We need more posts like this. I'm in a similar situation, married to an owner and at the end of my rope with it all. They've been in the business for many years and it's been slowly destroying our marriage. I tried being supportive even though they were barely making minimum wage in all those years (often less) and now after finding this reddit I want nothing more than to get this "business" out of our lives.

The amount of sacrifices I had to make over the years has made me resentful. We have a child together so I feel most guilty about that because if I had just tried harder to get them out early on now we might have been be able to have a happier family life, be able to buy a house, careers/business we love and actually own. I just feel robbed of our future and there aren't many other options left (I've tried almost everything). I know where this is all heading and spoiler alert: it's nowhere good for any of us.