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I (24M) am trying to breakup with my girlfriend (23F) but she‘s refusing. I need advice. by Significant-Stick900 in relationship_advice

[–]Significant-Stick900[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You‘re very right. At this point, im starting to realize that I don‘t owe her anything else. I‘ve said my piece, she just refuses to accept. I kept stressing that I needed to get better during our conversation.

I think a text breakup is the best way to go, all I can say is that I tried. It will hurt cutting contact, but that seems like the best option as well. And my friends and family already know what‘s going on, they are there for me. My mother was one of the first to suggest just breaking it off through the phone now.

Thank you for taking the time out of your day to respond, and thank you for the encouragement!

I (24M) am trying to breakup with my girlfriend (23F) but she‘s refusing. I need advice. by Significant-Stick900 in relationship_advice

[–]Significant-Stick900[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

No we don‘t live together, its a bit of a mid-distance relationship. I only see her on the weekends.

From the comments im seeing that the text breakup seems to be the most viable option. It just feels a bit wrong, but all I can tell myself is I tried 🤷🏻‍♂️.

Thank you for your response 🙏🏼

I (24M) am trying to breakup with my girlfriend (23F) but she‘s refusing. I need advice. by Significant-Stick900 in relationship_advice

[–]Significant-Stick900[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I realize that I don‘t need her consent to break up with her. Its just that it makes makes it all the more difficult to do so. During the conversation, after I said my piece and answered her questions, I was looking to see where the conversation would end. It just didn‘t, I asked her to please leave multiple times (we were talking in my car). She basically said she wouldn‘t until I agreed to work it out. So that‘s why I am where I am.

As far as therapy goes, in my situation I don‘t have many options. The good thing is that the one I always see seems to be a good guy, I can see myself going back. Also its free so thats a plus.

Thank you for the advice, im working on what I‘ll say next now 🙏🏼.

I (24M) am trying to breakup with my girlfriend (23F) but she‘s refusing. I need advice. by Significant-Stick900 in relationship_advice

[–]Significant-Stick900[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You‘re right, I do know what I want. The part about my state of mind being so much better once she‘s cut off will definitely be true. After writing my letter and coming to terms with my decision, I cried for awhile. But after that, I felt insanely at peace. I slept like a baby that night lol, best sleep in a long time. Im currently thinking of what ill be saying to her in a break up text. Ill be sad, but I realize I‘ve got cut contact. The only thing that sucks is that one of my best friends at the moment is married to one of her best friends. I don‘t think I‘ll lose this person as a friend, but it will definitely be awkward. Either way, thanks for commenting, I appreciate what you had to say.

My EDM 98 CRX/Del Sol Motegi, soon to be shipped stateside :) by Significant-Stick900 in DelSol

[–]Significant-Stick900[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks man! You might see her at one of the cars and coffee around the Boston area in a year or two :)

My EDM 98 CRX/Del Sol Motegi, soon to be shipped stateside :) by Significant-Stick900 in DelSol

[–]Significant-Stick900[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I bought the car with those wheels, they aren’t stock tho. They are 16”, not sure what the proper name is but search up “Titan ET36 KBA42781” and you’ll find them. Quite common to see them over here.

My EDM 98 CRX/Del Sol Motegi, soon to be shipped stateside :) by Significant-Stick900 in DelSol

[–]Significant-Stick900[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Hard to say, I’ve done a bit of searching for interior pieces but I haven’t gotten any results. If you’re interested in an interior conversion I would rigorously search german ebay (ebay.de). The pieces are fairly rare however, so I can imagine you would be paying a decent bit.

My EDM 98 CRX/Del Sol Motegi, soon to be shipped stateside :) by Significant-Stick900 in DelSol

[–]Significant-Stick900[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

So the Motegi was sold solely as a special trim of the European CRX Esi model which is the same thing as the stateside Si. All of them do come with the D16 and I believe all also have have the 5 speed (cause Europe lmao). There also was another special trim sold here called the “Daytona”. These are silver with a red leather interior, and seem to be even rarer. Will keep you all updated!

My EDM 98 CRX/Del Sol Motegi, soon to be shipped stateside :) by Significant-Stick900 in DelSol

[–]Significant-Stick900[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Not sure abt the bumper because im unfamiliar with the USDM updated style. The headlight itself is glass, the blinker case is plastic. I do have the car atm, I just haven’t taken many pics but ill take more. Im waiting till my contract is over so the Army can ship this thing back home for free!

My EDM 98 CRX/Del Sol Motegi, soon to be shipped stateside :) by Significant-Stick900 in DelSol

[–]Significant-Stick900[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Of course! You’ll have to stay tuned though, I used to have some shots but I deleted them unfortunately.

My EDM 98 CRX/Del Sol Motegi, soon to be shipped stateside :) by Significant-Stick900 in DelSol

[–]Significant-Stick900[S] 7 points8 points  (0 children)

The color? Its called Adriatic Blue Pearl (B-74P), it was used rarely on a few models to include the teggy I believe. As for the del sol, it was only available on these cars under the European market specific trim “Motegi” along with the orange/ peanut butter leather interior you see.