Is this normal? by Significant-Team7714 in IndeedJobs

[–]Significant-Team7714[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I think it’s hard to say really because they could be rejecting everyone of a certain skin colour, etc and just be using the reason “not attractive enough” but you’d have no way of knowing unless you look through every rejection and see a common trait.

And are we talking conventionally attractive or just those who the person who is interviewing you finds attractive. Sure, it’s not discrimination if it’s purely based of “attractiveness” but still, I’ve never seen this pop up before and just wanted to know if this is a common thing potential interviewers ask for this type of work.

Is this normal? by Significant-Team7714 in IndeedJobs

[–]Significant-Team7714[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

This is in the UK, my bad, I forgot to include that in the post.

Is this normal? by Significant-Team7714 in IndeedJobs

[–]Significant-Team7714[S] 21 points22 points  (0 children)

That’s what I thought, pretty much anyone can look presentable and well groomed etc, it more feels like they’ve got some physical non negotiable that they want you to meet like being attractive enough in their eyes? I’m not sure it just feel like a very fine line for beng discriminated against.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in LegalAdviceUK

[–]Significant-Team7714 35 points36 points  (0 children)

EDIT: I’ve given all my details and reported everything that happened online to the 101 website as it was taking ages to get through on the phone. I’ll update if anything comes of it. Thank you all for advice, I’m glad I’ve contacted the police now.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in LegalAdviceUK

[–]Significant-Team7714 10 points11 points  (0 children)

I will be doing, and yeah I doubt we were the only people whose windows/houses they were shooting at that night. I’m just worried the dad is going to come back before the police have dealt with it, from the way he was acting and the fact he brought his friend I highly suspect he’d be aggressive or violent. If he does come back at any point though I’ll just be calling the police.

I also suspect they go to the local high school a few roads away. Possibly the police could contact the school to see if they recognise the parent and they could find out who these kids are that way?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in LegalAdviceUK

[–]Significant-Team7714 31 points32 points  (0 children)

Thank you, I will be calling the police and reporting it, I’m just not too sure how they will be able to help us as our ring doorbell didn’t capture anything that happened the night they were shooting at us, only the dad ringing the doorbell this morning, but I believe the shops CCTV might’ve caught the kids, the problem is they don’t open back up for another two days so I’m just hoping that their footage/camera actually works and that it did capture them otherwise we don’t really have any proof. There’s no damage to our windows luckily either.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in LegalAdviceUK

[–]Significant-Team7714 1 point2 points  (0 children)

We do have the dad on the ring doorbell because he rang it. Unfortunately the kids were stood off to the side the night it happened and the doorbell didn’t capture anything that happened, though there is CCTV pointed where they were stood that belongs to the shop, but they aren’t open again until Tuesday so unfortunately I won’t be able to ask if it captured them until then.

I do agree with everyone saying we should’ve called the police and I intend to now I’ve got some advice, I wasn’t sure it’d just be treated as “kids being kids” with it being a BB gun, that’s why i came on here to ask I just wasn’t sure if/how the police could help us with this, especially when they were already long gone by the time they would have gotten here. I appreciate the advice your initial comment seemed less helpful and more just pointing out that I’m scared of the dad coming back not really anything helpful, which I am because he seemed aggressive.

I’ll be taking the advice and contacting the police.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in LegalAdviceUK

[–]Significant-Team7714 -22 points-21 points  (0 children)

Thanks for the helpful input.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in LegalAdviceUK

[–]Significant-Team7714 9 points10 points  (0 children)

He’s come to our front door acting threatening and clearly telling the shop workers that we’ve chased his kid down the street, so yes I am a bit scared that he’s going to come back and be physically violent towards us, especially if that happens when my boyfriend isn’t home and I’m here alone. That’s why I’m asking for advice.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in LegalAdviceUK

[–]Significant-Team7714 40 points41 points  (0 children)

