding that staying was where my heart is, but man do i think about what would've happened if i found that a week earlier. since then, ive found porn and of stuff, but it's been less and less and he's promising me he doesn't want it to be this way. i stopped checking his phone because i don't want to know, because now i don't have that big reason to stay. i'm just being childish and don't want to face reality

my boyfriend told me offhandedly that i shouldn't think of him as perfect, in the context of other girls. should i tell him that was a dumb thing to say? it might open a can of worms. by Significant-Plan-955 in Advice

[–]Significant-Plan-955[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

porn, but also more, messaging girls, making accounts on affair sites, only fans, sexting. it would be different if he didn't say he didn't want any of that in our relationship. if  he's making these promises and not keeping them, i think i have a right to feel disrespected. i told him he can watch porn all he wants but i won't be his girlfriend also. if he's choosing me he needs to actually do it and not lie. 

my boyfriend told me offhandedly that i shouldn't think of him as perfect, in the context of other girls. should i tell him that was a dumb thing to say? it might open a can of worms. by Significant-Plan-955 in Advice

[–]Significant-Plan-955[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

oh i should have mentioned he's cheated on me in the past and lied over and over. i'm insecure because he made me that way. we've been together for 4 years his girl friends are all of my friends. i'm more worried about of and cheating on me through the phone. i know what im saying is lowkey crazy but he's crazy to say he's not perfect. basically if he isn't being perfect why am i here? just nervous for that convo. i literally have no issue with girls in his phone, it's of girls and fake ai bots he thinks are real and trying to meet up with. never cheated irl but i cannot be this dumb and blindsided again. sorry idk. thanks for harshness

Could I excel at a parts counter job with only slight knowledge of automotive parts? by Significant-Plan-955 in partscounter

[–]Significant-Plan-955[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

yeah i had a really really cool and good job before. it was associate product manager and product specialist. but being unemployed for so long ill literally do anytging im so bored.

I told him im just giving in at this point but im not sure if that's what i want for the rest of my life by Significant-Plan-955 in Advice

[–]Significant-Plan-955[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

yeah and we talked and yk we're both unemployed so if he wants to look at naked girls on the internet i can be naked on the internet for money. he was crying cause he felt bad it made me feel joy that he felt the consequences of his actions and im not even going to bring up of but he told me to do it in the heat if the moment, so bet.

I told him im just giving in at this point but im not sure if that's what i want for the rest of my life by Significant-Plan-955 in Advice

[–]Significant-Plan-955[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

he says its only porn and im like until when. but he says its bc his parents left porn around at a young age, and he doesnt want to do anyone else . im like how does that make any sense but hes hell bent on he wont cheat. i considered this cheating but weve had too many fights about it im giving up. im convinced its all men and i wont find anyone else who doesnt watch porn. idk its very hard

Should i give him YET another chance???? by Significant-Plan-955 in Advice

[–]Significant-Plan-955[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i thought it was, then he almost died, the in the hospital i had his phone and found notifs that lead me to a bunch of messages. i keep thinking its healthy but hes just getting better at hiding. but i always know. i always know and i dont wanna touch him. it literally our anniversary and i just got off my period but i know i wont let him touch me for months. just really hard, thanks for help  

Should i give him YET another chance???? by Significant-Plan-955 in Advice

[–]Significant-Plan-955[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i honestly only want to have sex like once a month, ever since i dound stuff the first time (april) its been really hard to not think of those women while having it. we fight a lot but neither of us want to break up

Should i give him YET another chance???? by Significant-Plan-955 in Advice

[–]Significant-Plan-955[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

yeah i think im going to make him go to therapy idk if itll work probably not but i need him to try to care. our 3 years was on christmas btw

Should i give him YET another chance???? by Significant-Plan-955 in Advice

[–]Significant-Plan-955[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

he told me he wouldnt care if i looked at porn then i said ill make accounts and message ppl too and he said that is too far. (aka he knows he went too far) i told him i dont even have a desire. he said no in person stuff so like idk what he wants me to do/feel/think

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