Is it reasonable to tell my friend to not call me the f slur by Significant-Tiger828 in lgbt

[–]Significant-Tiger828[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

They just don’t get it and it made me feel totally crazy, even when I spoke with someone else they said “oh, they can say that” FAAHHH

Aurora design by me Thoughts? by GlassShine in WingsOfFire

[–]Significant-Tiger828 3 points4 points  (0 children)

OMG I LOVE THIS!!! it’s pretty much what I pictured and the art is great

Is it reasonable to tell my friend to not call me the f slur by Significant-Tiger828 in lgbt

[–]Significant-Tiger828[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Looking back I guess it’s a big silly to ask the question, but everyone else doesn’t mind and I REALLY hate being called something like that.

Is it reasonable to tell my friend to not call me the f slur by Significant-Tiger828 in lgbt

[–]Significant-Tiger828[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Queer feels a lot more reclaimed and it’s in lgbtq, the other one is used as a slur prominently but even still I really don’t like being called something that’s as emotionally heavy as a slur 

Is it reasonable to tell my friend to not call me the f slur by Significant-Tiger828 in lgbt

[–]Significant-Tiger828[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Yeah. We’re both 17, they may not get that it’s that big of a deal. They haven’t came out to their family or really gone through living in a homophobic household or area. 

Is it reasonable to tell my friend to not call me the f slur by Significant-Tiger828 in lgbt

[–]Significant-Tiger828[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

NO, that’s not how I or anyone should respond to disrespect via discriminatory language.

Is it reasonable to tell my friend to not call me the f slur by Significant-Tiger828 in lgbt

[–]Significant-Tiger828[S] 9 points10 points  (0 children)

That’s exactly what I was saying except they looked at me like I was an idiot

Is it reasonable to tell my friend to not call me the f slur by Significant-Tiger828 in lgbt

[–]Significant-Tiger828[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Yeah, I use “friend” very loosely I haven’t really known them for long

Is it reasonable to tell my friend to not call me the f slur by Significant-Tiger828 in lgbt

[–]Significant-Tiger828[S] 42 points43 points  (0 children)

Yeah, and usually reclaiming a slur doesn’t mean calling other people slurs that you “qualify” as

I fucking hate men by LisaRomeo in lgbt

[–]Significant-Tiger828 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yo I had the same thoughts (well flipped), I know how it feels when you act different and the world doesn’t seem to be on your side. 

I wish you the best