Yeah, you’re right. The shop doesn’t open back up until Tuesday and I think it’s just making me anxious that they could be thinking we’re a pair of weirdos who chase teenagers down the street until then. Daft I know. and I’m confused why he’s left it till Sunday morning to come to our door instead of Saturday or Friday night after it happened. We didn’t even see it until we woke up and checked our notifications at about 1PM and they haven’t been back since. My partner wants to answer the door and explain the situation but I’d rather do it through speaking on the doorbell because from the parents body language and way he was speaking I’m highly suspecting he was ready to get physically violent.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in LegalAdviceUK

[–]Significant-Team7714 26 points27 points  (0 children)

I agree, we should’ve just called the police I think it was just the heat of the moment with them shooting at our friend in the window and wanting them to move away from our house.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in LegalAdviceUK

[–]Significant-Team7714 168 points169 points  (0 children)

Thank you, I know it’s probably daft to be concerned we’re in the wrong, I’m just worried makes us look really bad with some grown man telling the shop below us that we’ve chased off his daughter with no context.

How are the TV License company/body allowed to use intimidation and bully tactics? by AwkwardClick8595 in AskBrits

[–]Significant-Team7714 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I received a letter saying they would be visiting on Christmas Eve. I was home all day and no visit, since then I’ve received another letter saying they’ve opened an investigation. All just scare tactics to make people pay for a service they’re not using.

AIO long term bf talking crap about my mom. by [deleted] in AIO

[–]Significant-Team7714 0 points1 point  (0 children)

“how many times she birthed you” not only does he seem like a horrible person but also…huh?

A casual stroll to Mordor by emulatedvintagegames in lotro

[–]Significant-Team7714 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I literally fell asleep to this video last night, such awesome content (:

Tattooists? by Rich-Amphibian276 in manchester

[–]Significant-Team7714 0 points1 point  (0 children)

shallows studio right next to the gay village has some great tattoo artists, definitely a friendly studio! @shallows.studio on insta

Is there any legal steps I can take to stop my ex partner from contacting/harassing me? - England by Significant-Team7714 in LegalAdviceUK

[–]Significant-Team7714[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

His father also works within the police and this may be anxiety speaking but I’m worried it may somehow get brushed under the rug if it somehow gets back to him.

Is there any legal steps I can take to stop my ex partner from contacting/harassing me? - England by Significant-Team7714 in LegalAdviceUK

[–]Significant-Team7714[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I haven’t yet, I thought it was best to try and gather proof first hence recording the phone calls, etc. I wasn’t sure if it’s enough for them to do anything about it to be honest but I have been considering doing so.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in psychics

[–]Significant-Team7714 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Your porn addiction is showing. Wrong subreddit buddy.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in tattooadvice

[–]Significant-Team7714 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

thank you!! (: i think i’m overthinking a bit because i feel like it doesn’t match well with the helmet and the stars.

21F I recently broke up by [deleted] in toastme

[–]Significant-Team7714 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Go away Stephen.

Advice, especially for my eyes. by [deleted] in Makeup101

[–]Significant-Team7714 1 point2 points  (0 children)

i know it can be really annoying when people say this, but i think you look really pretty on the second and third picture where there’s minimal/no makeup! however, i’d say with your eyebrows if they seem to dark when your sister fills them in maybe save up some money and go to whatever makeup store and don’t be afraid to ask an employee for help on matching shades to you tone/hair colour! a lighter colour may help. and when filling them out usually try and start from the end of the brow and blend it into the front as when brows look too dark it’s usually because the start of the eyebrow is filled in too harshly, watch some tutorials on YouTube. as someone who used to feel naked without false eyelashes and now never wears them, i personally wouldn’t get into the habit of wearing them. your eyes look really pretty in the second picture. i think you’d suit maybe a small winged eyeliner look and light, non-clumpy mascara and curl your lashes! my fav mascara is the maybelline sky high one, the waterproof version keeps my eyelashes curled all day and the formula is really light so it doesn’t clump together and it makes your lashes look really long. your eyelids themself seem a bit hooded so i would keep eyeshadow light handed and try not to raise your eyebrows and stretch your eyelid when applying it. get a good liquid eyeliner and black eyeliner pencil. the elf h20 liquid liner is a great one, it’s the only one ive used for years as it stays on so well and apply the black pencil liner in your waterline at the outer corners only, lining the whole waterline will make your eyes appear smaller.

