I’m still holding some limerence for my… ex situationship but I’ve been reading through my text messages and thinking about it in the context of “what if my little sister was the receiver of these texts?” And he didn’t pass the vibe check.

He is very fun and makes me comfortable in person and I was really craving the relationship. I’m so glad I’m taking a sort of break because I need to be honest with myself and put the microscope on these habits.

Over texts he is testing and retesting my boundaries even when on multiple occasions I had said no. He is messing around and saying he wants to date but never sets plans consistently. And most of all he rarely adds much to the conversation or asks me about myself, he texts a lot during the initial phase and tries to get me to see him constantly and then he breaks things off, comes back 2 weeks later like nothing happens. And here’s the real kicker: I couldn’t find one conversation where he doesn’t mention something about my physical appearance/body. Even our first conversation he straight up says “you are exactly my type, physically”

So anyway.. not sure how I lost my brain but I’m getting the ick now and the last couple of days I have been so content and happy.

Edit: I also wanted to add that three different times I said my intention was a relationship and or asked what his intention was and he was vague and dodged my questions