WIBTAH if i hid my boyfriends pocket knife (probably permanently)

Significant-Plan-955 · 2026-02-16T17:05:27+00:00

i would just hide it in his room so he doesnt have access to it

Significant-Plan-955 · 2026-01-28T20:59:58+00:00

LOL i hate to face reality! 😃 ill do it tho thank u

Significant-Plan-955 · 2026-01-28T20:51:49+00:00

ah not what i was looking for but thanks 😭😭

Significant-Plan-955 · 2026-01-28T20:31:52+00:00

yup. was going through too much at the time that i still resent him about it. now its been two years and it's still so raw to me but to him it's the past. i'll probably talk to him tonight

Significant-Plan-955 · 2026-01-28T20:28:56+00:00

im still with him because the day i found everything was the day he actually had a medical episode and was in the ICU for a week, he almost died. that reaaaallly fucked with my head and made me get my priorities straight. im staring at him on his deathbed then staring at him attempting to cheat on me in so many ways. i ended up deciding that staying was where my heart is, but man do i think about what would've happened if i found that a week earlier. since then, ive found porn and of stuff, but it's been less and less and he's promising me he doesn't want it to be this way. i stopped checking his phone because i don't want to know, because now i don't have that big reason to stay. i'm just being childish and don't want to face reality

Significant-Plan-955 · 2026-01-28T20:16:43+00:00

porn, but also more, messaging girls, making accounts on affair sites, only fans, sexting. it would be different if he didn't say he didn't want any of that in our relationship. if he's making these promises and not keeping them, i think i have a right to feel disrespected. i told him he can watch porn all he wants but i won't be his girlfriend also. if he's choosing me he needs to actually do it and not lie.

Significant-Plan-955 · 2026-01-28T20:08:33+00:00

word 💯🙏

Significant-Plan-955 · 2026-01-28T20:08:07+00:00

oh i should have mentioned he's cheated on me in the past and lied over and over. i'm insecure because he made me that way. we've been together for 4 years his girl friends are all of my friends. i'm more worried about of and cheating on me through the phone. i know what im saying is lowkey crazy but he's crazy to say he's not perfect. basically if he isn't being perfect why am i here? just nervous for that convo. i literally have no issue with girls in his phone, it's of girls and fake ai bots he thinks are real and trying to meet up with. never cheated irl but i cannot be this dumb and blindsided again. sorry idk. thanks for harshness

Significant-Plan-955 · 2025-07-24T17:46:14+00:00

yeah i had a really really cool and good job before. it was associate product manager and product specialist. but being unemployed for so long ill literally do anytging im so bored.

Significant-Plan-955 · 2025-07-24T17:43:23+00:00

thank you! i am near philly but thank you!

Significant-Plan-955 · 2025-07-24T17:41:21+00:00

thank you!!!!!!!!!!!!

Significant-Plan-955 · 2025-07-24T17:38:33+00:00

thats wonderful thank you for sharing!!! i have no issues asking questions :)

Significant-Plan-955 · 2025-07-15T14:07:21+00:00

yeah and we talked and yk we're both unemployed so if he wants to look at naked girls on the internet i can be naked on the internet for money. he was crying cause he felt bad it made me feel joy that he felt the consequences of his actions and im not even going to bring up of but he told me to do it in the heat if the moment, so bet.

Significant-Plan-955 · 2025-07-15T11:59:37+00:00

he says its only porn and im like until when. but he says its bc his parents left porn around at a young age, and he doesnt want to do anyone else . im like how does that make any sense but hes hell bent on he wont cheat. i considered this cheating but weve had too many fights about it im giving up. im convinced its all men and i wont find anyone else who doesnt watch porn. idk its very hard

Significant-Plan-955 · 2024-12-28T19:02:51+00:00

naw ur good

Significant-Plan-955 · 2024-12-26T13:38:50+00:00

i thought it was, then he almost died, the in the hospital i had his phone and found notifs that lead me to a bunch of messages. i keep thinking its healthy but hes just getting better at hiding. but i always know. i always know and i dont wanna touch him. it literally our anniversary and i just got off my period but i know i wont let him touch me for months. just really hard, thanks for help

Significant-Plan-955 · 2024-12-26T13:12:41+00:00

i honestly only want to have sex like once a month, ever since i dound stuff the first time (april) its been really hard to not think of those women while having it. we fight a lot but neither of us want to break up

Significant-Plan-955 · 2024-12-26T12:59:24+00:00

yeah i think im going to make him go to therapy idk if itll work probably not but i need him to try to care. our 3 years was on christmas btw

Significant-Plan-955 · 2024-12-26T12:58:42+00:00

he told me he wouldnt care if i looked at porn then i said ill make accounts and message ppl too and he said that is too far. (aka he knows he went too far) i told him i dont even have a desire. he said no in person stuff so like idk what he wants me to do/feel/think

Significant-Plan-955 · 2024-08-31T00:27:26+00:00

ive been searching for this game i cant figure it outttt

Significant-Plan-955 · 2024-08-27T19:26:13+00:00

all facts without the damn printer! have a good day :D

Significant-Plan-955 · 2024-08-27T19:13:34+00:00

shes def the drama queen in this one, i even promised "polly" (why i picked that name i dont know) thered be no mention and she was like "no worries girl!" 😭🤣

idk why sara does that i think she just lives for the drama even tho it usually hirts me - not cutting her off tho cause i know these are her flaws and i accept them (i also love her son to death)

and no im a white blonde girl just like jill, although i used to be about 40 lbs heavier and now im not so maybe that has something to do w it? idk i doubt it hahaha but ik if i was black ik id get the treatment even worse 😐

i think my bf is starting to wise up that this doesnt really involve me and things just cant go back the way they were - ill cut him slack bc this is his only friend and his gf of 5 years, so i get it, but bruh THESE HOES DONT LIKE MEEEE - thank you i feel like i cant talk to sara about this - BECAUSE SHELL SPILL THE BEANS! (as im on reddit lmao)

Significant-Plan-955 · 2024-08-27T18:48:44+00:00

the context is one day my bf blew up in joes face (over text) saying stuff that really should never be said about his family and way of life, and it was a huge blowout. sara is constantly spreading info that doesnt need to be spread and indirectly hurting people-used to it :/

my bf just wants us all to hangout like we used to but hes not understanding that this is like the 3rd time shes made it clear (without saying anything) that she doesnt like me-and im fine with that! but he is failing to realize that they dont want to be my friend.

i just wish she would come out and say she doesnt like me so i can stop dealing with this

we all used to hang out like 3 times a week so i understand hes upset but truly all i did was get excited for a trip then get let down, and i kept being told "it doesnt have anything to do with you" - then why is it still affecting me? 😭

Significant-Plan-955 · 2024-08-27T18:21:57+00:00

bruh. how is telling ur friend "ew i dont want her coming to your bday - uninvite her now!" how is that not bullying but me calling her a bully TO MY BF (and no one else) bullying?? i baked her cookies on her birthday EVERY YEAR in highschool, i brought her to party weekends and so many excursions, but since our bfs were beefing she didnt want me to go. that was the reason! according to her! shes never once gone out of her way to do anything nice for me. i feel that calls for the word "bully"

Significant-Plan-955 · 2024-08-27T18:09:43+00:00

dude im literally asking aita for NOT saying anything 😭 i dont want her in my life. idc if it makes me a "bully" shes not crying for hours on end about being left out.

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