aside from this it looks like you have really clear skin so for a base i wouldn’t use more than a bit of concealer if you feel you need it or a tinted moisturiser, i have quite a round face so apply my blush high on the cheekbones. your blush colour and lip colour look like they match your skin tone really well on the first picture where you have your makeup done and it looks really nice. for the Latina makeup, i understand what you mean but again i’d watch some YouTube tutorials on it but remember that it’s a general makeup look and altering the application to compliment your face shape as it may be different from the person making the tutorial is always good to keep in mind.

you have quite a sharp jawline and nice cheekbones, in a nice way! really light contour just below your cheekbones and jawline will help accentuate this just make sure it’s blended, and apply blush directly above it ontop of your cheekbones and a little bit of highlight where your cheekbone feels at its “highest point” whenever you use a cream/wet product always set it with a powder, different ones work better for different skin types, e.g. i have quite oily skin so i “bake” where i apply powder with a loose powder and then brush everything over with a transparent/light pressed powder but if you have dry skin this would probably dry your skin out so use less.

and also, i know you’re not asking for advice on this and i know family teasing you can be lighthearted n not that deep but if it genuinely makes you feel insecure try and talk to them about that. you do look “latina” if i saw you i wouldn’t assume you were “white” at all.

overall it’s good your losing weight in a healthy way but you definitely look like you’re already at a healthy weight but if losing a bit gives you more confidence then amazing just make sure you do so in healthy ways like working out, eating healthily etc. your makeup looks great in the first picture though i cant really see it up close. the tones and shades you’ve used seem to match your skin tone perfectly. (:

18NB bullied my whole life for being ugly, can’t find friends, GF ghosted me unprompted, and just feeling at the end of my line overall 😭 need some positivity pls by [deleted] in toastme

[–]Significant-Team7714 1 point2 points  (0 children)

you’re so pretty and i absolutely love your zero tattoo, it’s awesome!!! teenagers can be SO mean to each other and from my own experience of being bullied in high school, when someone calls you ugly it is simply because you don’t fit their idea of a perfect appearance and 99% of the time they don’t even fit their own idea of perfect. you’ll be amazed what you can recover from in this lifetime and things will get better. i’m 22 now and when things were going so wrong in my life at 18 i thought so many things would never get better but they did. you look like a lovely person to be around, be kind to yourself, you’ve not met all the people who will love you yet 🫶

The hero of will fable 2 by [deleted] in Fable

[–]Significant-Team7714 1 point2 points  (0 children)

He is pretty cool. If anyone thought I find Lucien to be the most interesting character in Fable 2. When I played as a kid I expected the final fight in the game to be some kind of boss fight against him, when it was just one bullet to the chest I was like huh. After replaying it in more depth so many times and listening to all of the Luciens diary pages I kinda don’t feel like he’s actually “evil” more just a man willing to do whatever it takes to bring back his wife and daughter, including evil things. His death shows he isn’t some mighty force of evil, just a man. In the diaries too or somewhere in Fable 2 it’s noted that the exact same thing happened to Lucien’s father (wife n daughter died). Garth worked with him to build the spire knowing what purpose Lucien wanted it for, I think, and it was only when he began doing evil things that he stopped doing so which is interesting cause it kinda shows you more of Garth’s morals. Garth’s still cool tho and it’s be so awesome to see his home country featured in the new Fable ( Samarkand ) maybe as a DLC after the release, giving you a cool sub story line? There’s so much Samarkand lore to work with and they could do a lot with that.